Thinking of you Jacquie!! Sharon, You write beautifully because it is totally from the heart and soul. Your words at the service on Thursday were amazing, as I can only imagine how extremely difficult that moment may have been for your heart. I am with you, even though I am miles away. TJ, The website and all you have done with the foundation is just incredible. I know for sure that you will continue to do amazing things and have great successes throughout your life. To Sharon, TJ and Torey, I will forever invision your family as 4. That incredible love and bond will always stand out in my mind. I wish you continued strength, courage and energy to keep taking steps forward. I miss Jacquie and can not even begin to guess or imagine how much your hearts are missing her. I send my love and hugs. Sara
Sharon, Torey and TJ, Just note to thank you all for such a beautiful service last Thursday. I went to Williamsville to console and comfort and left motivated and inspired. I’ll do whatever I can to help with the advancement of Jacquie’s foundation. God bless you all. Harry Jax – I go down my road, throw out a banana peel and shout “eeek” almost everyday.
Hirsch’s and Family,You are all outstanding as is Jacquie. No words could express everything I learned and took from her. I will always think about her and carry her with me. She showed me strength, love and how to live life.Sharon, as embarrassing as it may be, I love that Jax told you everything. You all had an amazing relationship and if living with her for 3 years didnt show me that, I saw it through the past year. I love you all very much and want you to know that just about every moment of every day, I find a thought about Jax crossing my mind. Whether its a movie quote, bathroom humor or just a simple memory it always makes me smile.I hate being so far but I will be up to visit soon.<3Bina
to the hirsch family… I am soo amazed by your courage and strength… thank you so much for allowing us to share in jacquie’s fight… although this has made you vulnerable, you have allowed thousands to be affected by such an amazing, beautiful, and inspiring person… may you receive comfort and strength through this difficult time… god bless…
Dear Sharon,Torey and T.J., Just a little note to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. If you need us for anything, day or night please just let us know. We will be here for all of you, always. BELIEVING Missy
Sharon, Torey and TJ, Just wanted to let you know that Jacquie’s service was beautiful. She was definitely smiling on all of you! After the beautiful balloon launch we were walking to the parking lot and I couldn’t help but notice the joyful sound of children laughing next door at the playground. Jacquie was there, in their laughter and love for life! She has taught all of us to appreciate the little things and she will always be in our hearts! You are all in our daily thoughts and prayers! love, Missy, Mark and the girls
Hello Hirsch’s, Just writing again to remind you that we are thinking of you always. I know that everything you do right now is hard because you are constantly feeling Jacquie’s physical absence but I hope that you can also feel her with you always. She will forever be in our hearts and we are proud to continue her brave fight against cancer in her honor.I love you guys and am thinking of you every minute. BELIEVING, <3 SadiePS - Tell Grandma Bree that my cousin is currently working on designing me a tattoo for Jax so I’ll be ready to go soon!
Torey, Sharon and Tj,I just want you to know you are constantly on my mind. I am always thinking of you and praying that you can find peace through all of this. I know that everyone has been saying this, but I want you to know how true it is..you are one of the strongest most amazing families I have ever been touched by. Over the years, through gymnastics, your family has always been there for me, at North and GBGC. And now I want you to know that I’m here for you. If you ever need anything, I’m only a short drive away. I will always keep Jacquie in my heart. She was an amazing person who has touched and taught thousands of people. Stay strong.There are so many people here to help you through this. You are never alone. <3with love and prayers,Mindy Long
To the Hirsch Family: I feel a pull everyday to come to your loving tribute for your daughter, Jacquie. Thru the past months I have asked my daughter daily how Jacque was doing. I feel as I knew her and her lovely family. I hope that one day I have the honour to meet you. All thou I know you have many loving friends and family, please know that if there is anything I can do to help keep Jacquie’s memory alive in the Rochester area. I am a member of Gilda’s in the Rochester area . Please contact me anytime thru my daughter, Jenny Ramsey. Fondly, Judy Ramsey-Owens
jacquie, i just wanted to let you know how much i love you.hirsch’s, i love you all too!!! you are the most amazing family ever. you have made it through 11 months of being by jacs side through her terrible fight, and now you have made it through the first week of living life without her. be proud of yourselves, as i would often tell jacquie… YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU KNOW. in my heart & on my mind allways. please let me know if i can do anything. i am known to make some mean brownies & chocolate chip cookies!xoxoxo ALL OF MY LOVE<3 delisha <3
Torey, Sharon, TJ, thank you for such a beautiful service on sept.11. it was poignant and sad but so beautiful. she will be greatly missed, but i look at the tinkerbell balloon one of sharon’s sister’s gave savannah and i think that jacquie is truly free to fly and keep watch. she will live on in each of us, and in our children, we will never forget, and we will continue to believe. keep her close to your hearts, let your friends and families help you through this terrible time. let those of us who loved jacquie help you. when you need us we are here for each of you, okay? we love you keesha, jeremy and savannah keilly
Jacquie, I am still coping with the fact that you are no longer on earth and are a true “TINK”…. words cannot express how much you have impacted peoples’ lives and have made them better… i believe that you were sent here with a purpose and although we thought our time with you would never end, you had a plan all along… from you i have learned how to appreciate life and accept myself… i never thought that could be possible… you are my hero… and even though i am sad you are gone, i am so honored to have been a part of your life… to think that i have been honored to laugh and smile with you…. rest easy now, tink, and shine over your family most of all… they need you….in my heart and on my mind always….
