Sharon, Torey and TJ, You are truly an AWESOME family! I am so proud of what you have done these past 4 years in honor of Jacquie. I know that she is also very very proud of what you are doing and will continue to do, she is with you at all times never forget that. Sharon without your leadership, love and being the pain in the ass sometimes( I can say that since I am the older brother) the foundation would not be where it is today and helping so many others. You are a lot stronger than you think you are! Love Mark
Against Time Time drips away slowly Second by second, minute by minute, hour by hour The clock ticks on and on. You want – no, hope – for it to go faster Until it does. Then time changes to never-ending rapids you’re being forced along. No chance, no ability to stop, no abiilty to slow. You’ve made your choice. You wish to go back to when life was easy, when life went slowly by. You warn others – you want them to understand. Emjoy this. Do not wish your life away. This will not last forever. But you know they won’t. And so you continue, fighting against the rapids, knowing you will never win. A girl in my school wrote this for our Reflections Paper that we receive every year, and when I read this, I automatically thhought of Jacquie. This poem explains exactly what Jax has taught me- that life goes by in a flash, and that you should never ever take special time on earth for granted, and even though you may never win against the rapids, you keep going and BELIEVING. Wanted to share this with you guys. I hope it touches you like it did to me. Love, Natalie Maranto
Hi Hirsch’s <3I think of you all everyday but today I’m sending extra love because I know it’s an extra hard day. I so wish that Jax was here to celebrate her birthday with everyone. I hope that you know that I think of Jacquie all of the time. Her picture is on our refrigerator at home - a silly picture of her and Phil at the IB. Plus her picture is on my desk at work and reminds me everyday what we are fighting for. If ever I get stressed or anything at work I look at Jacquie and am reminded of the bigger picture. Everyday I get to fight cancer and I get to do it in her honor and I promise to keep fighting until it’s gone for good. I also have the privilege now of working for the Manhattan region of ACS. Everyday I go into the building that Sharon and Jax spent so many days and nights in. Every Wednesday I go up for Tea Time and spend time with all of the Hope Lodge guests and their families. Being there sometimes makes me sad to think of Jax there, walking around the terrace and Sharon writing updates in the computer room. Mostly though it makes me smile because it makes me feel closer to Jacquie. The Hope Lodge staff all remembers your family so well and they ask me about you. Lindsey said she still thinks of Jacquie everyday because she was so moved and inspired by her. Jacquie’s picture is in the Hope Lodge library. I guess I just want you to know that Jacquie is still very much a part of our life. She’s still a part of the Hope Lodge Staff’s life - she continues to inspire people every day and she will never be forgotten. Love you all and thinking of you always. <3 Sadie
I miss you more and more everyday and I have so many wishes that I want to be fulfilled. I wish we could hang out this summer, I wish we could go to concerts again, I wish I could see your smile again, or hear your laugh. I wish I didnt have to grow up, and grow away from the last time you and I were together. Most of all I wish you could hold us all together when I feel like we are falling apart. You always had a way of doing that…a way of being the glue that made us “whole”. I am sure you took good care of Billy when he was hurt and I know that you two are taking good care of each other now. We miss you both very much and I feel better now that you are not alone. I always liked you two toegther. You were perfect for each other and now you always will be with each other. I hope one day I will see you both again. Until then I’ll make the most of my life and live it just like you two did. With a smile and one day at a time. I love you more than life itself.
Last week I was picking up a prescription and the lady who rang me up noticed my necklace. She asked where I had gotten it because it was so beautiful and different…it is my “Believe Necklace”. So, since no one was waiting in line behind me, I told her. I told her it was designed for a beautiful girl who fought a very brave, very hard fight, and in the process taught me so much. After just telling her a very little bit, tears came to her eyes and she apologized. As sad as I was that I upset her, I was glad that someone else was able to hear the story of such a wonderful person. Jax, I could use a special favor. Rick has had his transplant pushed back twice now, the second time due to the fact that they found blasts in his bone marrow. The Miller family could use a little Tink dust these days, so could you please sprinkle some down for them? I miss you always.
Thinking of you guys as springtime always reminds me of getting my car detailed at a great place (wink) and even better, Jacquie for A.L.L. Cruise against Cancer coming up in the peak of summer!Still remembering back to the WNHS gymnasium, and the ever so small team that I was a part of, yet having a blast and enjoying the Hirsch family. We miss you, Jax. I’ve had cancer touch two special people in my life that I am aware of in the past year, which also invigorated my commitment to donating to Roswell. Thinking of you, Torey, TJ, and Sharon. I’ll try to stop by and say hi soon. Doug
Hey Jax! I’ll never be ok with the fact that you’re not here with us anymore…but for the 1st time since you’ve been gone, I have a sense of comfort knowing that you’re no longer alone. Our hero, Billy, is now by your side again. I’ll never understand why you two were taken at such a young age, when you still had so much to offer the world. Billy’s out of the war and you’re cancer free and that’s all we’ve ever wanted, except not in this way. Give Billy a huge hug and kiss and tell him that we are so glad that he was apart of our family! I love you both forever and always and can’t wait to be reunited with you again! Until then, take care of each other and know that we all miss you each and everyday!!! I love you!!!!!!
