I am a fellow Geneseo graduate and I am now in school to become a Radiation Therapist. I have for the past year and for the next 40 will be working with cancer patients and thier families in the fight against this terrible disease. People often ask me how I can do that kind of job, how I can see it everyday, and what I tell them is that I can because what it shows to me is LOVE, HOPE, the human spirit, and strength. Your family has been the best example of this that I have seen. Jacquie fought so hard and showed so much strength, but so did her family and friends around her. The amount of love in your circle of family and friends is amazing and will carry you through. What an inspriration you all are to all of us. To show that nothing can come between the love of a family. Jacquie’s story is one that I hold close to my heart because I can see so much of myself in her…and it would be my honor to continue this fight everyday while thinking of her and her strenth and courage. Thank you all for sharing her with us. *There must be borrowed angels Here in this life They come along Into the world And make the world bright They cant stay forever Because they’re heaven-sent And sometimes, heaven needs them back again*
Sharon, Torey and TJ It seems God took Jacquie home to be without pain as she had accomplished so much here on earth. I have a Sister who is developementally disabled (my parents were told she would not live 7 years) and I often wonder why God has left her here so long. My Mom is now 98 and still mentally very fit. But God works in mysterious ways and I think Mom is here to continue to give my sister support. She is very dependant on her and that seems to be Moms mission in life. Jacquie has taught us all to be aware of every human need, mostly the need to be loved for who we are. You must have taught her that long ago. You must be very proud that God sent her to you . She will continue to live on through each of you as you reach out to help others and spread so much love and caring. We think of each of you daily and only hope that we give each of our children that same unconditional love to pass down to their children.
Tink~ I can hardly believe that it was eleven days ago that i got that awful phone call..but even though your not here with us on earth, i know that with every breath i take and every movement that i make you are watching over me..i cannot even express to you the saddness and emptyness that i feel inside..its unbelievable.. Sharon..your words and strength are a true inspiration.. Jax’s was a wonderful gift and will continue to be one. She will continue to watch over you and Torey and TJ…She is never gone, she will always be with you, watching over you and believing with you.. don’t ever stop believing.. Please let me know if there is anything i can do for you and your family. Julie
Jacquie,I miss you soo much. It’s still so unreal to me. You will forever be missed and loved by all…Sharon, Torey, and TJI commend you for your incredible strength and honesty during this unbearable time. We are all behind you to help you through this. Still believing
Sharon (and Torey and Tj) This is more a mother to mother note:I can’t even imagine what you are going through, my heart has such a hole in it , I can’t imagine how yours feels. I just want to let you know I am here at any time any moment you want to scream please give me a call. We have alot ahead of us to make sure one day no other family will have to go through what you have. I just want you to know we love you and we miss Jax more than I can put into words. Please let me know if thre is anything that I can do. As always you are in our every thought! I will continue to “Believe”. I feel very blessed to have Jax as the angel watching over us!
When I clicked on the “Guestbook” icon, it said “Write a message for Jacquie to read”. So that’s exactly what I’m doing. Jacquie, we all miss you very, very much! But I know you’re here with each of us, as I can feel your presence in my heart. I also know that I’m a different person than I was 2 weeks ago and that it’s because of you. I can hear you telling me that each day is a gift that shouldn’t be wasted, and that there are no guarantees in life, especially when it comes to the people we love. I’m truly thankful for all that you’ve taught me. Now I have a favor to ask of you. Please reach down to your mom, dad, and brother and through your presence in their hearts, give them the strength they will need to get through these difficult times ahead. And I hope they will also draw strength from knowng the tremendous amount of love and support that family and friends, both near and far, continue to sent there way. Jacquie, I miss you and will continue to think of you each and every day. With all my love – your Godfather, Dave
Dear Hirsch Family- I never knew Jacquie, I only heard of her and her amazing courage through Sadie, whom I work with at The American Cancer Society ( Syracuse, NY Office ). I just wanted to let you know that so many of us there now know Jacquie’s story. She was a truly inspiring person who sounded like she touched everyone she ever met. We have been thinking and praying of her and your family….and we will continue to do so. God Bless.
I just wanted to send my love to all of Jacquie’s family and friends. I didn’t know Jacquie well, but I will never, ever forget her. It’s true that she was a teacher, no matter what, because she taught me and many, many others the most important lesson. For that, I will always be grateful! I will continue to think of her every day and remember to be thankful for every breath! Thank you for sharing Jacquie’s story with all of us and remember that we will be praying for you forever! <3 <3
today; alicia, my prayer card is right here by the computer, with an additional prayer that says:’This is the day which the LORD hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.’ i always say, do whatever is right for you……if some one does not understand, it is their problem. there are no right or wrongs, just grief and an overwhelming sadness for our loss. we cope the best way we can, and frankly some moments are better than others. many say jacquie has taught us so much and they are right. hopefully we will never forget the lessons that jacquie and her family has taught us all. they will sustain us. sharon, you speak of screaming…i go into my field and i scream, for jacquie, for you and torey and for tj, for all who loved her…i scream, WHY, WHY and there is no answer. they say silence is golden and out there in that field i feel that silence and somehow it helps. my love is sent to all, to the cousins, sheryl, bree, my girls, to all and everyone who loves you, jacquie and your family.. aunt val
Sharon and Jacquie too, Struggling today more so at this moment than others. I know from experience (on a totally different level) this is how it goes for the rest of your life when your heart is broken for one reason or another. but knowing that sure does not make those “moments” any easier. Guess one just has to allow themselves to have them but last night watching Elise at soccer practice was not a good time to have one of those nor was this morning at jazzercise, so I focused really hard on the leopard print leo that the woman next to me was wearing that was identical to one I wore 20 some years ago with you Sharon in our aerobic class. And yea, as TJs friends kindly pointed out, it is so 80’s, but that comment makes me laugh now, everytime I go to class. Know that I am thinking of you and you are always with me and I am here, far, but with you none the less. Take care of you. Love, Sara
Dear Sharon, Stay strong for Jacquie and remember that she will never truely be gone. When you feel weak remember that Jacquie lives on inside of Torey and TJ, as well as yourself. Although it is very difficult at the moment, one of Jacquies biggest lessons was to love those close to you, and tell them. I am happy that you are putting your thoughts on here because simply speaking about it, or writing it down helps the recovery a lot. I know you really want to thank everybody oh so much, but i Believe that inside all of us, we already know. Torey and TJ, although you both are or seem to be at peace, I understand that it can still be very hard at times, and pray that both of you, and Sharon, can continue to be strong. If any one of you is feeling particulary weak you have eachother to count on, not to mention the wall of people that I know are willing to bend over backwards for each one of you. Take care, Love each other and celebrate what Jacquie did and taught in her life. ~Joe Browning
