Jacquie, we know that you will be looking over us and helping us be brave and help us to continue to work to help others who are battling cancer. – We believe in you and we pray for your friend and family to be strong. Craig & Kelly Johnson
Sharon, Torey and TJ, Today was such a beautiful celebration of Jacquie’s life. It was so nice to finally meet all of you. Words cannot express how much your family has touched me these past few days. I love Jacquie with all my heart and I promise to keep in touch and Believe in everything she stands for. Jacquie is the kind of person that brings out the best in you and I am forever greatful that you brought her into this world and into our lives. All my love and prayers, Marietta
Torey, Sharon and TJ-I wanted to let you all know that today was very special to me…I saw such a wonderful family….You have shown us all what strength you have…keep each other very close!! you have a special gift in each other! …I thank you for allowing us all to be apart of your loss and allowing so many people to take a little part of Jacquie into their lives.Please know that I send you hugs and smiles…I can’t begin to know the road you will now walk…but please know that so many people are walking with you!!Fondly,Brooks’ Mom
Working in a hospital I’m often humbled when I see patients walking the halls. I thank you for sharing your story and all of the emotions that go along with it. I now realize the emotions that go along with their stories, and I say a prayer that they have the strength and the courage that you have displayed over the last 11 months. It is apparent where Jacquie got her strength from. Continue to stay strong and find comfort in knowing how many lives Jacquie has touched in a short amount of time. She has made all of us better people. She will Never be forgotten, and she will live on in ALL of us. We will believe in her, and the lessons that she has taught us forever. Take Care and God Bless, Allison
Hi Jacquie, I see your smile… and I know you were smiling and laughing too, today, at your most wonderful mom, dad and brother. Your family is beautiful in so many ways. Sharon, I will see you again soon, on my next visit home. I miss you already, but I am still always with you and always will be with you in mind and heart. Hang in and hold on and I send you all strength and courage to keep stepping forward. Love to you- Sara
Dear Torey, Sharon and TJ, Our most sincerest sympathy to all of you at this very difficult time. Our daughter Jill remembered meeting her when she came to Gleason’s to thank the gymnasts for a fundraising they had done for her. Jill thought she was wonderful and felt privilaged to have met her. She definately seemed like she left a wonderful mark in the world. May God give you peace and comfort to get through this loss. Congratulations on raising a wonderful daughter. She seemed amazing! Most Sincerely, Patty and Paul Daddario
Dear Hirsch Famliy… I am so deeply sorry for your family and the deep loss you are all feeling. Jax was such a FIGHTER!!! I wish I could have met her at another time. But I have to say that even during her most difficult times, her vibrent spirit shined through. In all of the years that I have been working at Roswell, I have been humbled by the strength of the human spirit through love and family. And your family is exceptional in that respect. I pray that peace may find all of you in time. I KNOW that Jax has that peace now. No more pian. She is whole again. Whenever I see “tink” will always be reminded of her and of all of you. My kids hug their Jacquie bears every night and we thank God for all of His gifts. We pray for Jax spirit and we pray that peace and comfort find all of you. God Bless , Sam
Dear Torey, Sharon, and TJ, Words can’t express how sorry we are to hear about Jacquie. We’ve been following her blog and praying for her as we moved from Illinois to California. Although we never got to meet her, you did a wonderful job of introducing us to her through your writing. She was exceptional, and you were so lucky to have her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Peggy, Ed, and Taylor Reyes
you have so many reasons to be proud – The wonderful person known as Jacqueline Elisabeth Hirsch; the brave, courageous gracious, superb fight that the entire Hirsch family waged; the inspiration you are to so many; and the work of the Jacquie for A.L.L. Foundation. Thoughts and prayers are sent your way.