Below are a few poems/quotes that hopefully will bring peace to you during this difficult time. Forever remember Jacquie and the joy that she had brought into the lives of everyone around her. God Bless “Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.””When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.” ~Kahlil Gibran A child is now at restFor a safer place she remainsA world of goodness and beautyA world without worry or pain.Nor fear will she encounterFor a better place she’ll beA place where the sick are healedAnd the blinded eyes can see.Our world has forever changedOur lives are not the sameBut close within our heartsHer precious face remains.We give to her our tearsAnd our prayers we send aboveWe cherish all the memoriesFilled with happiness and love.She’ll have someone to depend onA helping hand is there to lendFor the Father shall be watchingAnd in heaven, she’ll have a friend
Torey and Sharon…. I want to thank you for sharing the past 11 months with me…I know many years have passed since we were in high school…but these past eleven months you opened up your daily lives for me to get to know you and your beautiful family in a very personal and emotional way…I feel very connected to you all…I grew to know your lovely daughter through this website that TJ so amazingly put together….and you all so devotedly wrote in EVERYDAY… for all of us to participate and be actively engaged in prayers, thoughts and encouragement…as theraputic as it was … I know it was difficult to manage on many days….But I do want to thank you for sharing your lives… it has helped me grow and understand even more about trials and tribulations and how many times we are tested throughout our lives and it’s how we handle those times that are so important… you all persevered through…YOU ALL came together as a family…one unit….Pulling together, loving on each other…fighting against the cancer together, BELIEVING, PERSEVERING and maintaining HOPE…throughout it all…I know in your hearts…that you BELIEVE Jacquie gave you the strength to carry on…AND SHE DID…I believe she did so with God’s hand…together She and God… walked you through the deepest sufferring possible….while all of us learned some very important lessons along the way… never to take each other for granted…to tell those you love that you do often…spend time together..make time for each other…be kind to each other…do what you can to help each other….All these valuable lessons were taught throughout This horrible and devistating experience that has no doubt changed your lives FOREVER… my ferverant prayer is that the lessons learned will HELP you all now …let GOD help you put your lives back together…and allow this experience to change your lives for the better…do NOT let this put you in deep dispare… Jacquie has taught the lessons of true love and caring… finding the priorities in life…& TJ understood immmediately when it was time to let go…and time to carry Jacquie’s “MIRACLE”…Her MIRACLE of LIFE on this earth…and the MIRACLE of the lessons learned on that day that her body left this earth…and went to be with HER HEAVENLY FATHER….she knew that someday you will all be united together again….and I believe she was not afraid…. My prayer for you today… is that you allow God to now take your hand and guide you through your brokenheartedness …may he heal you and give you the peace that transcends all understanding…let it guide your heart and your mind in Jesus Christ…now and forever….amen… My sympathy to all…my love to all…and my thoughts and prayers will be daily that you experience inner peace…and may the joy and laughter that you experienced with Jacquie remain . Thank you again for sharing your personal lives….with all of us. You’ve inspired us…and taught us about true love….unconditional love…with no boundaries.
Sharon, Torey, TJ and Hirsch extended family, I want you all to know I have been thinking of you and keeping you all in my prayers during this hard time. You are an incredibly strong family and I know where Jacquie got all her strength and courage from. The service yesterday was beautiful. Although it is still extremely unfair and heartbreaking, the countless memories and lessons that I have taken with me are incredible. We all went back to Geneseo last night and shared several stories of Jacquie-which of course had us all smiling! I hope you all know that I am here whenever you need anything PLEASE let me know. I look forward to seeing you all again! You are on my mind and in my heart. Love always, Amanda
Jacquie- I am truly blessed and proud to call you a sister. You have touched so many lives (including mine) in ways that you will never even know. Thank you for being you and thank you for teaching us all a very valuable life lesson, to live each day to its fullest. You will never be forgotten, we have always believe and will continue to do so. <3 The Hirsch Family- It is unimaginable how much you have been through in the last 11 months and yet you were willing to share it with all of us. The funeral yesterday was beautiful and it became clear to all of us in attendance where Jacquie got her beauty, grace, smile, strength and kindness. Thank you for sharing her with us, as we have all have been blessed to have her in our lives. Stay strong through this time and know that you are in all of our thoughts and prayers.
Hirsch’s, I love you so much. I have so much I want to say to all of you, but at this moment, I find I am just so emotionally & physically exhausted that I can’t even sit at the computer to write my thoughts for too long. Unfortunately I know that you know this feeling all too well, at a much greater extreme. please know that I am thinking of you all every second of everyday. tj, torey, sharon, jacquie, you are ALL in my heart & on my mind 24/7… you all have the amazing ability of being in two places at once.i love you all so much.xoxoxoxxoxoxoxoxxoxoxo <3 delisha <3
I am truly sorry to hear about the loss of Jacquie. I will always remember Jacquie as a energetic young girl and a friend at the gym. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Hey Hirsch’s, We are all praying for everyone of you back in the gym and in our homes.We love all of you and hope to see you soon. All the people who are supporting you, is incredible. The people supporting you could equal the popoulation of China (: See you soon, Love, Lily Jagodzinski and Kit Perusich
To all the Hirsch family. I am so sorry for your loss. You all were quite a family! We did what we could for her in the ICU, but she fought long and hard for her family. She is at peace now and you will always be in my thoughts.
Yesterday’s funeral celebration was beautiful. Jacquie certainly sent her family and friends an amazing sunny day. The balloons were a sight to behold and you could feel the love in the air. Sharon you have always been an inspiration to me…how you have always balanced mind, body, and spirit. And now Jacquie will be too. All I have read and heard shows that Jacquie put what she learned from both you and Torey fought like h*** for her life . I’ve missed seeing you working out at the JCC ….even more so when I found out how difficult the battle was this past year. Finally I must say I have appreciated the role model you have been through the years to my Erin. Try and be good to yourself in the months to come. Jacquie would want that I think. I intend to be diligent about watching for foundation events and hope to run into you now and then. My husband Ken is on the board for Roswell’s Kevin Guest House. We believe fighting cancer and supporting people with disabilities is right for us. Be well Hirsch’sJudy
Dear Hirsch Family, As I returned to work today, I found that many of my co-workers had heard about the reason for my absence. When they gave their condolences, the only way I could describe Jacquie’s services was beautiful. Though it was heart wrenching, it was extremely positive, and as perfect as Jacquie. I was so happy to be there with all of you and finally get to put a real face to so many names. Know that you are all in my thoughts and in my heart. I look forward to supporting Jacquie For ALL for many years to come!Thank you again for everything!Pauline :)Believe
Torey, Sharon, and TJ, The service yesterday was an amazing celebration of Jacquies life. I haven’t stopped telling people what an inspirational person Jacquie was and will continue to be, if everyone that knew her, lived the way she did. It was wonderful to see all of her close friends that have left messages over the past 11 months. She was a truly special person as everyone expressed in their beautiful speeches. She will be missed by so many people. Jacquie and her legacy will live on because of your families strong committment to the Jacquie for All Foundation. We look forward to helping in anyway we can. You will all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Dear TJ, Sharon, and Torey, Although the service yesterday was extremely sad, it was also beautiful…just like Jacquie. It showed everyone that in every part of Jacquie’s life…from when she was born, to her final hours, and for all the years to come…she was the most wonderful, caring, inspiring person any of us have ever known. You’re right Teej…it confirmed the fact that everyone already knew Jax was an amazing person her entire life. I’m always thinking of you guys. I’ll come over and spend some time with Shelby again soon. She really enjoyed resting her head in my lap while we thought of Jax. All my love, Laur
Hello Hirsch’s (and extended family 🙂 )I just wanted to say we are thinking of you every second. I have my Tink Balloon bouncing around in front of my fan and it makes me smile. We all had a grown up slumber party last night and shared sooo many Jacquie stories – she had us laughing so hard just like she always did. Get some rest and much needed sleep and know you are on our minds and in our hearts. So is Jacquie as she always will be. We aren’t going anywhere so when you’re up for it we can’t wait to see you. I can’t wait to find out what other dirt Jax told Sharon about us!! Love you guys, <3 Sadie