To the Hirsch’s -It’s been so hard for me to write on here again, but I thought if Sharon has the strength, I could express my thoughts too. You truly are an amazing family… as Sadie said, to be able to still be thanking us for what we have done for Jacquie is incredible. You all have made a difference for us, and as much as you feel it will take a lifetime to send your thank-yous, it would take me a lifetime to send you mine. I am still believing more than ever, and have not taken off my bracelet. I don’t think I ever will. I have learned so much from your family about love, strength, and belief among a million other things. Jacquie,You are truly missed, and my heart is still aching along with everyone elses. You are an incredible person and have influenced my life forever. ALWAYS ALWAYS BELIEVING
Hi Family: Jax was on my mind this morning so I logged on and read Sharon’s update on the 14th. I miss her so much and I cannot imagine what you all are going through. I had a bereaved spouse tell me once that grief is a chronic illness that you will always have; some days are better than others, but it is always there. The trick is learning to live with a chronic illness. My thoughts are sure with you today. Love, Sandy
Dear Sharon, Torey, and T.J., In the story Peter Pan Tink asks every one to clap…. loud… and as hard as they can if they Believe. As you know, Corey told Jacquie he would clap every day for her… and clap he did. He would tell everyone about her, where ever we went, and ask them to clap for her too. Soon every sports team and classmates alike were all clapping for Jacquie and believed in her fight against cancer. The other night before he feel asleep I heard him clapping. I poked my head in and he said “I’m clapping for Jacquie, she did a great job Mom and now she can hear me because she is an Angel in heaven.” He clapped long and hard that night and I believe Jacquie was clapping right along with him. Her spirit, her kindness, her love, and her fight against cancer WILL continue! Every one of us, EVERYONE she has touched, will see to that. Jacquie is not done teaching her lessons. I believe we are all going to learn a lot more from the legacy she has left, as time goes on. Please know I am praying so hard for all of you. Sending strength and so much love. Believing Missy
Sharon/Torey, My Dad saw Jacquie’s story in the Amherst Bee and called me in Florida to let me know. We are completely shocked as we did not know what she was going through this past year. My heart is with you. God bless you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dear Aunt Sharon,Uncle Torey and TJ… I cant seem to find the words to start writing! I cant because I didnt plan on writing on here again! I thought why write to help rally for Jacquie when she was so unfairly taken from us! I feel such a huge loss that I find it so hard to go back to my “normal” daily routines. Its strange, when I first got my tattoo for Jacquie I loved people asking about it and her, constantly looking for updates and sending prayers and hope our way! Now I find it to be difficult to hold back tears when people ask me what “We Believe” is for, or how is your cousin doing, or just expressing their condolences…how can I believe anymore I thought, because it just doesnt seem possible! Today a friend told me that Aunt Sharon had written an update and I immediatley jumped on the computer to read what you had to say… thank you for helping me realize that it isnt over, and it isnt time to stop believing now that jacquie is no longer physically with us! You helped me to realize that instead of tears I should smile when people ask me about Jacquie/Believe/Tattoo. I have the opportunity everyday to share a story of how wonderful of person Jacquie was, the hero she became to me and the love I was lucky enough to have shared with her! Jacquie will always be apart of me! I hope you know that I will NEVER stop believing, because like you said that is not what Jacquie would want! I love you all sooo very much! I am blessed for the strong bond our family has, over this past year especially! With All My Love and Sympathy, Cousin Angela
Hello all, Alicia I feel the same way. When Jacquie got diagnosed last year it was like she was everywhere – I would think about her constantly and even dream about her! It was like I was some teenage girl with a new crush!! Well now that certainly hasn’t stopped and I am pretty confident it will never stop and I’m glad. I still think about her constantly and I still dream about her! I actually had a dream that we were kids and having a sleepover and eating Peanut butter and Jelly Sandwiches. Well we didn’t meet until I was 20 so that obviously never actually happened but the dream felt real and comforting and it made me glad. I know that Jacquie will be the driving force behind so many things I do in my life and I bet so many others feel the same way. I know that she will inspire us forever. To the Hirsch’s et al. I love you guys and think of you constantly. Let us know when you’re up for visitors because like we said before we are not going away. 🙂 Love in our beautiful Jacquie, <3 Sadie
Jacquie…we are all missing you. Alicia…I too thought of hanging my prayer card on the fridge and wondered the same thing and decided it was my choice and if that is what I wanted, it was OK! Jacquie agreed. Sharon, Torey, TJ, and Jacquie too… None if this makes sense to me, it never will; it sure does not feel right. But Jacquie gives to my life still, during moments I think of her and all of you and it impacts my heart and soul in ways that don’t need explanation. I wish for your entire family- rest and some laughs and some strength. Love, sara and family
Sharon, Thank you for the beautiful message. I continue to hope that as time goes on, you will all heal. It was a great honor to meet and get to know your family. Jacquie will obviously be missed, but will live on in all of you as you talk about her and share her legacy. Take great care of yourselves and of each other. Always, Jen Boehm
the sun is starting to rise again out here in az…it had a tough time this past week but must have decided to get going again…and we will… it will take time but we will get up each morning…look around and figure out what we will make of the day…jacquie told us that… to all the people i met last week while in town… continue to be the support for this wonderful family…we have all known them for awhile, some longer than others, some that have never met face to face, but know them none the less… we all love our parents… we all love our siblings… we all love our cousins… we all love our grandparents… we all love our friends… look at what jacquie has in torey sharon and especially tj (because i’m a big brother too, he gets special mention)… how lucky she is… the family that gathered this past year is huge… to my moms “GIRLS”… you must be careful allowing aunt val into your world…she will be there if she says so…she will check out all your boyfriends to make sure they are right for you…and she will remember each and everyone of you… to alicia…if i had words i’d use them but i dont…if a hug is worth 1000 words, i gave you 8000… i told you it felt like i knew you for years…dont know why but it did… to all the rest of you…keep the fight…beat this horrible disease…i know it will take those we love from us in the years to come, but if it does to you or your loved ones…this family showed us how to believe
its funny, when Jacquie was sick I used to think that every single little thing reminded me of her: pretty much any song I heard, any food I ate, any book I read… everything reminded me of her. Well don’t think that that has stopped. I actually think that somehow even more things remind me of Jacquie. Though she’s not here for us to enjoy in her laughter and jokes, I do know that she is ALL around us. One more thing: I took one of the prayer cards I got from her services, and I put it on my fridge. This may not be typical protocol, honestly I was not raised religious so I do not know if this is proper, and I am sorry if it offends anyone. But can you think of a better place for her prayer card? Now every time I go to the fridge to get something to eat I see her beautiful face smiling at me! Telling me to go for another serving of whatever I was eating.Hirsch’s I just think you all are amazing… I always commented on Jacquie’s courage and how brave she was… but you too, you are all so courageous and so brave. I admire you three (and the rest of the extended Hirsch family) in the same way I admired Jacquie. Hold onto each other, hold onto your thousands of beautiful memories, close your eyes and hear Jacquie’s voice in your head. These are the things that WILL get you through. I love you ALL so much. In my heart & on my mind ALLways<3 alicia <3p.s. When I was speaking with my Mom last week she made a very wonderful point. She said that in Jacquie experienced more, and did more in her short life than 5 people who live until they are old. It is so true. In her 23 years she touched more people’s lives, more hearts, and helped more people to appreciate the little and big things in life, than 5 eighty year olds combined. What a gift your daughter is to this world.. and I would never dare saw "was", because Jacquie is still giving more and more to this world, even after she has left it.I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!!!!!!