Jacquie, you are loved by more people than there are stars in the sky. Whenever I look up at a sky filled with stars, I will think about how much you are loved. And if it’s a cloudy night and I can’t see those stars, I will know they are still there shining for others to see. The memory of your strength will continue to give us strength as we go forth with you in our hearts. For all the days of my life, I will never forget you. Love, Carol McArdle
Torey, Sharon, & TJ, I want to thank you for opening your hearts and sharing your lives and this most difficult struggle with us. We all share your pain and wish there was some way to make that pain go away. TJ is right when he said the most important thing now is that Jacquie is no longer in pain. We all need to hold onto that thought and let it provide us strength at this difficult time and throughout the rest of our lives. When I compete on Sunday in DC in the Nation’s Triathlon in Jacquie’s HONOR she will be with me providing me her strength and courage. I will carry her with me throughout the race, and she will carry me through. I can tell you for sure I am now even more determined than I already was!!! Keep Believing!! With all my Love, Renee
i haven’t been able to post in a long time. and i think it is because i am in such disbelief that this is truly going on. i almost didn’t come to the hospital because that is when i knew it would be final. i don’t think i would ever forgive myself if i didn’t, though, and the days since saturday have probably been the toughest of my life.you’d be so proud of us, jac, of me, ali, holly, your little folly family, you’d be so unbelievably proud to say that you were part of an organization that has come together so well in these past few days. i want you to know, jac, that even the little girls that didn’t know you feel close to you because we tell stories about you all the time. though most of the stories end with, “OH MY GOD I CANT BELIEVE SHE DID THAT!!!!” or “YEA.. THAT WAS A GREAT TIME, AND A GREAT MEAL..” it’s these simple memories of you, and memories of you and me that have kept me moving.today, this morning, as i get ready to attend what i imagine will be one of the most spectacular funerals i’ve ever seen, not because of how extravigant it is, but because we are all there.. together.. to celebrate your life, i can’t help but feel a small amount of hope in my heart.. for all who have come in contact with you, that we will make it through these next few days.i’m trying to be the best student teacher i can, jac. i’ve even been going out and DRINKING WATER on nights that i have to teach the next day. i’ve been putting time and effort into making my lessons the best they could be, and i keep you in my heart and with me all day long.remember the time on the risers when These Are Days were playing and we were latched onto each other like we were glued together, crying and saying how sad we were that you were graduating. even though i’m pretty sure it was WAY before you were leaving, i never actually thought there would be a time where i would “never see my big again.”tuesday night, i watched leah and ali schmitt have a reunion after not seeing each other in months, and i couldn’t look away and i was so heart broken because i just don’t get to see my big sister anymore. i know you’ll be with me in whatever i do, though, and i promise to remember you and celebrate you every day. i believe so strongly that you will live on in everyone’s hearts, and i am just in awe, and so blessed that i am one of the lucky ones who have known you.”it may well be,that we will never meet againin this lifetime,so let me say before we part,so much of me,is made of what i’ve learned from youyou’ll be with me like a handprint on my heart.and now whatever way our stories end,i know you have rewritten mine,by being my friend….because i knew you,i have been changed for good..”i miss you, big.love always, little sammie<3
It’s heartwrenching to believe that someone everyone cares about so much can be taken away for no aparent reason. Jacquie lit up a room and was such an inspiration and mentor to me. I can’t imagine what your family is going through, but you guys raised a fantastic young woman who touched so many people and has done so many great things. her memory, faith, and beliefs will live on through you guys and all of her loved ones.
Jacquie was a true fighter. Now she is at peace in a better place. Our sympathy and prayers go out to your family at this difficult time.-Jacquie Foran & Family
I had the honor of meeting Jacquie on my first OT clinical experience. As we are very close in age I wish we could have met somewhere else…at school or concert wherever. But in my few visits with her I learned so much… more than any textbook could offer. Jacquie has inspired me to have patience, laugh, and appreciate the little things in life. I will never forget the lessons she taught me.God Bless.-Diana MinardoOccupational Therapy Student
I’m so sorry about Jacquie, but TJ is right. She did set a wonderful example for us, to live every day like its your last and to cherish every moment because you never will know how much time you have left. She fought a long hard battle and we should all admire her for that. She tried her best and stayed as long as she could for us. We miss you Jacquie and love you lots!-Megan
I never met Jacquie, but I knew some of her friends and I have heard much about her. The world lost a wonderful young woman who touched many lives in the very short time she had on earth. May God rest her soul and strengthen her loved ones in their time of need. God bless.
Hirsch Family, I never knew your beautiful daughter, but through my little sister and this website she has captured my heart, the way that she did to hundreds of others whether she knew them or not. I have a 9 month old daughter. I hope that she will be as kind, strong, admired and loved as Jacqiue was and ALWAYS will be by those that care about her. I hope that you can find some comfort in the fact that people all over this world have you and your beautiful angel in their prayers and hearts.