Dear Sharon – As always, it was so nice to see you today. Once again you hosted an awesome ’fun meet’ for the cutest little gymnasts ever! The experience they gain at these meets is so important for their growth and development, and you’ve provided such a beautiful venue for them and their families. On a sadder note, please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of S Sgt Billy Wilson. I’ve read many of his posts in the past and I’m acutely aware of how close he was to your family, especially Jackie. As we discussed earlier, neither of us understands why his death had to happen but take solace in the knowledge that he died doing what he loved – defending his country. That very brave soldier is now in heaven, protecting and loving your Jackie as he once did here on earth. Together for all eternity – two shining stars lighting up our universe. Stay strong Sharon, you are loved and admired by so many………..Wendy
Sharon and Torey, I was so happy to have gone to the Challenge this weekend. I know that Jacquie is so proud of both of you, for everything you do for her Foundation and the gym. I look up to you guys for your immense amount of strength. I know everything happens for a reason, and I know that Jacquie and her Foundation have made so many people see life in a different way, including me. Thank you for all that you do 🙂 With Love, Natalie Maranto
I haven’t written in a while Jax, but as you know, I talk to you all the time. Missing you very much as I enter another new year and my birthday today without you. I know you are with me all the time, its just different, a difference I’ll can’t get used to and wrap my arms around. You would be sooo proud of us as we are of you. Your foundation is doing very well and research breakthroughs are happening. Lives will be changed and saved because of your incrediable fight and the incrediable person you were. This year will bring some great challenges with, the gym, businesses (ours & TJ’s), and the foundation of which we will meet and exceed each and every challenge that presents itself. I put up the birthday card and messages you made for me 10 years ago. We had so much fun skiing. I love you forever Jax, your one and only Dad.
I have been working on many scholarships lately and many of them ask about service hours. The AAA Scholarship for Community Excellence asks for a detailed list of the Community Service activities that I have participated in over the years, and of course, one of them was The Jacquie Hirsch for A.L.L Clinic for a Cure. My mind has drifted from the scholarship to your family and how much you have done for the community. The Hirsch family has gone through so much and you continue to give back to the community. It’s the holiday season and my heart goes out to you. Hope everything is going well and happy holidays Hirsch’s! I miss you all very much. I BELIEVE <3
Jax, I miss your smile. You were a one of a kind friend, and I still think of you all the time. It seems like only yesterday we were running around Niagara together… I’ll always love ya girl!
Always thinking about you and the family and lifting prayers for you…. Just wanted to wish you a Blessed Christmas…I know Jacquie is with you in spirit… Here is a message from Jacquie to you, Torey and TJ…..I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below, with tiny lights, like heaven’s stars, reflecting in the snow: The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away that tear, you don’t have to worry about me…AN AMAZING THING HAS HAPPENED …. I’m spending Christmas with Jesus this year.I hear the many Christmas songs but the sound of music doesn’t compare to the choir up here…I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring, for it is beyond description, to hear the angels sing.I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart, But I am not far away. We really aren’t apart. So be happy for me …mom, dad and bro….You know i hold you dear …be happy for me….cause I’m spending Christmas with Jesus this year …. I’m sending you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above. I send you each a memory, of my undying love. After all “LOVE” is the gift, more precious than pure gold. It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.Please LOVE each other, as my father said to do,for I can’t count the blessings or love He has for each of you.So Have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear. Remember, it’s really true….I love you and miss you …but I’m so happy…I’m spending Christmas with Jesus this year …. Sending Christmas Love to you all…Karen
Jacquie, it has been a long time since I have written but you are always on my mind. Your presence in all my days is unwavering. As my kids grow, I reflect on all the times I spent with you as a child. And, I hope that I can be as good a parent as your mom and dad. I pray that tomorrow they spend some time honoring their anniversary and all that they have accomplished as a couple and individuals. You 4 are an incredible family. I love you and miss you tons!! (PS Sharon, call me. I lost all my contacts!!)
Sharon, Your November 29th post brought a tear to my eye. How cool is that? That picture deserves a spot on pictures to prove it:) Sending my love and prayers to the Hirsch 4 always. God bless, Casey
Reading your post about the Buffalo Bills gym party reminded me of the swim team overnight we had at the gym our senior year. Jacquie added SO much to the swim team – its hard to think she was only on it for two years! I know I still think about her daily – feeling lucky that I got to spend both high school and my Geneseo days with her. I wish these words were enough to help you get through the holidays, but at least you know there is another person out there BELIEVING in Jacquie always!!!! -Sarah Pinchoff
Sharon-I will be out of town for the Vera Bradley sale this year and will miss saying hello to you and Torey. I plan on doing my shopping Thursday and will be sure to tell them Jacquie sent me! Congratulations on Torey’s Wall of Fame. I am sure Jacquie is glowing with pride up in heaven!