Torey, Sharon & TJ- I just want to let you know that I love you guys and I’m thinking about you constantly. I wish there was something i could say or do to ease your pain, but i know its not that easy. just know that we all care about you and will always be here for support and whatever you need. I truely admire how strong and brave you all are. you guys are one heck of a family. <3 love you always, Whitney ps. so today i was at fridays and i opened my book too take an order and there was jax! i have no idea how her picture got in there! i just smiled and was happy to have her at work with me today.
To the Hirsch Family, My sincerest condolences are with you during this incredibly difficult time. I did not hear of this news until just tonight, and have been in tears ever since. TJ.. Unfortunately you and I have lost touch with each other over the past few years, and I very much regret this. I knew Jacquie had been sick…we spoke over IM last fall and you told me all about it. I didnt realize things had progressed so quickly. Jaquie was such a spirited person, and I am so happy to have known her and to have been her teammate. It is with tremendous sadness that I did not make opportunity to see her after I was first informed of her ilness, and I will forever regret this. You never realize how meaningful some things are until they are gone. TJ I am sick to think of you feeling this pain, and please know that my thoughts are with you and your entire family. In Deepest Sympathy, Christine Senneca
To The Hirsch Family, I learned about your daughters courageous battle at our dance studio as we were informed of the upcoming event “Dancers Give Back”. My daughters have danced for numerous years and through those years we have had many ups and downs. Your story has touched my heart as we have had illness also plague our family so the pain you are feeling breaks my heart. Know that your daughter has touched many hearts and although I have never met her I felt so warm as I watched the beautiful slide show of her life. I hope your event on Oct. 4th is a huge success. I reach out to dancers everywhere to “give back” and help keep Jacquie’s memory alive. Be at peace knowing your daughter touched more lives in 22 years than many people touch in far more than that. I am a firm believer that God put some of us on this Earth truly to be angels. How lucky your daughter truly is.Now that she has touched so many lives and shown so many people what is means to fight it was time for her to go home. God knew that her beautiful family would continue on Earth the fight for other cancer patients. For that I say Thank you and God Bless Your Family.
Hirsch family,Jacquie was one of the first people that I met at Geneseo. We had an instant connection because we grew up in neighboring towns. (I was from Clarence) She had the kindest demeanor and was someone that I always strived to be like. I sincerely admired her positive attitude towards everything and believe that she was someone very special. My thoughts and prayers are with you. With greatest love and sympathy,Rachel
The Hirsch Family,”Never say goodbye. Because goodbye means going away, and going away means forgetting.” –Peter PanWe will never say goodbye to Jacquie, it’s always “see you later!” Your family’s journey over the past year has been truly inspiring to all. I know that so many people have said this, but you really do have an army behind you. We will ALL BELIEVE forever and will fight this horrible disease until a cure is found, and even then, we will move on to another disease to fight. I still find it hard to believe that Jacquie has actually physically left us. I continue to check this website every time I go on the internet. When I read your post last night Sharon, it brought me to tears and like many others, I’m sure, I headed straight to youtube to search ’the rainbow connection’ and I’m sure that Jacquie would love to hear you sing it again and continue to sing it and think of her. You all have been so strong through this entire battle and I cannot even begin to imagine how hard these days have been and will continue to be. I know everyone is telling you that things will get easier, and they will, but until then, we are all here behind you, even if we do not know you as well as we wish. Thank you for raising such a beautiful daughter/sister who has taught me to appreciate every second of every day.My thoughts, prayers, and love is with you always,Cassey Stallman
I just wanted to send my sympathy to all of you. Jacquie was a wonderful girl and an inspirational one at that. Sandy has kept me up to date on Jacquie’s journey through her fight. As us older people teaching younger children things in life, Jax has taught us the most important thing in life: to live each day to the absolute fullest! Love, Mrs. Banks
Sharon, Thank you so much for writing that post, It was so beautiful. It must have made Jacquie feel so loved, safe and content as you sang Rainbow Connection to her in the hospital. Please know you are so loved as well. Every one of us are still here, now supporting you and sending you and your family strength through prayer. We love all of you so much. Missy
Sharon, I loved your post… my dad also used to play/sing Kermit’s Rainbow Connection to us when we were little, now he plays it for my little niece-his grandaughter. Its the wierdest thing because whever she hears it she just stops crying… she could be in the middle of the biggest fit ever and when the song comes on she is silent. Maybe its Tink sprinkling a little bit of pixi dust and calming her down. I cant imagine what you all are going through now but like so many others have said, Jacquie changed my life and I feel so blessed to have called her a friend. Please know that you and your family as well have touched me as well as my family. Hang in there and know that we are all remembering Jax and her beautiful smile and soul. Jacquita- what a beautiful sight it was last wed. and Thursday to see so many people there to celbrate your life. I think about you all the time and have shared your life with so many people. Hope your having fun up there. Love you kid. Mel
The Hirsch Family, You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. The strength, love, and courage your family has shown these past 11 months is truly unreal. I am amazed at how strong you are and this strength, without a doubt, was shown through Jax. The service last Thursday was beautiful and one of the most touching, meaningful, and eye opening experiences I have ever been a part of. The days previous, I couldn’t help but cry and think of how unfair it was. Then, at the service, and especially the reception, I looked around and couldn’t help but smile. What a true testament to Jax? The amount of people she touched and left a mark on was hundreds (probably even thousands). The people that gathered to celebrate her life was a heartwarming sight. She is an amazing person and will continue to touch our lives daily. I know the days ahead will be taken one at a time, and nothing said will make it easier, but know you are in every one of our hearts, and Jax’s. Thank you for being an example to all of us. TJ-thank you for helping us all see things a little more clearly and Sharon and Torey,-thank you for bringing Jax, the inspiration, into our lives.