Dear Sharon, Torey, and Family-We want you to know that our hearts, thoughts, and prayers go out to you and your family. I (Elizabeth ) had the privilege of getting coached in gymnastics by Sharon at the Koessler center ( Buff. school of gymnastics ) about 30 years ago. I was there when Sharon dislocated her elbow, so its been quite a while…I know that Sharon drove me there sometimes. My dad was the assistant principal at North high school, and we were devasted to hear about your daughter’s illness. Sharon and Torey, you are an awesome family, and your daughter was truly a beautiful girl both physically, and spiritually. Ironically, my mom, Doreen ( I don’t know if you remember meeting her) passed away from ovarian cancer in 1997, and that night, a brilliant rainbow appeared, too. They are withus forever, always with us. We WILL see them again. God Bless you, please take good care…Hope you get this message . Elizabeth and Edward Mooradian( email is ediluzio@akronschools.org)
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. Jacquie sounds like a wonderful person and a terrific athlete! I’m sure I would have loved to teach with her, and to be inspired by her enthusiasm for life. I’m also sure she would have been an amazing inspiration to any student she taught. God bless and stay strong.
I just saw the segment on channel 2 news. I recognized Torey and went on-line to find out that I know him from the gymnastics center. My two boys took lessons there for many years. Please know that you’re all in our family’s prayers. The website is lovely and an incredible tribute to your daughter. I was extremely touched by TJ’s letter. What a wonderful brother. He is an inspiration to me and his letter reminded me to appreciate each day and let others know they’re loved. We are sorry of your loss of Jacquie-know that she will live on in the messages of strength and hope she has shared with others. May God Bless!
I have not seen Jacquie since high school but I do remember going to the mall and movies with her when we were younger. I’m glad I got to know Jacquie for the short time she was with us. My heart truly goes out to all her family and friends. R.I.P. Jacquie
I am lucky enough to have known Jacquie at my time at Geneseo. Those who had the opportunity to know her, know how much she will be missed. The impression she has left with us will never be forgottenTo the Hirsch family, my condolences are with you. Losing a family member is never easy, you will be in my prayersRIP Jacquie, keep smiling down upon usTimothy Garback
To Sharon, Tory and TJ I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Jacquie. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. She was a wonderful girl, that I can only remember a smile on her face. She will be missed greatly. Jennifer Cavaretta
Dear Jacquie, Hi baby girl! I’m not sure that you’ll remember me because you were only about 12yrs. old when I worked for your parents, but I remember you! I remember the first time I met you, (you looked like a miniture version of your dad) I remember it because you were the type of child whose awesome personality shown through very brightly! When I look at your pictures I’m amazed at what a beautiful young woman you grew to be, (much like your mother) – in fact you’re down right gorgeous! Of course your bright personality was shining through every picture, just like I remember. My heart aches for your parents and brother to hear that you’ve moved on to be with our Father in heaven. I pray to find the words to provide some type of comfort for them, but I’m afraid there aren’t any. You were too beautiful for this world that’s full of saddness and fear and I know that our heavenly Father will whipe away every single one of your tears. I hope to see you and your cancer-free body, my dear, at the second coming and smile as you are reunited with your family! I’m sure you’ll be shining brightly then too. Love always – Sherrie (Gamble) Lilleck T.J., Torey and Sharon, I pray that you’ll find comfort in God and each other. I’m sorry I couldn’t be there to soften the sound of your breaking hearts over the last 11 months. The loss of a child or sister seems too much for humans to bear. God promises to take on your burdens. I pray that you find refuge in Him. I’m deeply sorry for your loss.
Torey, Sharon, and TJ: Words cannot express how sad I am that Jacquie is no longer with us in life to make us smile and inspire us to be better people than we ever thought we could be. But I know she will always be there in the rainbows, in my dreams, and every time I see Tinkerbell. My prayers are with you. Sandy
To Jackie and Family, I never met Jackie, but, Angela has spoke so highly of her, and it amazes me how strong she was through this battle. Jackie has helped people realize to live theirs lives to the fullest, and never give up, to me, that is one amazing person. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Stay Strong.
Although I dont know your family I wanted to show my deepest sadness for your loss. I am forever confused by this disease and how it does not discriminate on who it consumes and the lives it effects.
Dear Hirsch Family I don’t think I truly understood the word “believe” until I met all of you. You are an inspiration to all families. You have strength, courage and an amazing gift for love. I know the girls will always believe and love Jacquie with all their hearts. She has changed so many lives for the good, and will continue to do so always. Thank you for what you and Jacquie have done for us all. Much love to you and Jacquie.