Torey & T.J.: Congratulations!! You’ve both accomplished so much in addition to all the hard work you do with the foundation. Everyone is so proud of you, especially “Jacquie”!
The first thing I would like to say is that Mark got it 100% correct with his post. The second is a bit of a sad story I fear. A colleague’s husband was diagnosed with leukemia yesterday. I do not know many details except for the fact that it is an aggressive form and they started chemo today. I also know that the family is going to need a lot of prayers and BELIEVING sent their way. It pains me to see yet another family have to endure the pain and suffering that is caused by this awful disease. I know the Miller family will be added to your thoughts and prayers. God bless, Casey
Sharon, There is a book that is helping others and yourself and you are writing it everytime you post an update! You Torey and TJ and Jacquie are helping so many people that you don’t even know just by doing what you are doing everyday. It is the kids you are coaching at the gym, the people that read your posts for inspiration, the people receiving help at Roswell you are reaching others in an awesome way! When the time comes you will be taking all the posts that you have written and the posts others have written and putting them into a book. The name of the book will be “Jacquie Hirsch.. A story of Love and Compassion”. This will be a New York Times best seller and IT WILL HELP others. So proud of what you all have done and will continue to do! Love your brother Mark
Dear Sharon – congratulations on another successful ’Clinic for the Cure’. Amanda’s daughter Erin was so excited to meet you and take part in her first clinic. She couldn’t wait to tell me about you, Val, ’Jimsie’, and of course Jackie. It will be a day she’ll remember for a long time – she finally got her back handspring !! We all know what a thrill that is for a young gymnast. Thanks again for hosting this very special event. It is a testament to your hard work and determination to make Jackie’s dream come true.
Last night was the grand opening of a new section in our shopping center and I noticed there is a new store named Jacquie! I couldn’t believe it! I plan on taking some time to do a little shopping in there once I turn in a few of my assignments. There is also this really cute specialty shop called peter alexander which is like supre cute sleepwear and his new line is all about disney and wouldn’t you know it, the main display was tink! Your everywhere jax! missing you all like crazy and sending tons of hugs! xo Whit
Sharon, I can only speak for myself, but I BELIEVE that it is true for all of Jacquies friends; Jax is a part of me and in the decisions I make each and every day. Each day I step into my classroom, I am greeted by Jax’s picture and the lyrics of “Stand”. There is not a day that goes by where I am not thinking about Jax and thinking about what she would be doing in her own classroom or the conversations we would be having about our students, and the funny stories we would have to share with each other. Although she is not here physically with us, she is within all of us, and therefore, she is alive in spirit. Sending my love and prayers always, God bless. Casey
I didn’t know Jackie well. When she was in 9th grade I was in 11th, but I had to retake Earth Science and was in her class. Between age and personality differences I never became close to her, but we talked on occasion, and she made the class much more amusing. I enjoyed her company, and her sense of humor. That was in the 1999-2000 school year. I don’t see very many people i went to school with, so while i would wonder how some were, and what they were doing with their life, i had no real way of knowing. My brother, however, who was in her grade, dropped a bombshell on me when he told me she had passed away. I couldn’t believe it. I didn’t even need to think about who it was, he said her name and it came to me in an instant. Reading more about her here, it really breaks my heart. For her, her friends, family, and loved ones to suffer her loss, and at such a young age, is a tragedy. I wish I knew her better, and i wish i knew sooner. All my thoughts and prayers go out to her family, as well as my condolences. I barely knew her, and it’s been over a decade since i had seen her, but learning of her passing still struck me rather hard. She was a very special young woman, and will be missed.
I miss you beautiful girl. I texted your Mom this yesterday, but Beege has taken to calling my Vera stuff “Vera Bagdley” instead of Bradley. It makes me laugh, and I think you would’ve gotten a kick out of it. I really just miss you so much. Love, Alicia
Jax, I have been having a hard time lately with some life changes and big transitions. Well, I was out of town for the weekend and was driving around a random town. I stumbled upon this nail salon- it was called “Miracle Nails” and each window had a white Tinkerbell decal in the middle…. I immediately smiled and thought of you. I knew you were with me right then and there. Thank you.Even though it’s been 3 years, I can still see your smile, hear your laugh, and look back fondly on funny times together. You continue to impact my life in many ways, both big and small. I share your story with as many people as I can and will continue the courageous fight you began.Well I guess in a long-winded and roundabout way I’m just trying to say that I love and miss you, Life Partner….-M.A.