Sharon I just read your latest update..and you are truly an incredible human being. You are a wonderful Mother. I am sure that you know this already..but I just had to mention..as Lyssa and I were in line waiting to say our Goodbyes and give our hugs to all of you…there was a rainbow right overhead… The Rainbow Connection Surely that was a message from Jacquie. I will always BELIEVE Sharon
I am inspired by Jacquie even though I never knew her. My prayers of love our sent to your family. She was obviously quite a bright light in this world.
sharon, torey and tj, the tears are still falling…i keep reminding myself that this pain is nothing compared to what Jacquie endured… you all are on my mind 24/7…you are all heroes…your love and strength is immeasurable…i wish i had had more time with jax as she grew up, but that is what she is teaching me…sharon, call ANYTIME and find peace in the fact that jacquie is no longer suffering but watching the world which she changed…all my love!
So last night, I had to run out to my car to get a book… and the weather was crazy- windy as all heck, and the clouds were just blowing through the sky. And instead of running straight to my car, cursing the d*mn wind and rain for mussing my hair, I took a look at the sky, and appreciated how awesome that moment was. So I sat down and just watched the sky, and the clouds whipping by, and the moon, and I appreciated the chance that I had to be there in that moment. I of course credit Jacquie 100% for this. She is teaching us all, constantly, in big ways, and small ways.I just thought I would share that. I love you all, hang tight Hirsch’s and family and friends. xoxoxo <3 alicia <3P.S. Sharon, last night when I read your post, I went to youtube and played "rainbow connection." I bet Jacquie loved it when you would sing it to her.
Sharon, I find myself still checking the website every morning, and I am so glad that I did today. Your words have been inspiring through out Jacquie’s fight. And today even more so. I can’t imagine how hard this is for you. And yet you still manage to sit down and write a beautiful letter to help make us feel a little better. The next few days, weeks, months and years will probably be very difficult for you, please find some comfort in knowing that everyone is still thinking about Jacquie and praying for you and your family. Jacquie had an army behind her during the battle, and now she has passed it on to you. All of the Believers, are now Belieiving for you. I love you Sharon. xoxo Ashley
Jacquie and family you are continually in our thoughts as we daily think about your impact on so many lives. Even with the beautiful service you were constanly thinking of others. May God continue to give you courage and comfort as you carry on Jacquie’s legacy. You are always in our hearts and if we can help in any way please call. Love Gene and Marcia
Aunt Sharon-Your words were so beautiful. Jacquie was so lucky to have a BFF and mom like you. You took such good care of her and I know she is so thankful for that. I found this line from the movie Peter Pan today online and it seems very appropriate…Tinkerbell: “You know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember dreaming? That’s where I’ll always love you, Peter Pan. That’s where I’ll be waiting.”I know one day I will see her again but until then I will honor her life everyday. I can’t wait to tell Olivia all about her and pass along everything Jax has taught me to her. That will be my gift to Olivia. Your ALWAYS in my thoughts…I love you Aunt Sharon!
Torey, Sharon, and TJ, I wanted to share Jacquie’s beautiful poem to our congregation this morning, so during announcements I stood up, and at first nothing came out. But then the tears began to fall, and the words began to flow. There were not many dry eyes in the church after I was done. Jacquie’s story touched many people in my church over the past 11 months, and I was asked by a number of people to make copies of the poem because it was so beautiful. I just wanted to share with you that Jax continues to teach and inspire even after life, and that people continue to Believe. God bless you all, Casey ps Jax, I told Dad it was okay to throw the banana peels outside because, “they’re biodegradable, why not?”:)
Hello Hirsches! Just wanted to send a note to let you know that I am thinking of you all and of Jax. Sharon, your last post was a great one, brought tears to my eyes as well. My hearts is heavy these days, wishing there was something I could do to ease all of your pain and my own. Then I think of Jacquie and her little giggle and think to myself “hot dog,” what a great person Jacquie was. My life is going to be different now… Keep your chins up!love,Pauline :)BELIEVE
Hello, Sharon your post is beautiful, so real and heartfelt and again I find myself amazed that you are sending thank you to us when we should be thanking you for sharing your amazing daughter with us. And like always I wish there were words to make everything better but of course there aren’t. I will say that Jacquie is indeed the best teacher I have ever known – she has taught so many people and she’s taught them the most important lesson they will ever learn. I will forever be grateful to her for that and I will for the rest of my life do my best to continue her lessons so that her teaching never stops. I love you guys and am thinking of you every single day. BELIEVING always, <3 SadiePS - Today the Bills played Jacksonville so in the corner with the score it said "Jax" the whole game. It made me smile and made me miss her even more. I bet she was watching them too (I bet she helped them win)
MARCH 15th 2008 – Day 23 March Update…… To all please, It’s a must to read !!!! It shows the person Jacquie is. Truly beautiful. Prayers and strength to the Hirsch family, we will remember Jacquie….God bless. BELIEVER
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Kate says:
September 18, 2008 at 12:27 pm -
I am a fellow Geneseo graduate and I am now in school to become a Radiation Therapist. I have for the past year and for the next 40 will be working with cancer patients and thier families in the fight against this terrible disease. People often ask me how I can do that kind of job, how I can see it everyday, and what I tell them is that I can because what it shows to me is LOVE, HOPE, the human spirit, and strength. Your family has been the best example of this that I have seen. Jacquie fought so hard and showed so much strength, but so did her family and friends around her. The amount of love in your circle of family and friends is amazing and will carry you through. What an inspriration you all are to all of us. To show that nothing can come between the love of a family. Jacquie’s story is one that I hold close to my heart because I can see so much of myself in her…and it would be my honor to continue this fight everyday while thinking of her and her strenth and courage. Thank you all for sharing her with us. *There must be borrowed angels Here in this life They come along Into the world And make the world bright They cant stay forever Because they’re heaven-sent And sometimes, heaven needs them back again*
Sadie says:
September 18, 2008 at 11:37 am -
Sending you all so much love. I’m thinking of you constantly. <3 Sadie
Marcia says:
September 18, 2008 at 1:00 am -
Sharon, Torey and TJ It seems God took Jacquie home to be without pain as she had accomplished so much here on earth. I have a Sister who is developementally disabled (my parents were told she would not live 7 years) and I often wonder why God has left her here so long. My Mom is now 98 and still mentally very fit. But God works in mysterious ways and I think Mom is here to continue to give my sister support. She is very dependant on her and that seems to be Moms mission in life. Jacquie has taught us all to be aware of every human need, mostly the need to be loved for who we are. You must have taught her that long ago. You must be very proud that God sent her to you . She will continue to live on through each of you as you reach out to help others and spread so much love and caring. We think of each of you daily and only hope that we give each of our children that same unconditional love to pass down to their children.