The service yesterday for Jacquie was beautiful and all of things that were said about her made me realize that there is so much to celebrate about her wonderful life! I am one of Jacquie’s sisters from sdt and unfortunately, I didn’t get to know her very well, but regardless, she has made such a positive impact on my life and I will forever remember her for that. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this hard time and I hope you find the strength and love to help you through. Love, Ashlee Jones
Dear Sharon, Torey, and TJ, I am certain that you’ve heard this message at least a hundred times since yesterday, but I wanted to tell you that I have never attended a service as beautiful as what you gave in honor of Jacquie. I felt so privileged to be there to honor her. The service allowed family and friends alike to learn so many different sides of Jacquie. Tracy, Trason, and myself were discussing the contributions that so many made about her yesterday, and there were many different parts of Jacquie that they didn’t even realize. Obviously, they understood her contagious spirit and energy, but they knew Jacquie as a member of their family. The various contributions from so many people gave everyone there an opportunity to know Jacquie in her entirety. I am quite certain that no one could argue the fact that Jacquie lived a full lifetime in 23 years, and you could tell just that by the amount of photographs, and the flood of people that came in her honor. The three of you are just as amazing as she is. There is never anything you or anyone else could say to doubt the care that you all provided for her, and the honor that you made sure she received. No stone was left unturned during 11 months of her care or in celebrating Jacquie’s life after her passing. May the three of you be an example to all as a true testiment of family, courage, strength, hope, love, and BELIEF. After all, all three of you contributed to the person Jacquie became. Be so proud of Jacquie, and be so proud of yourselves for all you gave to her. Thank you for so graciously allowing me to share in this time with you. Love to all of you, Jennifer
Dear Sharon, Torey and TJ: Thank you for allowing me to share in the special celebration of Jacquie’s life. After leaving the service, and reflecting on the beautiful words spoken, although I was very sad, I felt a feeling of relief that Jacquie is free from her pain and is already in heaven teaching children in her very special way. I’m sure she will be watching over your family and she will help you cope with your tremendous sense of loss. I pray that the days, months and years ahead will get easier for you and that you will remember Jacquie’s lesson of living life to its fullest. She was a wonderful young lady. She will forever be in my heart. As always, if there is anything you need, just call. With love, Athena
The service for Jax was beautiful and she was certainly represented for the amazing person she is. I am thinking of you and praying for each of you. Please know that I am here in the event that you need anything. Love you all.
Torey, Sharon, TJ Jacquie’s funeral service yesterday was just like her life, very, very special and meaningful. I can’t tell you how much admiration I have for the three of you. I know all three of you felt Jacquie’s strength and courage when you were speaking. Personally, I don’t know how you did it but you all were amazing. Class beyond belief. Torey, the most courageous eulogy I have ever heard under the most difficult of circumstances. You are a very special father. Sharon, I honestly did not know if you could make it through. Of course I should have realized you had Jacquie’s strength with you. You were courageous and magnificent. Jacquie and TJ are so fortunate to have a mother like you. TJ you are the best. Through all this you have been the silent strength. I know of no 25 year old that have demonstrated your courage and strength. I hung on your every word yesterday. As well spoken as I have ever heard. You are so much older than your years. I believe in the Hirsch family and will never forget the lessons you have all taught me. You all know we are all here for you and that every day will get just a little bit better, until we are all smiling again. JIM
One of the things that Justin will always remember from the years that he trained and competed for Greater Buffalo. Is Jacquie’s devotion to the kids and her positive attitude. Her smile will always be remembered Our thoughts and prayers go out to You!
Torey, Sharon and TJ,The service for Jacquie was beautiful. What a tribute to her inner beauty. SO MANY wonderful family and friends. The words all of you spoke were so heartfelt. Jacquie sure did touch a lot of people. I promise to use the lessons Jacquie shared and work towards living a life that would make her proud. I will keep her alive in my heart for ALWAYS. hugs.
I am very sorry for your great loss. My family is just one of thousands of families, children, campers and community members that your family’s dedication has enriched. Your daughter lived more positively each hour and impacted more lives (as each of you do) than many do in a life time.Sincerely,Maura McKenna-Rossow
I am so sorry that Jacquie is no longer here for her family to hold yet happy that she is finally at peace. I am yet another stranger that Jacquie has taught through her journey this past year and I will never forget her.
to all ’my girls’, that is how i will always think of you beautiful young women i have come to know over the past days…. i used to tell jacquie to ’stay the course’, now i ask that of you..stay the course, follow your hearts, do all the things you and jacquie dreamed of during your time together. that is the greatest gift you can give her and tj,torey and sharon. i know you will never forget jacquie, and i know there will be so many jacks and jacquies out there in the coming years, beautiful, happy children bearing her name. i am way old now, even tho some of you told me i don’t look that bad, well, that’s not exactly how you said it…anyway, i digress. what i want to say is; never look back or regret something you did not do. so, go out there and tackle life, grab on to it, bite into it and fly…you now have an angel to help you, this i do know. i love each and everyone of you for loving jacquie and her family. stay the course, aunt val
Dearest Sharon, Tory and T.J., Yesterday was the most beautiful tribute to Jacquie’s life. You are such a terrific family…so strong, so loving. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to let everyone know what an impact Jacquie had on my life. I will continue to think of her daily in my thoughts and prayers. Please always remember that I am here for you all if you ever need anything. I will keep in touch. Keep me in mind when you are looking for volunteers to help fight ALL. Love, Roz
I am not going to lie, I have wrote this message about a hundred times(my spelling sucks). I have tried peoms, sayings, and thoughts.. And I deleted them all, because they weren’t good enough. Then I realized something today.. No matter how far away In our hearts you will stay Weather new or old Your love will never grow old You are the light that shines And with your family that bindes I pray that the tink you show Is in fact the tink we know You are not only a treasure to us all You are the angel above that each of us call
Jax,My heart aches at the thought of never seeing your beautiful smile or hearing your infectious laugh. But in my heart i know that you are ok now. While we are in pain over our loss, I have come to a realization about life. You really never can predict what will happen next or why. It is only with faith that I know that you are in a better place. Tonight, I hugged a girl for literally 10minutes who i have no idea who is because she wouldn’t let me leave until i stopped crying. It helped me realize your purpose and while it still may not make much sense to me or anyone else for that matter, it sure did help to know that I know without doubt you are watching over all who loved you so. I love you and miss you beautiful girl! I will carry you with me in my heart always!Sharon, Torey , TJ, and family,I cannot imagine what you are all going through. Know that your girl has meant so much to so many. She is watching over you know and will do so the rest of your lives. You have been an inspiration of what famly’s should be. My thoughts and prayers are with you always! We will never forget Jacquie or what she has taught us!Love you all,Melissa
Dear Sharon, Tory and T.J., What a beautiful celebration of Jacquie’s life. She was and is truly an angel . Many people who live to be 80 or 90 years old could never have the impact on so many peoples lives as Jacquie did in her 23 years. The imprint she has left in everyone’s heart will live for ever. People will continue to be taught be Jacquie for years and years to come. The world was her classroom. What a wonderful legacy she has left, one of never ending strength, courage, love and to BELIEVE in ones self. Thank you for sharing your angel. Please know what a special family you are and how much you are loved by so many people. Sending so many prayers for GOD to be with you and so, so much love to you all. Always BELIEVING Missy
I would like to extend my condolences to the Hirsch family. I did not know your daughter but have been reading her blog since seeing her story on the news. What a beautiful young lady which is now a beautiful angel in heaven. The tribute from her brother has touched my heart. I hope you find comfort in the many friends your daughter has and all the lives she has touched with her beauty and grace.