There is no closure. I think the best we can do is remember. – Well Jax, you have certainly succeeded with that!!! We will always remember you, always believe in you, always love you, and always miss you. I miss you. so. much. Keep shining down on us xoxo <3 delish <3 xoxo
I still read your posts and especially think about all of you and Jacquie at this time of year. Erin came home and she is still driving her 10 year old Subaru with her Jacquieforall bracelet around her shiftshift. Sending you our best to help you get through this week.
On this 3 year anniversary, we must never forget how Jacquie enriched the lives of those she was a part of.It feels like yesterday, yet it feels so far away, at the same time.I wish you all well as you continue to strive to improve the effects of the Foundation, and continue to “make a difference” in the lives of those also effected by Cancer by all that you do and give.I am proud to be so close to your family, and continue take part in various foundation events for such a great cause.Godspeed.
just wanted to say thank you jax for watching over Savannah as she started her first day of kindergarten today. Thinking of you today as I do every day. miss you and love you! always believing! <3
Jacquie, we just moved so we don’t have internet at home… so I came to wegs (to use their free wifi) to write to you). 3 years later and there is still such an outpour of support for you on your website, on your facebook wall. You have touched and still continue to touch so many lives and hearts. How many people can say they have accomplished what you did? Not many. Maybe no one, ever. You are still such a large part of my life. I miss you so much, the time doesn’t dull the pain, not for a second. You are in my heart and on my mind 24/7. I hope you are sneaking seconds of meatloaf from the cafeteria up in heaven 😉 😉 😉 xoxo delish xoxo Sharon, Torey, TJ: I know how incredibly proud I am of you, Jacquie’s heart must burst with pride everyday. You are all so strong. I am inspired by you everyday. You are all also in my heart and on my mind 24/7 ALL of my Love, Alicia
Thinking of you all and remembering that day 3 years ago. I remember the hope and prayers throughout the day and the overwhelming, heart wrenching grief that evening. I also remember the love and support and the friends that poured into the hospital illustrating the impact that Jax had on so many lives. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of her and wish she were here. Love you all very much, I hope you find reasons to smile today. <3 Sadie
Jacquie, Even though we never met, you and your story have profoundly affected my life for the better. As a Sig Delt, I have always been so inspired by the wonderful person I know you are. Today, when “These are Days” came on my shuffle (about a 1/1000 chance) at midnight – I BELIEVE that was you. To the Hirsch family, I’m thinking of you today.
Thinking of all the Hirsch’s with love on the eve of the beginning of our sadness…Jax’s is watching down on all of us…and the warmth of her smile is ever present. Miss you Jax’s – Mrs. Lags
Alicia says:
July 21, 2012 at 1:31 pm -
Sending all of my love to the Hirsch 4 <3 Alicia
Mark says:
July 17, 2012 at 6:02 pm -
Sharon, Torey and TJ, You are truly an AWESOME family! I am so proud of what you have done these past 4 years in honor of Jacquie. I know that she is also very very proud of what you are doing and will continue to do, she is with you at all times never forget that. Sharon without your leadership, love and being the pain in the ass sometimes( I can say that since I am the older brother) the foundation would not be where it is today and helping so many others. You are a lot stronger than you think you are! Love Mark
Anonymous says:
June 1, 2012 at 3:05 pm -
Against Time Time drips away slowly Second by second, minute by minute, hour by hour The clock ticks on and on. You want – no, hope – for it to go faster Until it does. Then time changes to never-ending rapids you’re being forced along. No chance, no ability to stop, no abiilty to slow. You’ve made your choice. You wish to go back to when life was easy, when life went slowly by. You warn others – you want them to understand. Emjoy this. Do not wish your life away. This will not last forever. But you know they won’t. And so you continue, fighting against the rapids, knowing you will never win. A girl in my school wrote this for our Reflections Paper that we receive every year, and when I read this, I automatically thhought of Jacquie. This poem explains exactly what Jax has taught me- that life goes by in a flash, and that you should never ever take special time on earth for granted, and even though you may never win against the rapids, you keep going and BELIEVING. Wanted to share this with you guys. I hope it touches you like it did to me. Love, Natalie Maranto
Anonymous says:
May 30, 2012 at 9:49 pm -
Happy Birthday Jacquie.