Julie Wallenhorst says:
September 18, 2008 at 12:29 am -
Tink~ I can hardly believe that it was eleven days ago that i got that awful phone call..but even though your not here with us on earth, i know that with every breath i take and every movement that i make you are watching over me..i cannot even express to you the saddness and emptyness that i feel inside..its unbelievable.. Sharon..your words and strength are a true inspiration.. Jax’s was a wonderful gift and will continue to be one. She will continue to watch over you and Torey and TJ…She is never gone, she will always be with you, watching over you and believing with you.. don’t ever stop believing.. Please let me know if there is anything i can do for you and your family. Julie
Anonymous says:
September 17, 2008 at 11:12 pm -
Jacquie,I miss you soo much. It’s still so unreal to me. You will forever be missed and loved by all…Sharon, Torey, and TJI commend you for your incredible strength and honesty during this unbearable time. We are all behind you to help you through this. Still believing
Kim says:
September 17, 2008 at 10:33 pm -
Sharon (and Torey and Tj) This is more a mother to mother note:I can’t even imagine what you are going through, my heart has such a hole in it , I can’t imagine how yours feels. I just want to let you know I am here at any time any moment you want to scream please give me a call. We have alot ahead of us to make sure one day no other family will have to go through what you have. I just want you to know we love you and we miss Jax more than I can put into words. Please let me know if thre is anything that I can do. As always you are in our every thought! I will continue to “Believe”. I feel very blessed to have Jax as the angel watching over us!
missy says:
September 17, 2008 at 10:21 pm -
Dear Sharon, I’m putting my arms around you and holding you so tight in my heart. Sending prayers of strength. Believing Missy
Dave says:
September 17, 2008 at 9:12 pm -
When I clicked on the “Guestbook” icon, it said “Write a message for Jacquie to read”. So that’s exactly what I’m doing. Jacquie, we all miss you very, very much! But I know you’re here with each of us, as I can feel your presence in my heart. I also know that I’m a different person than I was 2 weeks ago and that it’s because of you. I can hear you telling me that each day is a gift that shouldn’t be wasted, and that there are no guarantees in life, especially when it comes to the people we love. I’m truly thankful for all that you’ve taught me. Now I have a favor to ask of you. Please reach down to your mom, dad, and brother and through your presence in their hearts, give them the strength they will need to get through these difficult times ahead. And I hope they will also draw strength from knowng the tremendous amount of love and support that family and friends, both near and far, continue to sent there way. Jacquie, I miss you and will continue to think of you each and every day. With all my love – your Godfather, Dave
Betsy Barrett says:
September 17, 2008 at 7:41 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family- I never knew Jacquie, I only heard of her and her amazing courage through Sadie, whom I work with at The American Cancer Society ( Syracuse, NY Office ). I just wanted to let you know that so many of us there now know Jacquie’s story. She was a truly inspiring person who sounded like she touched everyone she ever met. We have been thinking and praying of her and your family….and we will continue to do so. God Bless.
Lindsay Parker says:
September 17, 2008 at 6:33 pm -
I just wanted to send my love to all of Jacquie’s family and friends. I didn’t know Jacquie well, but I will never, ever forget her. It’s true that she was a teacher, no matter what, because she taught me and many, many others the most important lesson. For that, I will always be grateful! I will continue to think of her every day and remember to be thankful for every breath! Thank you for sharing Jacquie’s story with all of us and remember that we will be praying for you forever! <3 <3
aunt val says:
September 17, 2008 at 4:38 pm -
today; alicia, my prayer card is right here by the computer, with an additional prayer that says:’This is the day which the LORD hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.’ i always say, do whatever is right for you……if some one does not understand, it is their problem. there are no right or wrongs, just grief and an overwhelming sadness for our loss. we cope the best way we can, and frankly some moments are better than others. many say jacquie has taught us so much and they are right. hopefully we will never forget the lessons that jacquie and her family has taught us all. they will sustain us. sharon, you speak of screaming…i go into my field and i scream, for jacquie, for you and torey and for tj, for all who loved her…i scream, WHY, WHY and there is no answer. they say silence is golden and out there in that field i feel that silence and somehow it helps. my love is sent to all, to the cousins, sheryl, bree, my girls, to all and everyone who loves you, jacquie and your family.. aunt val
Sara (albuquerque) says:
September 17, 2008 at 2:49 pm -
Sharon and Jacquie too, Struggling today more so at this moment than others. I know from experience (on a totally different level) this is how it goes for the rest of your life when your heart is broken for one reason or another. but knowing that sure does not make those “moments” any easier. Guess one just has to allow themselves to have them but last night watching Elise at soccer practice was not a good time to have one of those nor was this morning at jazzercise, so I focused really hard on the leopard print leo that the woman next to me was wearing that was identical to one I wore 20 some years ago with you Sharon in our aerobic class. And yea, as TJs friends kindly pointed out, it is so 80’s, but that comment makes me laugh now, everytime I go to class. Know that I am thinking of you and you are always with me and I am here, far, but with you none the less. Take care of you. Love, Sara
Joe Browning says:
September 17, 2008 at 11:32 am -
Dear Sharon, Stay strong for Jacquie and remember that she will never truely be gone. When you feel weak remember that Jacquie lives on inside of Torey and TJ, as well as yourself. Although it is very difficult at the moment, one of Jacquies biggest lessons was to love those close to you, and tell them. I am happy that you are putting your thoughts on here because simply speaking about it, or writing it down helps the recovery a lot. I know you really want to thank everybody oh so much, but i Believe that inside all of us, we already know. Torey and TJ, although you both are or seem to be at peace, I understand that it can still be very hard at times, and pray that both of you, and Sharon, can continue to be strong. If any one of you is feeling particulary weak you have eachother to count on, not to mention the wall of people that I know are willing to bend over backwards for each one of you. Take care, Love each other and celebrate what Jacquie did and taught in her life. ~Joe Browning
Rosina says:
September 17, 2008 at 10:55 am -
Kathy says:
September 17, 2008 at 10:55 am -
Sarah Pinchoff says:
September 17, 2008 at 10:54 am -
To the Hirsch’s -It’s been so hard for me to write on here again, but I thought if Sharon has the strength, I could express my thoughts too. You truly are an amazing family… as Sadie said, to be able to still be thanking us for what we have done for Jacquie is incredible. You all have made a difference for us, and as much as you feel it will take a lifetime to send your thank-yous, it would take me a lifetime to send you mine. I am still believing more than ever, and have not taken off my bracelet. I don’t think I ever will. I have learned so much from your family about love, strength, and belief among a million other things. Jacquie,You are truly missed, and my heart is still aching along with everyone elses. You are an incredible person and have influenced my life forever. ALWAYS ALWAYS BELIEVING
Sandy Jensen says:
September 17, 2008 at 9:31 am -
Hi Family: Jax was on my mind this morning so I logged on and read Sharon’s update on the 14th. I miss her so much and I cannot imagine what you all are going through. I had a bereaved spouse tell me once that grief is a chronic illness that you will always have; some days are better than others, but it is always there. The trick is learning to live with a chronic illness. My thoughts are sure with you today. Love, Sandy
Nidhi says:
September 16, 2008 at 10:15 pm -
All my love, wishes, prayers, and thoughts to family and friends.