Hi Jacquie, Is how I always start and I am thinking of you, always will be and I miss you. Alicia- I know you like songs, so I had to write and ask if you have heard “Grace” By Katie Havnevik? You can hear it on You Tube. It brings tears to my eyes everytime and has 2 lines that stick in my mind… ” this is so unreal” and one that I wish for all of us “Turn my grief to grace”. Love and hugs to the entire family. Sara
I also never new Jaquie, however I am a frequent blood donor and a staunch supporter of all cancer research! I pray for the family’s of those who lost a loved one to any cancer, especially Jaquie’s family now.
To Jacquie and her amazing family and friends – People often ask me how I can work at Roswell Park and deal with what I deal with on a daily basis. My answer is always that in the midst of all of the sadness and loss, I am constantly reminded and inspired by the strength and power of family and friendship when I see people come together to support their loved ones as they face the most difficult struggle of there lives. Jacquie’s story will always stand out as the most profound example of love that I have ever seen. Unfortunately, I only got to meet Jacquie when she was very sick, but through all of the tubes and medications and machines I could always see a sparkle in her eye and everyone who set foot in her room was touched by her. The constant outpouring of love and support from Jacquie’s family, friends, and even strangers is a testament to what an amazing person she is and I feel blessed to have met her, even if ever so briefly. I remember the first day I walked on the unit and saw the Tinkerbell picture hanging outside her door. I did not yet know anything about who was in that room or anything about Jacquie’s story…. but I found myself smiling!! Through this website I feel like I have gotten to know Jacquie a little better and I still find myself smiling whenever I think of her. TJ summed it up perfectly in his last message – she was truly here for a purpose and taught everyone she touched life’s most important lesson of all. As all of you who love Jacquie deal with this unimaginable heartache, I hope you can find some comfort in knowing how much your beautiful girl meant to all of us and that we will always remember and be inspired by you all.
One day, many months back my daughter asked me to read Jacquie’s story. You shared your lives, victories and set backs with everyone on Jacquie’s website showing what a truly amazing family you are. I learned so much about your family and Jacquie just by looking at the pictures. She was blessed to have had such a strong and loving family by her side as you were blessed to have someone as wonderful as her. I am truly sorry for your loss.
Hey Lovely, I called your voicemail last night just to hear your voice. Then I left you a message even though I know now I can talk to you anytime and you’ll hear me. I hope you saw how many people came out to show their love for you yesterday. It was amazing – the line stretched on forever. I hope you can see the room too – it’s beautiful – Tink is everywhere and so is your beautiful face. Alicia and Grandma Bree and I decided we’re going to get Tink tattoos for you – Amanda, Ali and Justine will too I bet. We love you so much and hate that you’re gone but that amazing rainbow you sent us yesterday shows us that you aren’t really. Thank you for that. Love you so much and missing you always, <3 Sadie
I never knew Jacquie or the family outside of Roswell, but was very lucky and blessed to have met each of you. In the ICU where I work there is so much hurt and anger felt by patients and their families, it’s not very often that we come in contact with so much hope, love, spirituality, and support. You are all trule AMAZING individuals who have so much to offer. I wish I could have met you under different circumstances but am truly grateful that you entered my life at all. In the short time that I knew her, “Tink” inspired me in so many different ways. That was her gift to me, and I will forever remember her and each of you for that. Thank you.
Jax, thank you for the rainbow that you gave us yesterday as i walked out of your calling hours..it truly showed us that u are shinnin down and watchin over each and everyone that you loved…Continue to watch over us, especially your dad, mom and brother.. Rest in Peace Tink.
I couldn’t imagine what your family is going through at this time of loss. Stay strong for eachother. Jacquie is an inspiration, to remind myself and others to live everyday as if it were your last. My family and I will keep Jacquie and your family in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Marriott/McDermott family
AS WE DROVE TO THE WAKE LAST NIGHT WE SAW A BEAUTIFUL RAINBOW AND REALIZED JACQUIE WILL ALWAYS BE SENDING US HER STRENGTH AND HELPING US PUT A SMILE ON OUR FACE EVEN DURING THE SADDEST MOMENTS. WE WILL NEVER FORGET THAT SMILE.