Anonymous says:
May 30, 2012 at 1:20 pm -
Happy Birthday, Jax. Hope you’re having an amazing birthday up in heaven. Missing, loving, and believing ALWAYS <3
Sadie says:
May 30, 2012 at 10:20 am -
Hi Hirsch’s <3I think of you all everyday but today I’m sending extra love because I know it’s an extra hard day. I so wish that Jax was here to celebrate her birthday with everyone. I hope that you know that I think of Jacquie all of the time. Her picture is on our refrigerator at home - a silly picture of her and Phil at the IB. Plus her picture is on my desk at work and reminds me everyday what we are fighting for. If ever I get stressed or anything at work I look at Jacquie and am reminded of the bigger picture. Everyday I get to fight cancer and I get to do it in her honor and I promise to keep fighting until it’s gone for good. I also have the privilege now of working for the Manhattan region of ACS. Everyday I go into the building that Sharon and Jax spent so many days and nights in. Every Wednesday I go up for Tea Time and spend time with all of the Hope Lodge guests and their families. Being there sometimes makes me sad to think of Jax there, walking around the terrace and Sharon writing updates in the computer room. Mostly though it makes me smile because it makes me feel closer to Jacquie. The Hope Lodge staff all remembers your family so well and they ask me about you. Lindsey said she still thinks of Jacquie everyday because she was so moved and inspired by her. Jacquie’s picture is in the Hope Lodge library. I guess I just want you to know that Jacquie is still very much a part of our life. She’s still a part of the Hope Lodge Staff’s life - she continues to inspire people every day and she will never be forgotten. Love you all and thinking of you always. <3 Sadie
Anonymous says:
May 24, 2012 at 7:23 pm -
I miss you more and more everyday and I have so many wishes that I want to be fulfilled. I wish we could hang out this summer, I wish we could go to concerts again, I wish I could see your smile again, or hear your laugh. I wish I didnt have to grow up, and grow away from the last time you and I were together. Most of all I wish you could hold us all together when I feel like we are falling apart. You always had a way of doing that…a way of being the glue that made us “whole”. I am sure you took good care of Billy when he was hurt and I know that you two are taking good care of each other now. We miss you both very much and I feel better now that you are not alone. I always liked you two toegther. You were perfect for each other and now you always will be with each other. I hope one day I will see you both again. Until then I’ll make the most of my life and live it just like you two did. With a smile and one day at a time. I love you more than life itself.
Casey Stiokas says:
May 4, 2012 at 8:22 pm -
Last week I was picking up a prescription and the lady who rang me up noticed my necklace. She asked where I had gotten it because it was so beautiful and different…it is my “Believe Necklace”. So, since no one was waiting in line behind me, I told her. I told her it was designed for a beautiful girl who fought a very brave, very hard fight, and in the process taught me so much. After just telling her a very little bit, tears came to her eyes and she apologized. As sad as I was that I upset her, I was glad that someone else was able to hear the story of such a wonderful person. Jax, I could use a special favor. Rick has had his transplant pushed back twice now, the second time due to the fact that they found blasts in his bone marrow. The Miller family could use a little Tink dust these days, so could you please sprinkle some down for them? I miss you always.
Doug says:
April 26, 2012 at 9:18 am -
Thinking of you guys as springtime always reminds me of getting my car detailed at a great place (wink) and even better, Jacquie for A.L.L. Cruise against Cancer coming up in the peak of summer!Still remembering back to the WNHS gymnasium, and the ever so small team that I was a part of, yet having a blast and enjoying the Hirsch family. We miss you, Jax. I’ve had cancer touch two special people in my life that I am aware of in the past year, which also invigorated my commitment to donating to Roswell. Thinking of you, Torey, TJ, and Sharon. I’ll try to stop by and say hi soon. Doug
Sharon, Torey and TJ says:
April 19, 2012 at 11:22 am -
Can’t wait to go to my first Tinker BAll, Miss al my Buffalo Family, Love you guys, Aunt Karen
Kerri says:
April 6, 2012 at 12:22 am -
Hey Jax! I’ll never be ok with the fact that you’re not here with us anymore…but for the 1st time since you’ve been gone, I have a sense of comfort knowing that you’re no longer alone. Our hero, Billy, is now by your side again. I’ll never understand why you two were taken at such a young age, when you still had so much to offer the world. Billy’s out of the war and you’re cancer free and that’s all we’ve ever wanted, except not in this way. Give Billy a huge hug and kiss and tell him that we are so glad that he was apart of our family! I love you both forever and always and can’t wait to be reunited with you again! Until then, take care of each other and know that we all miss you each and everyday!!! I love you!!!!!!