What a day. What a Week. What a life. Thanks for sharing it with us. “Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift. That’s why we call it the present.”
I am a Geneseo alumi (2006) and while I never met Jacquie, I have heard her story through many others. I have many friends who are SDT’s and who have shared a lot of stories about Jacquie’s legacy. I am so deeply sorry for your loss but I hope that knowing that she is not suffering any longer is helping. It is terrible when someone with such a bright future is taken but please take comfort in the fact that she has touched so many people in her short time.
Sharon, Torey & TJ ~ Just wanted to share my first, of what I’m sure will be many, “Jacquie” moments… After leaving Jacquie’s beautiful (and, of course, sad) service this morning I ended up at the mall this afternoon (although I’m not a big shopper, it was quite cathartic for me…). Just as I was about to leave I walked into Gymboree and the first thing I saw were Tinkerbell costumes for little girls… I immediately grabbed Fiona’s size (12-18mos) as well as the matching purple and green striped tights and bought her the most adorable, inspiring Halloween costume she is certain to ever wear! I will be sure to send you photos! Hang in there! And please don’t forget we’re here for you always… All our love — Elise & Fiona
Torey, Sharon, and TJ, Today was beautiful, and I hope that you are all finally getting some much needed sleep, especially you Sharon. I feel as though I have known your family for years now, and not just the few months that it has actually been. The following days, months and years will be difficult, but know that we all love you just as much as we love Jax. This will not be the last time the I post on this wall, and I will definatly be emailing you, and when we are in town, dad and I fully expect to drop in to say hello. Your family is so special and so amazing. Take time to recollect yourselves and relax, as difficult as it may be, it is important. I feel extremely sorry for not being able to attend brunch as we had some business back home to attend to, but I wanted you all to know that you will forever be in my prayers and in my heart. God bless, Casey
Dear Hirsch Family, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful, loving, talented and inspirational daughter. It has taken me a couple of days just to be able to finally write this message, partly becasue I have been moved to tears each time I have visited the site, and partly because at times like this there are simply no words. Our daughter passed away suddenly at the age of 16 ten years ago. Like Jacquie, Amanda also was a very active, compassionate & talented young lady and not a day goes by that we do not think of her and miss her greatly. I want you to know that Jacquie’s presence will be with you always & in time you will recognize the many fleeting but wonderful signs that she will send you. It is never the same as having them here on Earth with us, however these signs along with many cherished memories will carry us through until we can be reunited with them again. I prayed to Mandy to welcome Jacquie to Heaven & I firmaly believe that they are together now as two beautiful angels and new friends. Not only did you raise such a beautiful daughter, but also such an eloquent, caring ,wonderful son. I will pray for your family as you follow the often difficult journey ahead & in your darkest hours remember Jacquies’ smile and the fact that she has touched the lives of so many & her legacy will continue to live on through you. We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Jacquie,I see where you got your love, strength, and courage from, your unbelievable family. Your family is amazing, and I am so lucky to have met them. I think of you daily, and will continue to remember what you have taught us. I love and miss you.Love in SDT,RamseySharon, Torey, and TJ,The past two days were a wonderful testament to Jacquie. All the people (friends and family), pictures, and stories made this difficult time a little bit easier. Thank you for teaching me to take time to appreciate all I have, and sharing your life with me these past eleven months. Even now, I feel myself being comforted and assured by you, when I believe it should be the other way around. I know I have learned lessons that will remain with me in the years to come. Always believing,Jen
Jacquie~I have been trying to think of how to word what’s in my heart these past few days. Having not spoken with you in so long I didn’t know my place or how I should feel. But what I realized today is that I remember you in Mrs. Pace’s 6th grade class with Nicole, Laura, and me…and the years that followed. Never did I see you with a sad face, never did I hear you speak negatively about anything. If there is one thing I’ve learned through this past year it’s that life is so sacred. Every breath, every minute…and I must attribute that acknowledgement to you. I have lost people in my life, but it astonishes me how someone I didn’t really know anymore could have such an impact on my heart. I am thankful you are happier now…peaceful and painless…and I am even more thankful that you are doing what you must’ve been created to do…take care of all of us down here. Teach us first, enrich our lives second, and then go…where you have the ability to take care of us. Thank you. Love, Kaitlyn
To you the family and friends, I came across this sight by accident and I was logged on feeling sorry for myself for no real reason. WOW what a wake up call I just got reading all about Jacquie and all she did and believed in. You are all trully blessed to have her in your lives. Thank you for sharing, you have trully opened my eyes and I will for you the family and friends and Jacquie, look into becoming a bone marrow donor. God Bless all of you.
Torey, Sharon & TJ,I apologize for not being able to attend Jacquie’s funeral today with Chris. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.Love,Kim Casacci (Chris’ wife)
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Sara (albuquerque) says:
September 14, 2008 at 5:10 pm -
Thinking of you Jacquie!! Sharon, You write beautifully because it is totally from the heart and soul. Your words at the service on Thursday were amazing, as I can only imagine how extremely difficult that moment may have been for your heart. I am with you, even though I am miles away. TJ, The website and all you have done with the foundation is just incredible. I know for sure that you will continue to do amazing things and have great successes throughout your life. To Sharon, TJ and Torey, I will forever invision your family as 4. That incredible love and bond will always stand out in my mind. I wish you continued strength, courage and energy to keep taking steps forward. I miss Jacquie and can not even begin to guess or imagine how much your hearts are missing her. I send my love and hugs. Sara
Harry says:
September 14, 2008 at 11:50 am -
Sharon, Torey and TJ, Just note to thank you all for such a beautiful service last Thursday. I went to Williamsville to console and comfort and left motivated and inspired. I’ll do whatever I can to help with the advancement of Jacquie’s foundation. God bless you all. Harry Jax – I go down my road, throw out a banana peel and shout “eeek” almost everyday.