Hello I did not know Jacquie or her family but after reading this girls and families battle I am now certain that I would like to see if I could be a donor of blood/platlates for someone in need. I have been inspired by her story. God Bless
I have long followed Jacquie’s fight although I don’t know her or the family. I was deeply saddened to learn of her crossing over on September 6th. She has taught all of us SO much about faith, hope, belief, strength and LOVE. Jacquie’s life is NOT over, it has just changed. Let us always be vigilant for signs of her, for messages, because her spirit is ever-present. Blessings to Jacquie, her family + many dear friends.
We are very sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter and sister, Jacquie and our prayers go out to you, the Hirsch family. We have relocated to SC, but we received the email and wanted to express our condolences. Our son, Sean Reid, is a former student at your Gymnastic Center. May God Bless You-Yvette, Patrick, Alex and Sean Reid
you know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember your dreams? That’s where I’ll always love you. That’s where I’ll be waiting. i love you tink. thank you so much for blessing us with that beautiful rainbow today, it calmed my soul & helped ease (at least a little) the intense pain in my heart. it is proof that you are still here, looking down on us, smiling down on us, showing us that you are okay.i love you beautiful girl, and i miss you. and don’t worry, the girls & i are going to take good care of your family… especially Sharon, I made her promise that she has to cook for me lots and lots. so don’t worry about that. we just miss you.<3 delish <3IN MY HEART & ON MY MIND 24/7p.s. some of the girls & i are going to get a tattoo to remind us of you... we aren’t positive of what yet, but we can’t wait. and i think bree is going to get it with us too! i thought you would like that.. keeping your traditions alive!
To Jacquie and family, I don’t even know where to begin… you are all so amazing. I saw a girl the other day wearing a Tink shirt and I couldn’t help but smile. That’s just one of the many things that reminds me and many others of Jacquie and that is what we’ll all have. You’re always in my thoughts and prayers, Jessica
Torey, Sharon and TJ, I was very sad to hear of the loss of your beautiful daughter and sister. Although I never met Jacquie, she was clearly an outstanding and wonderful young woman who will be sorely missed. You have my deepest sympathy in these very difficult times. Mark
I have never met this bright and beautiful young woman, yet after reading her story, I felt like I knew Jacquie. It is not fair to lose someone so young, I know, I have lost both a brother and a sister. Let it comfort you to know that Jacquie is truly ’home’ in God’s arms. God Bless your family.
to the Hirsch family: my daughters dance at Mary Alices Dance Studio and know of Jacquie’s fight from Ali Dietz. Although we didn’t know Jacquie, her courageous battle with this insance disease is an inspiration to our family and should be to everyone. You should be very proud of Jacquie and the inspiration she is to everyone!!! We are truly sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your famly. The Cappelli Family
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Craig & Kelly Johnson says:
September 11, 2008 at 5:54 pm -
Jacquie, we know that you will be looking over us and helping us be brave and help us to continue to work to help others who are battling cancer. – We believe in you and we pray for your friend and family to be strong. Craig & Kelly Johnson
Marietta Bennett says:
September 11, 2008 at 5:19 pm -
Sharon, Torey and TJ, Today was such a beautiful celebration of Jacquie’s life. It was so nice to finally meet all of you. Words cannot express how much your family has touched me these past few days. I love Jacquie with all my heart and I promise to keep in touch and Believe in everything she stands for. Jacquie is the kind of person that brings out the best in you and I am forever greatful that you brought her into this world and into our lives. All my love and prayers, Marietta
Brooks’ Mom says:
September 11, 2008 at 4:38 pm -
Torey, Sharon and TJ-I wanted to let you all know that today was very special to me…I saw such a wonderful family….You have shown us all what strength you have…keep each other very close!! you have a special gift in each other! …I thank you for allowing us all to be apart of your loss and allowing so many people to take a little part of Jacquie into their lives.Please know that I send you hugs and smiles…I can’t begin to know the road you will now walk…but please know that so many people are walking with you!!Fondly,Brooks’ Mom
Allison Gaudy says:
September 11, 2008 at 4:25 pm -