Wendy V says:
March 31, 2012 at 7:37 pm -
Dear Sharon – As always, it was so nice to see you today. Once again you hosted an awesome ’fun meet’ for the cutest little gymnasts ever! The experience they gain at these meets is so important for their growth and development, and you’ve provided such a beautiful venue for them and their families. On a sadder note, please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of S Sgt Billy Wilson. I’ve read many of his posts in the past and I’m acutely aware of how close he was to your family, especially Jackie. As we discussed earlier, neither of us understands why his death had to happen but take solace in the knowledge that he died doing what he loved – defending his country. That very brave soldier is now in heaven, protecting and loving your Jackie as he once did here on earth. Together for all eternity – two shining stars lighting up our universe. Stay strong Sharon, you are loved and admired by so many………..Wendy
Anonymous says:
January 22, 2012 at 5:49 pm -
Sharon and Torey, I was so happy to have gone to the Challenge this weekend. I know that Jacquie is so proud of both of you, for everything you do for her Foundation and the gym. I look up to you guys for your immense amount of strength. I know everything happens for a reason, and I know that Jacquie and her Foundation have made so many people see life in a different way, including me. Thank you for all that you do 🙂 With Love, Natalie Maranto
Casey Stiokas says:
January 15, 2012 at 6:34 pm -
Love you Sharon. Just thought you needed to know<3
Dad says:
January 2, 2012 at 3:06 pm -
I haven’t written in a while Jax, but as you know, I talk to you all the time. Missing you very much as I enter another new year and my birthday today without you. I know you are with me all the time, its just different, a difference I’ll can’t get used to and wrap my arms around. You would be sooo proud of us as we are of you. Your foundation is doing very well and research breakthroughs are happening. Lives will be changed and saved because of your incrediable fight and the incrediable person you were. This year will bring some great challenges with, the gym, businesses (ours & TJ’s), and the foundation of which we will meet and exceed each and every challenge that presents itself. I put up the birthday card and messages you made for me 10 years ago. We had so much fun skiing. I love you forever Jax, your one and only Dad.
Casey Stiokas says:
December 25, 2011 at 10:55 pm -
Merry Christmas Hirsch Four<3
Lily Jagodzinski says:
December 21, 2011 at 6:40 pm -
I have been working on many scholarships lately and many of them ask about service hours. The AAA Scholarship for Community Excellence asks for a detailed list of the Community Service activities that I have participated in over the years, and of course, one of them was The Jacquie Hirsch for A.L.L Clinic for a Cure. My mind has drifted from the scholarship to your family and how much you have done for the community. The Hirsch family has gone through so much and you continue to give back to the community. It’s the holiday season and my heart goes out to you. Hope everything is going well and happy holidays Hirsch’s! I miss you all very much. I BELIEVE <3
Emily Creighton says:
December 12, 2011 at 7:46 pm -
Jax, I miss your smile. You were a one of a kind friend, and I still think of you all the time. It seems like only yesterday we were running around Niagara together… I’ll always love ya girl!
Karen Calandra says:
December 12, 2011 at 4:52 pm -
Always thinking about you and the family and lifting prayers for you…. Just wanted to wish you a Blessed Christmas…I know Jacquie is with you in spirit… Here is a message from Jacquie to you, Torey and TJ…..I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below, with tiny lights, like heaven’s stars, reflecting in the snow: The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away that tear, you don’t have to worry about me…AN AMAZING THING HAS HAPPENED …. I’m spending Christmas with Jesus this year.I hear the many Christmas songs but the sound of music doesn’t compare to the choir up here…I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring, for it is beyond description, to hear the angels sing.I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart, But I am not far away. We really aren’t apart. So be happy for me …mom, dad and bro….You know i hold you dear …be happy for me….cause I’m spending Christmas with Jesus this year …. I’m sending you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above. I send you each a memory, of my undying love. After all “LOVE” is the gift, more precious than pure gold. It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.Please LOVE each other, as my father said to do,for I can’t count the blessings or love He has for each of you.So Have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear. Remember, it’s really true….I love you and miss you …but I’m so happy…I’m spending Christmas with Jesus this year …. Sending Christmas Love to you all…Karen
sue and family says:
December 4, 2011 at 6:37 pm -
Jacquie, it has been a long time since I have written but you are always on my mind. Your presence in all my days is unwavering. As my kids grow, I reflect on all the times I spent with you as a child. And, I hope that I can be as good a parent as your mom and dad. I pray that tomorrow they spend some time honoring their anniversary and all that they have accomplished as a couple and individuals. You 4 are an incredible family. I love you and miss you tons!! (PS Sharon, call me. I lost all my contacts!!)
Casey Stiokas says:
December 3, 2011 at 7:12 pm -
Sharon, Your November 29th post brought a tear to my eye. How cool is that? That picture deserves a spot on pictures to prove it:) Sending my love and prayers to the Hirsch 4 always. God bless, Casey
Anonymous says:
November 28, 2011 at 4:23 pm -
Reading your post about the Buffalo Bills gym party reminded me of the swim team overnight we had at the gym our senior year. Jacquie added SO much to the swim team – its hard to think she was only on it for two years! I know I still think about her daily – feeling lucky that I got to spend both high school and my Geneseo days with her. I wish these words were enough to help you get through the holidays, but at least you know there is another person out there BELIEVING in Jacquie always!!!! -Sarah Pinchoff
Sadie says:
November 27, 2011 at 11:36 pm -
I am thankful that I knew Jacquie and she made my life better <3 Thinking of you all on Thanksgiving and always. <3 Sadie
Judy Redding says:
November 16, 2011 at 9:56 am -
Sharon-I will be out of town for the Vera Bradley sale this year and will miss saying hello to you and Torey. I plan on doing my shopping Thursday and will be sure to tell them Jacquie sent me! Congratulations on Torey’s Wall of Fame. I am sure Jacquie is glowing with pride up in heaven!