missy says:
September 16, 2008 at 8:24 pm -
Dear Sharon, Torey, and T.J., In the story Peter Pan Tink asks every one to clap…. loud… and as hard as they can if they Believe. As you know, Corey told Jacquie he would clap every day for her… and clap he did. He would tell everyone about her, where ever we went, and ask them to clap for her too. Soon every sports team and classmates alike were all clapping for Jacquie and believed in her fight against cancer. The other night before he feel asleep I heard him clapping. I poked my head in and he said “I’m clapping for Jacquie, she did a great job Mom and now she can hear me because she is an Angel in heaven.” He clapped long and hard that night and I believe Jacquie was clapping right along with him. Her spirit, her kindness, her love, and her fight against cancer WILL continue! Every one of us, EVERYONE she has touched, will see to that. Jacquie is not done teaching her lessons. I believe we are all going to learn a lot more from the legacy she has left, as time goes on. Please know I am praying so hard for all of you. Sending strength and so much love. Believing Missy
Kate Haney (Baldwin) says:
September 16, 2008 at 3:42 pm -
Sharon/Torey, My Dad saw Jacquie’s story in the Amherst Bee and called me in Florida to let me know. We are completely shocked as we did not know what she was going through this past year. My heart is with you. God bless you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Angela says:
September 16, 2008 at 3:26 pm -
Dear Aunt Sharon,Uncle Torey and TJ… I cant seem to find the words to start writing! I cant because I didnt plan on writing on here again! I thought why write to help rally for Jacquie when she was so unfairly taken from us! I feel such a huge loss that I find it so hard to go back to my “normal” daily routines. Its strange, when I first got my tattoo for Jacquie I loved people asking about it and her, constantly looking for updates and sending prayers and hope our way! Now I find it to be difficult to hold back tears when people ask me what “We Believe” is for, or how is your cousin doing, or just expressing their condolences…how can I believe anymore I thought, because it just doesnt seem possible! Today a friend told me that Aunt Sharon had written an update and I immediatley jumped on the computer to read what you had to say… thank you for helping me realize that it isnt over, and it isnt time to stop believing now that jacquie is no longer physically with us! You helped me to realize that instead of tears I should smile when people ask me about Jacquie/Believe/Tattoo. I have the opportunity everyday to share a story of how wonderful of person Jacquie was, the hero she became to me and the love I was lucky enough to have shared with her! Jacquie will always be apart of me! I hope you know that I will NEVER stop believing, because like you said that is not what Jacquie would want! I love you all sooo very much! I am blessed for the strong bond our family has, over this past year especially! With All My Love and Sympathy, Cousin Angela
Sadie says:
September 16, 2008 at 1:23 pm -
Hello all, Alicia I feel the same way. When Jacquie got diagnosed last year it was like she was everywhere – I would think about her constantly and even dream about her! It was like I was some teenage girl with a new crush!! Well now that certainly hasn’t stopped and I am pretty confident it will never stop and I’m glad. I still think about her constantly and I still dream about her! I actually had a dream that we were kids and having a sleepover and eating Peanut butter and Jelly Sandwiches. Well we didn’t meet until I was 20 so that obviously never actually happened but the dream felt real and comforting and it made me glad. I know that Jacquie will be the driving force behind so many things I do in my life and I bet so many others feel the same way. I know that she will inspire us forever. To the Hirsch’s et al. I love you guys and think of you constantly. Let us know when you’re up for visitors because like we said before we are not going away. 🙂 Love in our beautiful Jacquie, <3 Sadie
Sara (albuquerque) says:
September 16, 2008 at 12:42 pm -
Jacquie…we are all missing you. Alicia…I too thought of hanging my prayer card on the fridge and wondered the same thing and decided it was my choice and if that is what I wanted, it was OK! Jacquie agreed. Sharon, Torey, TJ, and Jacquie too… None if this makes sense to me, it never will; it sure does not feel right. But Jacquie gives to my life still, during moments I think of her and all of you and it impacts my heart and soul in ways that don’t need explanation. I wish for your entire family- rest and some laughs and some strength. Love, sara and family
Jen Boehm (nurse from Roswell) says:
September 16, 2008 at 11:16 am -
Sharon, Thank you for the beautiful message. I continue to hope that as time goes on, you will all heal. It was a great honor to meet and get to know your family. Jacquie will obviously be missed, but will live on in all of you as you talk about her and share her legacy. Take great care of yourselves and of each other. Always, Jen Boehm
Michael Stoughton says:
September 16, 2008 at 9:48 am -
the sun is starting to rise again out here in az…it had a tough time this past week but must have decided to get going again…and we will… it will take time but we will get up each morning…look around and figure out what we will make of the day…jacquie told us that… to all the people i met last week while in town… continue to be the support for this wonderful family…we have all known them for awhile, some longer than others, some that have never met face to face, but know them none the less… we all love our parents… we all love our siblings… we all love our cousins… we all love our grandparents… we all love our friends… look at what jacquie has in torey sharon and especially tj (because i’m a big brother too, he gets special mention)… how lucky she is… the family that gathered this past year is huge… to my moms “GIRLS”… you must be careful allowing aunt val into your world…she will be there if she says so…she will check out all your boyfriends to make sure they are right for you…and she will remember each and everyone of you… to alicia…if i had words i’d use them but i dont…if a hug is worth 1000 words, i gave you 8000… i told you it felt like i knew you for years…dont know why but it did… to all the rest of you…keep the fight…beat this horrible disease…i know it will take those we love from us in the years to come, but if it does to you or your loved ones…this family showed us how to believe
alicia says:
September 16, 2008 at 9:32 am -
its funny, when Jacquie was sick I used to think that every single little thing reminded me of her: pretty much any song I heard, any food I ate, any book I read… everything reminded me of her. Well don’t think that that has stopped. I actually think that somehow even more things remind me of Jacquie. Though she’s not here for us to enjoy in her laughter and jokes, I do know that she is ALL around us. One more thing: I took one of the prayer cards I got from her services, and I put it on my fridge. This may not be typical protocol, honestly I was not raised religious so I do not know if this is proper, and I am sorry if it offends anyone. But can you think of a better place for her prayer card? Now every time I go to the fridge to get something to eat I see her beautiful face smiling at me! Telling me to go for another serving of whatever I was eating.Hirsch’s I just think you all are amazing… I always commented on Jacquie’s courage and how brave she was… but you too, you are all so courageous and so brave. I admire you three (and the rest of the extended Hirsch family) in the same way I admired Jacquie. Hold onto each other, hold onto your thousands of beautiful memories, close your eyes and hear Jacquie’s voice in your head. These are the things that WILL get you through. I love you ALL so much. In my heart & on my mind ALLways<3 alicia <3p.s. When I was speaking with my Mom last week she made a very wonderful point. She said that in Jacquie experienced more, and did more in her short life than 5 people who live until they are old. It is so true. In her 23 years she touched more people’s lives, more hearts, and helped more people to appreciate the little and big things in life, than 5 eighty year olds combined. What a gift your daughter is to this world.. and I would never dare saw "was", because Jacquie is still giving more and more to this world, even after she has left it.I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!!!!!!