Bina says:
September 14, 2008 at 2:02 am -
Hirsch’s and Family,You are all outstanding as is Jacquie. No words could express everything I learned and took from her. I will always think about her and carry her with me. She showed me strength, love and how to live life.Sharon, as embarrassing as it may be, I love that Jax told you everything. You all had an amazing relationship and if living with her for 3 years didnt show me that, I saw it through the past year. I love you all very much and want you to know that just about every moment of every day, I find a thought about Jax crossing my mind. Whether its a movie quote, bathroom humor or just a simple memory it always makes me smile.I hate being so far but I will be up to visit soon.<3Bina
Anonymous says:
September 14, 2008 at 2:02 am -
to the hirsch family… I am soo amazed by your courage and strength… thank you so much for allowing us to share in jacquie’s fight… although this has made you vulnerable, you have allowed thousands to be affected by such an amazing, beautiful, and inspiring person… may you receive comfort and strength through this difficult time… god bless…
missy says:
September 13, 2008 at 10:36 pm -
Dear Sharon,Torey and T.J., Just a little note to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. If you need us for anything, day or night please just let us know. We will be here for all of you, always. BELIEVING Missy
The Somers says:
September 13, 2008 at 9:51 pm -
Sharon, Torey and TJ, Just wanted to let you know that Jacquie’s service was beautiful. She was definitely smiling on all of you! After the beautiful balloon launch we were walking to the parking lot and I couldn’t help but notice the joyful sound of children laughing next door at the playground. Jacquie was there, in their laughter and love for life! She has taught all of us to appreciate the little things and she will always be in our hearts! You are all in our daily thoughts and prayers! love, Missy, Mark and the girls
Sadie says:
September 13, 2008 at 8:35 pm -
Hello Hirsch’s, Just writing again to remind you that we are thinking of you always. I know that everything you do right now is hard because you are constantly feeling Jacquie’s physical absence but I hope that you can also feel her with you always. She will forever be in our hearts and we are proud to continue her brave fight against cancer in her honor.I love you guys and am thinking of you every minute. BELIEVING, <3 SadiePS - Tell Grandma Bree that my cousin is currently working on designing me a tattoo for Jax so I’ll be ready to go soon!
Mindy says:
September 13, 2008 at 7:08 pm -
Torey, Sharon and Tj,I just want you to know you are constantly on my mind. I am always thinking of you and praying that you can find peace through all of this. I know that everyone has been saying this, but I want you to know how true it is..you are one of the strongest most amazing families I have ever been touched by. Over the years, through gymnastics, your family has always been there for me, at North and GBGC. And now I want you to know that I’m here for you. If you ever need anything, I’m only a short drive away. I will always keep Jacquie in my heart. She was an amazing person who has touched and taught thousands of people. Stay strong.There are so many people here to help you through this. You are never alone. <3with love and prayers,Mindy Long
judy ramsey owens says:
September 13, 2008 at 2:27 pm -
To the Hirsch Family: I feel a pull everyday to come to your loving tribute for your daughter, Jacquie. Thru the past months I have asked my daughter daily how Jacque was doing. I feel as I knew her and her lovely family. I hope that one day I have the honour to meet you. All thou I know you have many loving friends and family, please know that if there is anything I can do to help keep Jacquie’s memory alive in the Rochester area. I am a member of Gilda’s in the Rochester area . Please contact me anytime thru my daughter, Jenny Ramsey. Fondly, Judy Ramsey-Owens
alicia says:
September 13, 2008 at 2:22 pm -
jacquie, i just wanted to let you know how much i love you.hirsch’s, i love you all too!!! you are the most amazing family ever. you have made it through 11 months of being by jacs side through her terrible fight, and now you have made it through the first week of living life without her. be proud of yourselves, as i would often tell jacquie… YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU KNOW. in my heart & on my mind allways. please let me know if i can do anything. i am known to make some mean brownies & chocolate chip cookies!xoxoxo ALL OF MY LOVE<3 delisha <3
Keesha says:
September 13, 2008 at 9:49 am -
Torey, Sharon, TJ, thank you for such a beautiful service on sept.11. it was poignant and sad but so beautiful. she will be greatly missed, but i look at the tinkerbell balloon one of sharon’s sister’s gave savannah and i think that jacquie is truly free to fly and keep watch. she will live on in each of us, and in our children, we will never forget, and we will continue to believe. keep her close to your hearts, let your friends and families help you through this terrible time. let those of us who loved jacquie help you. when you need us we are here for each of you, okay? we love you keesha, jeremy and savannah keilly
I miss you says:
September 13, 2008 at 2:29 am -
Jacquie, I am still coping with the fact that you are no longer on earth and are a true “TINK”…. words cannot express how much you have impacted peoples’ lives and have made them better… i believe that you were sent here with a purpose and although we thought our time with you would never end, you had a plan all along… from you i have learned how to appreciate life and accept myself… i never thought that could be possible… you are my hero… and even though i am sad you are gone, i am so honored to have been a part of your life… to think that i have been honored to laugh and smile with you…. rest easy now, tink, and shine over your family most of all… they need you….in my heart and on my mind always….
GSU says:
September 13, 2008 at 1:30 am -
Below are a few poems/quotes that hopefully will bring peace to you during this difficult time. Forever remember Jacquie and the joy that she had brought into the lives of everyone around her. God Bless “Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.””When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.” ~Kahlil Gibran A child is now at restFor a safer place she remainsA world of goodness and beautyA world without worry or pain.Nor fear will she encounterFor a better place she’ll beA place where the sick are healedAnd the blinded eyes can see.Our world has forever changedOur lives are not the sameBut close within our heartsHer precious face remains.We give to her our tearsAnd our prayers we send aboveWe cherish all the memoriesFilled with happiness and love.She’ll have someone to depend onA helping hand is there to lendFor the Father shall be watchingAnd in heaven, she’ll have a friend
Karen Kacko Calandra says:
September 12, 2008 at 11:21 pm -
Torey and Sharon…. I want to thank you for sharing the past 11 months with me…I know many years have passed since we were in high school…but these past eleven months you opened up your daily lives for me to get to know you and your beautiful family in a very personal and emotional way…I feel very connected to you all…I grew to know your lovely daughter through this website that TJ so amazingly put together….and you all so devotedly wrote in EVERYDAY… for all of us to participate and be actively engaged in prayers, thoughts and encouragement…as theraputic as it was … I know it was difficult to manage on many days….But I do want to thank you for sharing your lives… it has helped me grow and understand even more about trials and tribulations and how many times we are tested throughout our lives and it’s how we handle those times that are so important… you all persevered through…YOU ALL came together as a family…one unit….Pulling together, loving on each other…fighting against the cancer together, BELIEVING, PERSEVERING and maintaining HOPE…throughout it all…I know in your hearts…that you BELIEVE Jacquie gave you the strength to carry on…AND SHE DID…I believe she did so with God’s hand…together She and God… walked you through the deepest sufferring possible….while all of us learned some very important lessons along the way… never to take each other for granted…to tell those you love that you do often…spend time together..make time for each other…be kind to each other…do what you can to help each other….All these valuable lessons were taught throughout This horrible and devistating experience that has no doubt changed your lives FOREVER… my ferverant prayer is that the lessons learned will HELP you all now …let GOD help you put your lives back together…and allow this experience to change your lives for the better…do NOT let this put you in deep dispare… Jacquie has taught the lessons of true love and caring… finding the priorities in life…& TJ understood immmediately when it was time to let go…and time to carry Jacquie’s “MIRACLE”…Her MIRACLE of LIFE on this earth…and the MIRACLE of the lessons learned on that day that her body left this earth…and went to be with HER HEAVENLY FATHER….she knew that someday you will all be united together again….and I believe she was not afraid…. My prayer for you today… is that you allow God to now take your hand and guide you through your brokenheartedness …may he heal you and give you the peace that transcends all understanding…let it guide your heart and your mind in Jesus Christ…now and forever….amen… My sympathy to all…my love to all…and my thoughts and prayers will be daily that you experience inner peace…and may the joy and laughter that you experienced with Jacquie remain . Thank you again for sharing your personal lives….with all of us. You’ve inspired us…and taught us about true love….unconditional love…with no boundaries.