Working in a hospital I’m often humbled when I see patients walking the halls. I thank you for sharing your story and all of the emotions that go along with it. I now realize the emotions that go along with their stories, and I say a prayer that they have the strength and the courage that you have displayed over the last 11 months. It is apparent where Jacquie got her strength from. Continue to stay strong and find comfort in knowing how many lives Jacquie has touched in a short amount of time. She has made all of us better people. She will Never be forgotten, and she will live on in ALL of us. We will believe in her, and the lessons that she has taught us forever. Take Care and God Bless, Allison
Sara (albuquerque) says:
September 11, 2008 at 2:38 pm -
Hi Jacquie, I see your smile… and I know you were smiling and laughing too, today, at your most wonderful mom, dad and brother. Your family is beautiful in so many ways. Sharon, I will see you again soon, on my next visit home. I miss you already, but I am still always with you and always will be with you in mind and heart. Hang in and hold on and I send you all strength and courage to keep stepping forward. Love to you- Sara
Patty and Paul Daddario says:
September 11, 2008 at 1:49 pm -
Dear Torey, Sharon and TJ, Our most sincerest sympathy to all of you at this very difficult time. Our daughter Jill remembered meeting her when she came to Gleason’s to thank the gymnasts for a fundraising they had done for her. Jill thought she was wonderful and felt privilaged to have met her. She definately seemed like she left a wonderful mark in the world. May God give you peace and comfort to get through this loss. Congratulations on raising a wonderful daughter. She seemed amazing! Most Sincerely, Patty and Paul Daddario
Samantha West (RN in the ICU at RPCI) says:
September 11, 2008 at 1:01 pm -
Dear Hirsch Famliy… I am so deeply sorry for your family and the deep loss you are all feeling. Jax was such a FIGHTER!!! I wish I could have met her at another time. But I have to say that even during her most difficult times, her vibrent spirit shined through. In all of the years that I have been working at Roswell, I have been humbled by the strength of the human spirit through love and family. And your family is exceptional in that respect. I pray that peace may find all of you in time. I KNOW that Jax has that peace now. No more pian. She is whole again. Whenever I see “tink” will always be reminded of her and of all of you. My kids hug their Jacquie bears every night and we thank God for all of His gifts. We pray for Jax spirit and we pray that peace and comfort find all of you. God Bless , Sam
Reyes Family says:
September 11, 2008 at 12:35 pm -
Dear Torey, Sharon, and TJ, Words can’t express how sorry we are to hear about Jacquie. We’ve been following her blog and praying for her as we moved from Illinois to California. Although we never got to meet her, you did a wonderful job of introducing us to her through your writing. She was exceptional, and you were so lucky to have her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Peggy, Ed, and Taylor Reyes
KLS says:
September 11, 2008 at 12:34 pm -
Hirsch Family: You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Gail Caspare says:
September 11, 2008 at 8:50 am -
you have so many reasons to be proud – The wonderful person known as Jacqueline Elisabeth Hirsch; the brave, courageous gracious, superb fight that the entire Hirsch family waged; the inspiration you are to so many; and the work of the Jacquie for A.L.L. Foundation. Thoughts and prayers are sent your way.
Carol McArdle says:
September 11, 2008 at 8:22 am -
Jacquie, you are loved by more people than there are stars in the sky. Whenever I look up at a sky filled with stars, I will think about how much you are loved. And if it’s a cloudy night and I can’t see those stars, I will know they are still there shining for others to see. The memory of your strength will continue to give us strength as we go forth with you in our hearts. For all the days of my life, I will never forget you. Love, Carol McArdle
Renee Bowers says:
September 11, 2008 at 8:12 am -
Torey, Sharon, & TJ, I want to thank you for opening your hearts and sharing your lives and this most difficult struggle with us. We all share your pain and wish there was some way to make that pain go away. TJ is right when he said the most important thing now is that Jacquie is no longer in pain. We all need to hold onto that thought and let it provide us strength at this difficult time and throughout the rest of our lives. When I compete on Sunday in DC in the Nation’s Triathlon in Jacquie’s HONOR she will be with me providing me her strength and courage. I will carry her with me throughout the race, and she will carry me through. I can tell you for sure I am now even more determined than I already was!!! Keep Believing!! With all my Love, Renee
Samanthamum says:
September 11, 2008 at 7:53 am -