Anonymous says:
September 16, 2008 at 1:19 am -
Torey, Sharon & TJ- I just want to let you know that I love you guys and I’m thinking about you constantly. I wish there was something i could say or do to ease your pain, but i know its not that easy. just know that we all care about you and will always be here for support and whatever you need. I truely admire how strong and brave you all are. you guys are one heck of a family. <3 love you always, Whitney ps. so today i was at fridays and i opened my book too take an order and there was jax! i have no idea how her picture got in there! i just smiled and was happy to have her at work with me today.
Christine Senneca says:
September 15, 2008 at 11:20 pm -
To the Hirsch Family, My sincerest condolences are with you during this incredibly difficult time. I did not hear of this news until just tonight, and have been in tears ever since. TJ.. Unfortunately you and I have lost touch with each other over the past few years, and I very much regret this. I knew Jacquie had been sick…we spoke over IM last fall and you told me all about it. I didnt realize things had progressed so quickly. Jaquie was such a spirited person, and I am so happy to have known her and to have been her teammate. It is with tremendous sadness that I did not make opportunity to see her after I was first informed of her ilness, and I will forever regret this. You never realize how meaningful some things are until they are gone. TJ I am sick to think of you feeling this pain, and please know that my thoughts are with you and your entire family. In Deepest Sympathy, Christine Senneca
Patti Fox says:
September 15, 2008 at 11:19 pm -
To The Hirsch Family, I learned about your daughters courageous battle at our dance studio as we were informed of the upcoming event “Dancers Give Back”. My daughters have danced for numerous years and through those years we have had many ups and downs. Your story has touched my heart as we have had illness also plague our family so the pain you are feeling breaks my heart. Know that your daughter has touched many hearts and although I have never met her I felt so warm as I watched the beautiful slide show of her life. I hope your event on Oct. 4th is a huge success. I reach out to dancers everywhere to “give back” and help keep Jacquie’s memory alive. Be at peace knowing your daughter touched more lives in 22 years than many people touch in far more than that. I am a firm believer that God put some of us on this Earth truly to be angels. How lucky your daughter truly is.Now that she has touched so many lives and shown so many people what is means to fight it was time for her to go home. God knew that her beautiful family would continue on Earth the fight for other cancer patients. For that I say Thank you and God Bless Your Family.
Rachel Ippolito says:
September 15, 2008 at 10:20 pm -
Hirsch family,Jacquie was one of the first people that I met at Geneseo. We had an instant connection because we grew up in neighboring towns. (I was from Clarence) She had the kindest demeanor and was someone that I always strived to be like. I sincerely admired her positive attitude towards everything and believe that she was someone very special. My thoughts and prayers are with you. With greatest love and sympathy,Rachel
Cassey says:
September 15, 2008 at 9:48 pm -
The Hirsch Family,”Never say goodbye. Because goodbye means going away, and going away means forgetting.” –Peter PanWe will never say goodbye to Jacquie, it’s always “see you later!” Your family’s journey over the past year has been truly inspiring to all. I know that so many people have said this, but you really do have an army behind you. We will ALL BELIEVE forever and will fight this horrible disease until a cure is found, and even then, we will move on to another disease to fight. I still find it hard to believe that Jacquie has actually physically left us. I continue to check this website every time I go on the internet. When I read your post last night Sharon, it brought me to tears and like many others, I’m sure, I headed straight to youtube to search ’the rainbow connection’ and I’m sure that Jacquie would love to hear you sing it again and continue to sing it and think of her. You all have been so strong through this entire battle and I cannot even begin to imagine how hard these days have been and will continue to be. I know everyone is telling you that things will get easier, and they will, but until then, we are all here behind you, even if we do not know you as well as we wish. Thank you for raising such a beautiful daughter/sister who has taught me to appreciate every second of every day.My thoughts, prayers, and love is with you always,Cassey Stallman
Torey, Sharon,TJ says:
September 15, 2008 at 9:06 pm -
I just wanted to send my sympathy to all of you. Jacquie was a wonderful girl and an inspirational one at that. Sandy has kept me up to date on Jacquie’s journey through her fight. As us older people teaching younger children things in life, Jax has taught us the most important thing in life: to live each day to the absolute fullest! Love, Mrs. Banks
missy says:
September 15, 2008 at 8:04 pm -
Sharon, Thank you so much for writing that post, It was so beautiful. It must have made Jacquie feel so loved, safe and content as you sang Rainbow Connection to her in the hospital. Please know you are so loved as well. Every one of us are still here, now supporting you and sending you and your family strength through prayer. We love all of you so much. Missy
Mel Cook says:
September 15, 2008 at 7:37 pm -
Sharon, I loved your post… my dad also used to play/sing Kermit’s Rainbow Connection to us when we were little, now he plays it for my little niece-his grandaughter. Its the wierdest thing because whever she hears it she just stops crying… she could be in the middle of the biggest fit ever and when the song comes on she is silent. Maybe its Tink sprinkling a little bit of pixi dust and calming her down. I cant imagine what you all are going through now but like so many others have said, Jacquie changed my life and I feel so blessed to have called her a friend. Please know that you and your family as well have touched me as well as my family. Hang in there and know that we are all remembering Jax and her beautiful smile and soul. Jacquita- what a beautiful sight it was last wed. and Thursday to see so many people there to celbrate your life. I think about you all the time and have shared your life with so many people. Hope your having fun up there. Love you kid. Mel
aunt val says:
September 15, 2008 at 6:34 pm -
sharon, you take my breath away… val
Rory says:
September 15, 2008 at 4:44 pm -
TJ, Torey, and Sharon – You are constantly in my thoughts. Jacquie’s life and message will not be forgotten. – Rory
Anonymous says:
September 15, 2008 at 4:24 pm -
The Hirsch Family, You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. The strength, love, and courage your family has shown these past 11 months is truly unreal. I am amazed at how strong you are and this strength, without a doubt, was shown through Jax. The service last Thursday was beautiful and one of the most touching, meaningful, and eye opening experiences I have ever been a part of. The days previous, I couldn’t help but cry and think of how unfair it was. Then, at the service, and especially the reception, I looked around and couldn’t help but smile. What a true testament to Jax? The amount of people she touched and left a mark on was hundreds (probably even thousands). The people that gathered to celebrate her life was a heartwarming sight. She is an amazing person and will continue to touch our lives daily. I know the days ahead will be taken one at a time, and nothing said will make it easier, but know you are in every one of our hearts, and Jax’s. Thank you for being an example to all of us. TJ-thank you for helping us all see things a little more clearly and Sharon and Torey,-thank you for bringing Jax, the inspiration, into our lives.