Amanda Cavarella says:
September 12, 2008 at 11:15 pm -
Sharon, Torey, TJ and Hirsch extended family, I want you all to know I have been thinking of you and keeping you all in my prayers during this hard time. You are an incredibly strong family and I know where Jacquie got all her strength and courage from. The service yesterday was beautiful. Although it is still extremely unfair and heartbreaking, the countless memories and lessons that I have taken with me are incredible. We all went back to Geneseo last night and shared several stories of Jacquie-which of course had us all smiling! I hope you all know that I am here whenever you need anything PLEASE let me know. I look forward to seeing you all again! You are on my mind and in my heart. Love always, Amanda
Janine LiPuma says:
September 12, 2008 at 10:35 pm -
Jacquie- I am truly blessed and proud to call you a sister. You have touched so many lives (including mine) in ways that you will never even know. Thank you for being you and thank you for teaching us all a very valuable life lesson, to live each day to its fullest. You will never be forgotten, we have always believe and will continue to do so. <3 The Hirsch Family- It is unimaginable how much you have been through in the last 11 months and yet you were willing to share it with all of us. The funeral yesterday was beautiful and it became clear to all of us in attendance where Jacquie got her beauty, grace, smile, strength and kindness. Thank you for sharing her with us, as we have all have been blessed to have her in our lives. Stay strong through this time and know that you are in all of our thoughts and prayers.
alicia says:
September 12, 2008 at 9:42 pm -
Hirsch’s, I love you so much. I have so much I want to say to all of you, but at this moment, I find I am just so emotionally & physically exhausted that I can’t even sit at the computer to write my thoughts for too long. Unfortunately I know that you know this feeling all too well, at a much greater extreme. please know that I am thinking of you all every second of everyday. tj, torey, sharon, jacquie, you are ALL in my heart & on my mind 24/7… you all have the amazing ability of being in two places at once.i love you all so much.xoxoxoxxoxoxoxoxxoxoxo <3 delisha <3
Bryan Murty says:
September 12, 2008 at 7:58 pm -
I am truly sorry to hear about the loss of Jacquie. I will always remember Jacquie as a energetic young girl and a friend at the gym. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Lily Jagodzinski says:
September 12, 2008 at 6:37 pm -
Hey Hirsch’s, We are all praying for everyone of you back in the gym and in our homes.We love all of you and hope to see you soon. All the people who are supporting you, is incredible. The people supporting you could equal the popoulation of China (: See you soon, Love, Lily Jagodzinski and Kit Perusich
April Meyer says:
September 12, 2008 at 4:16 pm -
To all the Hirsch family. I am so sorry for your loss. You all were quite a family! We did what we could for her in the ICU, but she fought long and hard for her family. She is at peace now and you will always be in my thoughts.
Judy Redding says:
September 12, 2008 at 3:59 pm -
Yesterday’s funeral celebration was beautiful. Jacquie certainly sent her family and friends an amazing sunny day. The balloons were a sight to behold and you could feel the love in the air. Sharon you have always been an inspiration to me…how you have always balanced mind, body, and spirit. And now Jacquie will be too. All I have read and heard shows that Jacquie put what she learned from both you and Torey fought like h*** for her life . I’ve missed seeing you working out at the JCC ….even more so when I found out how difficult the battle was this past year. Finally I must say I have appreciated the role model you have been through the years to my Erin. Try and be good to yourself in the months to come. Jacquie would want that I think. I intend to be diligent about watching for foundation events and hope to run into you now and then. My husband Ken is on the board for Roswell’s Kevin Guest House. We believe fighting cancer and supporting people with disabilities is right for us. Be well Hirsch’sJudy
Pauline Cantatore says:
September 12, 2008 at 3:52 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, As I returned to work today, I found that many of my co-workers had heard about the reason for my absence. When they gave their condolences, the only way I could describe Jacquie’s services was beautiful. Though it was heart wrenching, it was extremely positive, and as perfect as Jacquie. I was so happy to be there with all of you and finally get to put a real face to so many names. Know that you are all in my thoughts and in my heart. I look forward to supporting Jacquie For ALL for many years to come!Thank you again for everything!Pauline :)Believe
The Penetrante Family says:
September 12, 2008 at 2:39 pm -
Torey, Sharon, and TJ, The service yesterday was an amazing celebration of Jacquies life. I haven’t stopped telling people what an inspirational person Jacquie was and will continue to be, if everyone that knew her, lived the way she did. It was wonderful to see all of her close friends that have left messages over the past 11 months. She was a truly special person as everyone expressed in their beautiful speeches. She will be missed by so many people. Jacquie and her legacy will live on because of your families strong committment to the Jacquie for All Foundation. We look forward to helping in anyway we can. You will all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Lauren Schilling says:
September 12, 2008 at 2:01 pm -
Dear TJ, Sharon, and Torey, Although the service yesterday was extremely sad, it was also beautiful…just like Jacquie. It showed everyone that in every part of Jacquie’s life…from when she was born, to her final hours, and for all the years to come…she was the most wonderful, caring, inspiring person any of us have ever known. You’re right Teej…it confirmed the fact that everyone already knew Jax was an amazing person her entire life. I’m always thinking of you guys. I’ll come over and spend some time with Shelby again soon. She really enjoyed resting her head in my lap while we thought of Jax. All my love, Laur
Sadie says:
September 12, 2008 at 1:44 pm -
Hello Hirsch’s (and extended family 🙂 )I just wanted to say we are thinking of you every second. I have my Tink Balloon bouncing around in front of my fan and it makes me smile. We all had a grown up slumber party last night and shared sooo many Jacquie stories – she had us laughing so hard just like she always did. Get some rest and much needed sleep and know you are on our minds and in our hearts. So is Jacquie as she always will be. We aren’t going anywhere so when you’re up for it we can’t wait to see you. I can’t wait to find out what other dirt Jax told Sharon about us!! Love you guys, <3 Sadie
Ashlee Jones says:
September 12, 2008 at 1:35 pm -
The service yesterday for Jacquie was beautiful and all of things that were said about her made me realize that there is so much to celebrate about her wonderful life! I am one of Jacquie’s sisters from sdt and unfortunately, I didn’t get to know her very well, but regardless, she has made such a positive impact on my life and I will forever remember her for that. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this hard time and I hope you find the strength and love to help you through. Love, Ashlee Jones
Jennifer Warnes says:
September 12, 2008 at 12:44 pm -
Dear Sharon, Torey, and TJ, I am certain that you’ve heard this message at least a hundred times since yesterday, but I wanted to tell you that I have never attended a service as beautiful as what you gave in honor of Jacquie. I felt so privileged to be there to honor her. The service allowed family and friends alike to learn so many different sides of Jacquie. Tracy, Trason, and myself were discussing the contributions that so many made about her yesterday, and there were many different parts of Jacquie that they didn’t even realize. Obviously, they understood her contagious spirit and energy, but they knew Jacquie as a member of their family. The various contributions from so many people gave everyone there an opportunity to know Jacquie in her entirety. I am quite certain that no one could argue the fact that Jacquie lived a full lifetime in 23 years, and you could tell just that by the amount of photographs, and the flood of people that came in her honor. The three of you are just as amazing as she is. There is never anything you or anyone else could say to doubt the care that you all provided for her, and the honor that you made sure she received. No stone was left unturned during 11 months of her care or in celebrating Jacquie’s life after her passing. May the three of you be an example to all as a true testiment of family, courage, strength, hope, love, and BELIEF. After all, all three of you contributed to the person Jacquie became. Be so proud of Jacquie, and be so proud of yourselves for all you gave to her. Thank you for so graciously allowing me to share in this time with you. Love to all of you, Jennifer