i haven’t been able to post in a long time. and i think it is because i am in such disbelief that this is truly going on. i almost didn’t come to the hospital because that is when i knew it would be final. i don’t think i would ever forgive myself if i didn’t, though, and the days since saturday have probably been the toughest of my life.you’d be so proud of us, jac, of me, ali, holly, your little folly family, you’d be so unbelievably proud to say that you were part of an organization that has come together so well in these past few days. i want you to know, jac, that even the little girls that didn’t know you feel close to you because we tell stories about you all the time. though most of the stories end with, “OH MY GOD I CANT BELIEVE SHE DID THAT!!!!” or “YEA.. THAT WAS A GREAT TIME, AND A GREAT MEAL..” it’s these simple memories of you, and memories of you and me that have kept me moving.today, this morning, as i get ready to attend what i imagine will be one of the most spectacular funerals i’ve ever seen, not because of how extravigant it is, but because we are all there.. together.. to celebrate your life, i can’t help but feel a small amount of hope in my heart.. for all who have come in contact with you, that we will make it through these next few days.i’m trying to be the best student teacher i can, jac. i’ve even been going out and DRINKING WATER on nights that i have to teach the next day. i’ve been putting time and effort into making my lessons the best they could be, and i keep you in my heart and with me all day long.remember the time on the risers when These Are Days were playing and we were latched onto each other like we were glued together, crying and saying how sad we were that you were graduating. even though i’m pretty sure it was WAY before you were leaving, i never actually thought there would be a time where i would “never see my big again.”tuesday night, i watched leah and ali schmitt have a reunion after not seeing each other in months, and i couldn’t look away and i was so heart broken because i just don’t get to see my big sister anymore. i know you’ll be with me in whatever i do, though, and i promise to remember you and celebrate you every day. i believe so strongly that you will live on in everyone’s hearts, and i am just in awe, and so blessed that i am one of the lucky ones who have known you.”it may well be,that we will never meet againin this lifetime,so let me say before we part,so much of me,is made of what i’ve learned from youyou’ll be with me like a handprint on my heart.and now whatever way our stories end,i know you have rewritten mine,by being my friend….because i knew you,i have been changed for good..”i miss you, big.love always, little sammie<3
Lindsay says:
September 11, 2008 at 2:18 am -
It’s heartwrenching to believe that someone everyone cares about so much can be taken away for no aparent reason. Jacquie lit up a room and was such an inspiration and mentor to me. I can’t imagine what your family is going through, but you guys raised a fantastic young woman who touched so many people and has done so many great things. her memory, faith, and beliefs will live on through you guys and all of her loved ones.
JG says:
September 11, 2008 at 1:17 am -
Hirsh’s My prayers and thoughts are with you
Jacquie Foran says:
September 10, 2008 at 10:46 pm -
Jacquie was a true fighter. Now she is at peace in a better place. Our sympathy and prayers go out to your family at this difficult time.-Jacquie Foran & Family
Diana Minardo says:
September 10, 2008 at 10:13 pm -
I had the honor of meeting Jacquie on my first OT clinical experience. As we are very close in age I wish we could have met somewhere else…at school or concert wherever. But in my few visits with her I learned so much… more than any textbook could offer. Jacquie has inspired me to have patience, laugh, and appreciate the little things in life. I will never forget the lessons she taught me.God Bless.-Diana MinardoOccupational Therapy Student
The Travale Family says:
September 10, 2008 at 9:03 pm -
I’m so sorry about Jacquie, but TJ is right. She did set a wonderful example for us, to live every day like its your last and to cherish every moment because you never will know how much time you have left. She fought a long hard battle and we should all admire her for that. She tried her best and stayed as long as she could for us. We miss you Jacquie and love you lots!-Megan
Scott M. says:
September 10, 2008 at 8:44 pm -
I never met Jacquie, but I knew some of her friends and I have heard much about her. The world lost a wonderful young woman who touched many lives in the very short time she had on earth. May God rest her soul and strengthen her loved ones in their time of need. God bless.
Anonymous says:
September 10, 2008 at 8:10 pm -
Hirsch Family, I never knew your beautiful daughter, but through my little sister and this website she has captured my heart, the way that she did to hundreds of others whether she knew them or not. I have a 9 month old daughter. I hope that she will be as kind, strong, admired and loved as Jacqiue was and ALWAYS will be by those that care about her. I hope that you can find some comfort in the fact that people all over this world have you and your beautiful angel in their prayers and hearts.