Sue P says:
November 15, 2011 at 9:58 am -
Torey & T.J.: Congratulations!! You’ve both accomplished so much in addition to all the hard work you do with the foundation. Everyone is so proud of you, especially “Jacquie”!
Anonymous says:
November 6, 2011 at 5:42 pm -
Miss you so much and time “does not” make it any easier!
Casey Stiokas says:
October 26, 2011 at 8:56 pm -
The first thing I would like to say is that Mark got it 100% correct with his post. The second is a bit of a sad story I fear. A colleague’s husband was diagnosed with leukemia yesterday. I do not know many details except for the fact that it is an aggressive form and they started chemo today. I also know that the family is going to need a lot of prayers and BELIEVING sent their way. It pains me to see yet another family have to endure the pain and suffering that is caused by this awful disease. I know the Miller family will be added to your thoughts and prayers. God bless, Casey
Mark says:
October 22, 2011 at 8:48 am -
Sharon, There is a book that is helping others and yourself and you are writing it everytime you post an update! You Torey and TJ and Jacquie are helping so many people that you don’t even know just by doing what you are doing everyday. It is the kids you are coaching at the gym, the people that read your posts for inspiration, the people receiving help at Roswell you are reaching others in an awesome way! When the time comes you will be taking all the posts that you have written and the posts others have written and putting them into a book. The name of the book will be “Jacquie Hirsch.. A story of Love and Compassion”. This will be a New York Times best seller and IT WILL HELP others. So proud of what you all have done and will continue to do! Love your brother Mark
Wendy V says:
October 18, 2011 at 9:26 pm -
Dear Sharon – congratulations on another successful ’Clinic for the Cure’. Amanda’s daughter Erin was so excited to meet you and take part in her first clinic. She couldn’t wait to tell me about you, Val, ’Jimsie’, and of course Jackie. It will be a day she’ll remember for a long time – she finally got her back handspring !! We all know what a thrill that is for a young gymnast. Thanks again for hosting this very special event. It is a testament to your hard work and determination to make Jackie’s dream come true.
Anonymous says:
October 17, 2011 at 12:19 pm -
I miss you so much Jacquie, please bring me a sign so I can keep believing its getting so difficult everyday and the pain never ends!!
Anonymous says:
October 13, 2011 at 8:52 pm -
Last night was the grand opening of a new section in our shopping center and I noticed there is a new store named Jacquie! I couldn’t believe it! I plan on taking some time to do a little shopping in there once I turn in a few of my assignments. There is also this really cute specialty shop called peter alexander which is like supre cute sleepwear and his new line is all about disney and wouldn’t you know it, the main display was tink! Your everywhere jax! missing you all like crazy and sending tons of hugs! xo Whit
Casey Stiokas says:
October 2, 2011 at 9:32 pm -
Sharon, I can only speak for myself, but I BELIEVE that it is true for all of Jacquies friends; Jax is a part of me and in the decisions I make each and every day. Each day I step into my classroom, I am greeted by Jax’s picture and the lyrics of “Stand”. There is not a day that goes by where I am not thinking about Jax and thinking about what she would be doing in her own classroom or the conversations we would be having about our students, and the funny stories we would have to share with each other. Although she is not here physically with us, she is within all of us, and therefore, she is alive in spirit. Sending my love and prayers always, God bless. Casey
Josiah Jacob says:
September 24, 2011 at 9:47 pm -
I didn’t know Jackie well. When she was in 9th grade I was in 11th, but I had to retake Earth Science and was in her class. Between age and personality differences I never became close to her, but we talked on occasion, and she made the class much more amusing. I enjoyed her company, and her sense of humor. That was in the 1999-2000 school year. I don’t see very many people i went to school with, so while i would wonder how some were, and what they were doing with their life, i had no real way of knowing. My brother, however, who was in her grade, dropped a bombshell on me when he told me she had passed away. I couldn’t believe it. I didn’t even need to think about who it was, he said her name and it came to me in an instant. Reading more about her here, it really breaks my heart. For her, her friends, family, and loved ones to suffer her loss, and at such a young age, is a tragedy. I wish I knew her better, and i wish i knew sooner. All my thoughts and prayers go out to her family, as well as my condolences. I barely knew her, and it’s been over a decade since i had seen her, but learning of her passing still struck me rather hard. She was a very special young woman, and will be missed.