Athena says:
September 12, 2008 at 12:13 pm -
Dear Sharon, Torey and TJ: Thank you for allowing me to share in the special celebration of Jacquie’s life. After leaving the service, and reflecting on the beautiful words spoken, although I was very sad, I felt a feeling of relief that Jacquie is free from her pain and is already in heaven teaching children in her very special way. I’m sure she will be watching over your family and she will help you cope with your tremendous sense of loss. I pray that the days, months and years ahead will get easier for you and that you will remember Jacquie’s lesson of living life to its fullest. She was a wonderful young lady. She will forever be in my heart. As always, if there is anything you need, just call. With love, Athena
Kimberly says:
September 12, 2008 at 12:07 pm -
The service for Jax was beautiful and she was certainly represented for the amazing person she is. I am thinking of you and praying for each of you. Please know that I am here in the event that you need anything. Love you all.
Jim Rusin says:
September 12, 2008 at 12:05 pm -
Torey, Sharon, TJ Jacquie’s funeral service yesterday was just like her life, very, very special and meaningful. I can’t tell you how much admiration I have for the three of you. I know all three of you felt Jacquie’s strength and courage when you were speaking. Personally, I don’t know how you did it but you all were amazing. Class beyond belief. Torey, the most courageous eulogy I have ever heard under the most difficult of circumstances. You are a very special father. Sharon, I honestly did not know if you could make it through. Of course I should have realized you had Jacquie’s strength with you. You were courageous and magnificent. Jacquie and TJ are so fortunate to have a mother like you. TJ you are the best. Through all this you have been the silent strength. I know of no 25 year old that have demonstrated your courage and strength. I hung on your every word yesterday. As well spoken as I have ever heard. You are so much older than your years. I believe in the Hirsch family and will never forget the lessons you have all taught me. You all know we are all here for you and that every day will get just a little bit better, until we are all smiling again. JIM
THE SULLIVAN’S-TOM KATHY, JUSTIN AND FAMILY says:
September 12, 2008 at 11:25 am -
One of the things that Justin will always remember from the years that he trained and competed for Greater Buffalo. Is Jacquie’s devotion to the kids and her positive attitude. Her smile will always be remembered Our thoughts and prayers go out to You!
Pam L says:
September 12, 2008 at 10:05 am -
Torey, Sharon and TJ,The service for Jacquie was beautiful. What a tribute to her inner beauty. SO MANY wonderful family and friends. The words all of you spoke were so heartfelt. Jacquie sure did touch a lot of people. I promise to use the lessons Jacquie shared and work towards living a life that would make her proud. I will keep her alive in my heart for ALWAYS. hugs.
Maura McKenna-Rossow says:
September 12, 2008 at 9:08 am -
I am very sorry for your great loss. My family is just one of thousands of families, children, campers and community members that your family’s dedication has enriched. Your daughter lived more positively each hour and impacted more lives (as each of you do) than many do in a life time.Sincerely,Maura McKenna-Rossow
Jennifer Colosimo says:
September 12, 2008 at 7:36 am -
I am so sorry that Jacquie is no longer here for her family to hold yet happy that she is finally at peace. I am yet another stranger that Jacquie has taught through her journey this past year and I will never forget her.
aunt val says:
September 12, 2008 at 7:18 am -
to all ’my girls’, that is how i will always think of you beautiful young women i have come to know over the past days…. i used to tell jacquie to ’stay the course’, now i ask that of you..stay the course, follow your hearts, do all the things you and jacquie dreamed of during your time together. that is the greatest gift you can give her and tj,torey and sharon. i know you will never forget jacquie, and i know there will be so many jacks and jacquies out there in the coming years, beautiful, happy children bearing her name. i am way old now, even tho some of you told me i don’t look that bad, well, that’s not exactly how you said it…anyway, i digress. what i want to say is; never look back or regret something you did not do. so, go out there and tackle life, grab on to it, bite into it and fly…you now have an angel to help you, this i do know. i love each and everyone of you for loving jacquie and her family. stay the course, aunt val
Roz Jureller says:
September 12, 2008 at 7:14 am -
Dearest Sharon, Tory and T.J., Yesterday was the most beautiful tribute to Jacquie’s life. You are such a terrific family…so strong, so loving. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to let everyone know what an impact Jacquie had on my life. I will continue to think of her daily in my thoughts and prayers. Please always remember that I am here for you all if you ever need anything. I will keep in touch. Keep me in mind when you are looking for volunteers to help fight ALL. Love, Roz
patrick kelly says:
September 12, 2008 at 4:04 am -
I am not going to lie, I have wrote this message about a hundred times(my spelling sucks). I have tried peoms, sayings, and thoughts.. And I deleted them all, because they weren’t good enough. Then I realized something today.. No matter how far away In our hearts you will stay Weather new or old Your love will never grow old You are the light that shines And with your family that bindes I pray that the tink you show Is in fact the tink we know You are not only a treasure to us all You are the angel above that each of us call
Melissa says:
September 12, 2008 at 2:37 am -
Jax,My heart aches at the thought of never seeing your beautiful smile or hearing your infectious laugh. But in my heart i know that you are ok now. While we are in pain over our loss, I have come to a realization about life. You really never can predict what will happen next or why. It is only with faith that I know that you are in a better place. Tonight, I hugged a girl for literally 10minutes who i have no idea who is because she wouldn’t let me leave until i stopped crying. It helped me realize your purpose and while it still may not make much sense to me or anyone else for that matter, it sure did help to know that I know without doubt you are watching over all who loved you so. I love you and miss you beautiful girl! I will carry you with me in my heart always!Sharon, Torey , TJ, and family,I cannot imagine what you are all going through. Know that your girl has meant so much to so many. She is watching over you know and will do so the rest of your lives. You have been an inspiration of what famly’s should be. My thoughts and prayers are with you always! We will never forget Jacquie or what she has taught us!Love you all,Melissa
missy says:
September 11, 2008 at 10:17 pm -
Dear Sharon, Tory and T.J., What a beautiful celebration of Jacquie’s life. She was and is truly an angel . Many people who live to be 80 or 90 years old could never have the impact on so many peoples lives as Jacquie did in her 23 years. The imprint she has left in everyone’s heart will live for ever. People will continue to be taught be Jacquie for years and years to come. The world was her classroom. What a wonderful legacy she has left, one of never ending strength, courage, love and to BELIEVE in ones self. Thank you for sharing your angel. Please know what a special family you are and how much you are loved by so many people. Sending so many prayers for GOD to be with you and so, so much love to you all. Always BELIEVING Missy
anonymous says:
September 11, 2008 at 10:12 pm -
I would like to extend my condolences to the Hirsch family. I did not know your daughter but have been reading her blog since seeing her story on the news. What a beautiful young lady which is now a beautiful angel in heaven. The tribute from her brother has touched my heart. I hope you find comfort in the many friends your daughter has and all the lives she has touched with her beauty and grace.