Sharon Colasanti says:
September 15, 2008 at 3:30 pm -
Sharon I just read your latest update..and you are truly an incredible human being. You are a wonderful Mother. I am sure that you know this already..but I just had to mention..as Lyssa and I were in line waiting to say our Goodbyes and give our hugs to all of you…there was a rainbow right overhead… The Rainbow Connection Surely that was a message from Jacquie. I will always BELIEVE Sharon
Anonymous says:
September 15, 2008 at 2:48 pm -
When I landed here a year ago, I know that I believed; that it was better to die upon your feet than to live upon your knees.
Brad Mazon says:
September 15, 2008 at 2:00 pm -
I am inspired by Jacquie even though I never knew her. My prayers of love our sent to your family. She was obviously quite a bright light in this world.
sue and family says:
September 15, 2008 at 1:14 pm -
sharon, torey and tj, the tears are still falling…i keep reminding myself that this pain is nothing compared to what Jacquie endured… you all are on my mind 24/7…you are all heroes…your love and strength is immeasurable…i wish i had had more time with jax as she grew up, but that is what she is teaching me…sharon, call ANYTIME and find peace in the fact that jacquie is no longer suffering but watching the world which she changed…all my love!
alicia says:
September 15, 2008 at 1:00 pm -
So last night, I had to run out to my car to get a book… and the weather was crazy- windy as all heck, and the clouds were just blowing through the sky. And instead of running straight to my car, cursing the d*mn wind and rain for mussing my hair, I took a look at the sky, and appreciated how awesome that moment was. So I sat down and just watched the sky, and the clouds whipping by, and the moon, and I appreciated the chance that I had to be there in that moment. I of course credit Jacquie 100% for this. She is teaching us all, constantly, in big ways, and small ways.I just thought I would share that. I love you all, hang tight Hirsch’s and family and friends. xoxoxo <3 alicia <3P.S. Sharon, last night when I read your post, I went to youtube and played "rainbow connection." I bet Jacquie loved it when you would sing it to her.
Huer says:
September 15, 2008 at 9:37 am -
Sharon, I find myself still checking the website every morning, and I am so glad that I did today. Your words have been inspiring through out Jacquie’s fight. And today even more so. I can’t imagine how hard this is for you. And yet you still manage to sit down and write a beautiful letter to help make us feel a little better. The next few days, weeks, months and years will probably be very difficult for you, please find some comfort in knowing that everyone is still thinking about Jacquie and praying for you and your family. Jacquie had an army behind her during the battle, and now she has passed it on to you. All of the Believers, are now Belieiving for you. I love you Sharon. xoxo Ashley
Trosteruds says:
September 15, 2008 at 6:36 am -
Jacquie and family you are continually in our thoughts as we daily think about your impact on so many lives. Even with the beautiful service you were constanly thinking of others. May God continue to give you courage and comfort as you carry on Jacquie’s legacy. You are always in our hearts and if we can help in any way please call. Love Gene and Marcia
Kelly Van Slyke says:
September 14, 2008 at 10:50 pm -
Danielle Cook says:
September 14, 2008 at 10:32 pm -
Aunt Sharon-Your words were so beautiful. Jacquie was so lucky to have a BFF and mom like you. You took such good care of her and I know she is so thankful for that. I found this line from the movie Peter Pan today online and it seems very appropriate…Tinkerbell: “You know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember dreaming? That’s where I’ll always love you, Peter Pan. That’s where I’ll be waiting.”I know one day I will see her again but until then I will honor her life everyday. I can’t wait to tell Olivia all about her and pass along everything Jax has taught me to her. That will be my gift to Olivia. Your ALWAYS in my thoughts…I love you Aunt Sharon!
Casey Stiokas says:
September 14, 2008 at 8:54 pm -
Torey, Sharon, and TJ, I wanted to share Jacquie’s beautiful poem to our congregation this morning, so during announcements I stood up, and at first nothing came out. But then the tears began to fall, and the words began to flow. There were not many dry eyes in the church after I was done. Jacquie’s story touched many people in my church over the past 11 months, and I was asked by a number of people to make copies of the poem because it was so beautiful. I just wanted to share with you that Jax continues to teach and inspire even after life, and that people continue to Believe. God bless you all, Casey ps Jax, I told Dad it was okay to throw the banana peels outside because, “they’re biodegradable, why not?”:)
Pauline Cantatore says:
September 14, 2008 at 8:48 pm -
Hello Hirsches! Just wanted to send a note to let you know that I am thinking of you all and of Jax. Sharon, your last post was a great one, brought tears to my eyes as well. My hearts is heavy these days, wishing there was something I could do to ease all of your pain and my own. Then I think of Jacquie and her little giggle and think to myself “hot dog,” what a great person Jacquie was. My life is going to be different now… Keep your chins up!love,Pauline :)BELIEVE
Sadie says:
September 14, 2008 at 8:18 pm -
Hello, Sharon your post is beautiful, so real and heartfelt and again I find myself amazed that you are sending thank you to us when we should be thanking you for sharing your amazing daughter with us. And like always I wish there were words to make everything better but of course there aren’t. I will say that Jacquie is indeed the best teacher I have ever known – she has taught so many people and she’s taught them the most important lesson they will ever learn. I will forever be grateful to her for that and I will for the rest of my life do my best to continue her lessons so that her teaching never stops. I love you guys and am thinking of you every single day. BELIEVING always, <3 SadiePS - Today the Bills played Jacksonville so in the corner with the score it said "Jax" the whole game. It made me smile and made me miss her even more. I bet she was watching them too (I bet she helped them win)
for all !!!!! says:
September 14, 2008 at 6:56 pm -
MARCH 15th 2008 – Day 23 March Update…… To all please, It’s a must to read !!!! It shows the person Jacquie is. Truly beautiful. Prayers and strength to the Hirsch family, we will remember Jacquie….God bless. BELIEVER