Casey Stiokas says:
September 19, 2011 at 7:28 pm -
Sharon, Us children always need a mom, no matter how far we are from home, we always need a mom:)
Alicia says:
September 15, 2011 at 10:59 am -
I miss you beautiful girl. I texted your Mom this yesterday, but Beege has taken to calling my Vera stuff “Vera Bagdley” instead of Bradley. It makes me laugh, and I think you would’ve gotten a kick out of it. I really just miss you so much. Love, Alicia
Anonymous says:
September 12, 2011 at 6:47 pm -
Jax, I have been having a hard time lately with some life changes and big transitions. Well, I was out of town for the weekend and was driving around a random town. I stumbled upon this nail salon- it was called “Miracle Nails” and each window had a white Tinkerbell decal in the middle…. I immediately smiled and thought of you. I knew you were with me right then and there. Thank you.Even though it’s been 3 years, I can still see your smile, hear your laugh, and look back fondly on funny times together. You continue to impact my life in many ways, both big and small. I share your story with as many people as I can and will continue the courageous fight you began.Well I guess in a long-winded and roundabout way I’m just trying to say that I love and miss you, Life Partner….-M.A.
Alicia says:
September 10, 2011 at 12:18 am -
There is no closure. I think the best we can do is remember. – Well Jax, you have certainly succeeded with that!!! We will always remember you, always believe in you, always love you, and always miss you. I miss you. so. much. Keep shining down on us xoxo <3 delish <3 xoxo
Judy Redding says:
September 7, 2011 at 8:45 pm -
I still read your posts and especially think about all of you and Jacquie at this time of year. Erin came home and she is still driving her 10 year old Subaru with her Jacquieforall bracelet around her shiftshift. Sending you our best to help you get through this week.
Anonymous says:
September 6, 2011 at 10:05 pm -
Thinking of you today and everyday<3 i miss you
cmd says:
September 6, 2011 at 6:25 pm -
Thinking of you today. <3
Casey Stiokas says:
September 6, 2011 at 5:01 pm -
To the Hirsch 4, I cannot believe it has been 3 years. Sending all of my love and prayers your way, today, and always. God bless, Casey
Doug T says:
September 6, 2011 at 2:20 pm -
On this 3 year anniversary, we must never forget how Jacquie enriched the lives of those she was a part of.It feels like yesterday, yet it feels so far away, at the same time.I wish you all well as you continue to strive to improve the effects of the Foundation, and continue to “make a difference” in the lives of those also effected by Cancer by all that you do and give.I am proud to be so close to your family, and continue take part in various foundation events for such a great cause.Godspeed.
Keesha says:
September 6, 2011 at 1:46 pm -
just wanted to say thank you jax for watching over Savannah as she started her first day of kindergarten today. Thinking of you today as I do every day. miss you and love you! always believing! <3
Alicia says:
September 6, 2011 at 12:41 pm -
Jacquie, we just moved so we don’t have internet at home… so I came to wegs (to use their free wifi) to write to you). 3 years later and there is still such an outpour of support for you on your website, on your facebook wall. You have touched and still continue to touch so many lives and hearts. How many people can say they have accomplished what you did? Not many. Maybe no one, ever. You are still such a large part of my life. I miss you so much, the time doesn’t dull the pain, not for a second. You are in my heart and on my mind 24/7. I hope you are sneaking seconds of meatloaf from the cafeteria up in heaven 😉 😉 😉 xoxo delish xoxo Sharon, Torey, TJ: I know how incredibly proud I am of you, Jacquie’s heart must burst with pride everyday. You are all so strong. I am inspired by you everyday. You are all also in my heart and on my mind 24/7 ALL of my Love, Alicia
Sadie says:
September 6, 2011 at 9:49 am -
Thinking of you all and remembering that day 3 years ago. I remember the hope and prayers throughout the day and the overwhelming, heart wrenching grief that evening. I also remember the love and support and the friends that poured into the hospital illustrating the impact that Jax had on so many lives. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of her and wish she were here. Love you all very much, I hope you find reasons to smile today. <3 Sadie
Anonymous says:
September 6, 2011 at 9:22 am -
sending all my love and strenght to the most amazing family I know. Missing you tons jax, always, always, always believing! xo
Harry says:
September 6, 2011 at 7:38 am -
Sharon, TJ, Torey, and Jax, Thinking of you Always, Believing Forever.
Mary says:
September 6, 2011 at 12:13 am -
Jacquie, Even though we never met, you and your story have profoundly affected my life for the better. As a Sig Delt, I have always been so inspired by the wonderful person I know you are. Today, when “These are Days” came on my shuffle (about a 1/1000 chance) at midnight – I BELIEVE that was you. To the Hirsch family, I’m thinking of you today.
Anonymous says:
September 5, 2011 at 9:03 pm -
Thinking of all the Hirsch’s with love on the eve of the beginning of our sadness…Jax’s is watching down on all of us…and the warmth of her smile is ever present. Miss you Jax’s – Mrs. Lags
Lauren Schilling says:
September 5, 2011 at 1:12 pm -
Just thinking about Jacquie and loving her! You guys are all incredible!