Wenner Family says:
September 11, 2008 at 9:58 pm -
What a day. What a Week. What a life. Thanks for sharing it with us. “Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift. That’s why we call it the present.”
Anonymous says:
September 11, 2008 at 9:52 pm -
I am a Geneseo alumi (2006) and while I never met Jacquie, I have heard her story through many others. I have many friends who are SDT’s and who have shared a lot of stories about Jacquie’s legacy. I am so deeply sorry for your loss but I hope that knowing that she is not suffering any longer is helping. It is terrible when someone with such a bright future is taken but please take comfort in the fact that she has touched so many people in her short time.
Elise (& Fiona) Cusack says:
September 11, 2008 at 9:30 pm -
Sharon, Torey & TJ ~ Just wanted to share my first, of what I’m sure will be many, “Jacquie” moments… After leaving Jacquie’s beautiful (and, of course, sad) service this morning I ended up at the mall this afternoon (although I’m not a big shopper, it was quite cathartic for me…). Just as I was about to leave I walked into Gymboree and the first thing I saw were Tinkerbell costumes for little girls… I immediately grabbed Fiona’s size (12-18mos) as well as the matching purple and green striped tights and bought her the most adorable, inspiring Halloween costume she is certain to ever wear! I will be sure to send you photos! Hang in there! And please don’t forget we’re here for you always… All our love — Elise & Fiona
Casey Stiokas says:
September 11, 2008 at 8:59 pm -
Torey, Sharon, and TJ, Today was beautiful, and I hope that you are all finally getting some much needed sleep, especially you Sharon. I feel as though I have known your family for years now, and not just the few months that it has actually been. The following days, months and years will be difficult, but know that we all love you just as much as we love Jax. This will not be the last time the I post on this wall, and I will definatly be emailing you, and when we are in town, dad and I fully expect to drop in to say hello. Your family is so special and so amazing. Take time to recollect yourselves and relax, as difficult as it may be, it is important. I feel extremely sorry for not being able to attend brunch as we had some business back home to attend to, but I wanted you all to know that you will forever be in my prayers and in my heart. God bless, Casey
lover202jax says:
September 11, 2008 at 8:51 pm -
hey jax i feel so bad for you!!!!! I’ll never forget you! you know what they say, jacquie for A.L.L!!!!!!!!!! god believes in you, always.
Sue Klepadlo says:
September 11, 2008 at 8:49 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful, loving, talented and inspirational daughter. It has taken me a couple of days just to be able to finally write this message, partly becasue I have been moved to tears each time I have visited the site, and partly because at times like this there are simply no words. Our daughter passed away suddenly at the age of 16 ten years ago. Like Jacquie, Amanda also was a very active, compassionate & talented young lady and not a day goes by that we do not think of her and miss her greatly. I want you to know that Jacquie’s presence will be with you always & in time you will recognize the many fleeting but wonderful signs that she will send you. It is never the same as having them here on Earth with us, however these signs along with many cherished memories will carry us through until we can be reunited with them again. I prayed to Mandy to welcome Jacquie to Heaven & I firmaly believe that they are together now as two beautiful angels and new friends. Not only did you raise such a beautiful daughter, but also such an eloquent, caring ,wonderful son. I will pray for your family as you follow the often difficult journey ahead & in your darkest hours remember Jacquies’ smile and the fact that she has touched the lives of so many & her legacy will continue to live on through you. We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Jen Ramsey says:
September 11, 2008 at 8:39 pm -
Jacquie,I see where you got your love, strength, and courage from, your unbelievable family. Your family is amazing, and I am so lucky to have met them. I think of you daily, and will continue to remember what you have taught us. I love and miss you.Love in SDT,RamseySharon, Torey, and TJ,The past two days were a wonderful testament to Jacquie. All the people (friends and family), pictures, and stories made this difficult time a little bit easier. Thank you for teaching me to take time to appreciate all I have, and sharing your life with me these past eleven months. Even now, I feel myself being comforted and assured by you, when I believe it should be the other way around. I know I have learned lessons that will remain with me in the years to come. Always believing,Jen
Kaitlyn Green says:
September 11, 2008 at 8:35 pm -
Jacquie~I have been trying to think of how to word what’s in my heart these past few days. Having not spoken with you in so long I didn’t know my place or how I should feel. But what I realized today is that I remember you in Mrs. Pace’s 6th grade class with Nicole, Laura, and me…and the years that followed. Never did I see you with a sad face, never did I hear you speak negatively about anything. If there is one thing I’ve learned through this past year it’s that life is so sacred. Every breath, every minute…and I must attribute that acknowledgement to you. I have lost people in my life, but it astonishes me how someone I didn’t really know anymore could have such an impact on my heart. I am thankful you are happier now…peaceful and painless…and I am even more thankful that you are doing what you must’ve been created to do…take care of all of us down here. Teach us first, enrich our lives second, and then go…where you have the ability to take care of us. Thank you. Love, Kaitlyn
Colleen says:
September 11, 2008 at 7:35 pm -
To you the family and friends, I came across this sight by accident and I was logged on feeling sorry for myself for no real reason. WOW what a wake up call I just got reading all about Jacquie and all she did and believed in. You are all trully blessed to have her in your lives. Thank you for sharing, you have trully opened my eyes and I will for you the family and friends and Jacquie, look into becoming a bone marrow donor. God Bless all of you.
Kim Casacci says:
September 11, 2008 at 6:18 pm -
Torey, Sharon & TJ,I apologize for not being able to attend Jacquie’s funeral today with Chris. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.Love,Kim Casacci (Chris’ wife)