Edward and Elizabeth Mooradian says:
September 10, 2008 at 7:59 pm -
Dear Sharon, Torey, and Family-We want you to know that our hearts, thoughts, and prayers go out to you and your family. I (Elizabeth ) had the privilege of getting coached in gymnastics by Sharon at the Koessler center ( Buff. school of gymnastics ) about 30 years ago. I was there when Sharon dislocated her elbow, so its been quite a while…I know that Sharon drove me there sometimes. My dad was the assistant principal at North high school, and we were devasted to hear about your daughter’s illness. Sharon and Torey, you are an awesome family, and your daughter was truly a beautiful girl both physically, and spiritually. Ironically, my mom, Doreen ( I don’t know if you remember meeting her) passed away from ovarian cancer in 1997, and that night, a brilliant rainbow appeared, too. They are withus forever, always with us. We WILL see them again. God Bless you, please take good care…Hope you get this message . Elizabeth and Edward Mooradian( email is ediluzio@akronschools.org)
A West Seneca teacher says:
September 10, 2008 at 7:54 pm -
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. Jacquie sounds like a wonderful person and a terrific athlete! I’m sure I would have loved to teach with her, and to be inspired by her enthusiasm for life. I’m also sure she would have been an amazing inspiration to any student she taught. God bless and stay strong.
D’Agostino-Alsheimer says:
September 10, 2008 at 6:51 pm -
I just saw the segment on channel 2 news. I recognized Torey and went on-line to find out that I know him from the gymnastics center. My two boys took lessons there for many years. Please know that you’re all in our family’s prayers. The website is lovely and an incredible tribute to your daughter. I was extremely touched by TJ’s letter. What a wonderful brother. He is an inspiration to me and his letter reminded me to appreciate each day and let others know they’re loved. We are sorry of your loss of Jacquie-know that she will live on in the messages of strength and hope she has shared with others. May God Bless!
Wes T. says:
September 10, 2008 at 6:05 pm -
I have not seen Jacquie since high school but I do remember going to the mall and movies with her when we were younger. I’m glad I got to know Jacquie for the short time she was with us. My heart truly goes out to all her family and friends. R.I.P. Jacquie
Timothy Garback says:
September 10, 2008 at 5:48 pm -
I am lucky enough to have known Jacquie at my time at Geneseo. Those who had the opportunity to know her, know how much she will be missed. The impression she has left with us will never be forgottenTo the Hirsch family, my condolences are with you. Losing a family member is never easy, you will be in my prayersRIP Jacquie, keep smiling down upon usTimothy Garback
Jenn Cavarettta says:
September 10, 2008 at 4:58 pm -
To Sharon, Tory and TJ I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Jacquie. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. She was a wonderful girl, that I can only remember a smile on her face. She will be missed greatly. Jennifer Cavaretta
Sherrie Lilleck says:
September 10, 2008 at 4:29 pm -
Dear Jacquie, Hi baby girl! I’m not sure that you’ll remember me because you were only about 12yrs. old when I worked for your parents, but I remember you! I remember the first time I met you, (you looked like a miniture version of your dad) I remember it because you were the type of child whose awesome personality shown through very brightly! When I look at your pictures I’m amazed at what a beautiful young woman you grew to be, (much like your mother) – in fact you’re down right gorgeous! Of course your bright personality was shining through every picture, just like I remember. My heart aches for your parents and brother to hear that you’ve moved on to be with our Father in heaven. I pray to find the words to provide some type of comfort for them, but I’m afraid there aren’t any. You were too beautiful for this world that’s full of saddness and fear and I know that our heavenly Father will whipe away every single one of your tears. I hope to see you and your cancer-free body, my dear, at the second coming and smile as you are reunited with your family! I’m sure you’ll be shining brightly then too. Love always – Sherrie (Gamble) Lilleck T.J., Torey and Sharon, I pray that you’ll find comfort in God and each other. I’m sorry I couldn’t be there to soften the sound of your breaking hearts over the last 11 months. The loss of a child or sister seems too much for humans to bear. God promises to take on your burdens. I pray that you find refuge in Him. I’m deeply sorry for your loss.
Sandy Jensen says:
September 10, 2008 at 3:37 pm -
Torey, Sharon, and TJ: Words cannot express how sad I am that Jacquie is no longer with us in life to make us smile and inspire us to be better people than we ever thought we could be. But I know she will always be there in the rainbows, in my dreams, and every time I see Tinkerbell. My prayers are with you. Sandy
Christie Sander says:
September 10, 2008 at 3:05 pm -
To Jackie and Family, I never met Jackie, but, Angela has spoke so highly of her, and it amazes me how strong she was through this battle. Jackie has helped people realize to live theirs lives to the fullest, and never give up, to me, that is one amazing person. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Stay Strong.
Karen Riker says:
September 10, 2008 at 2:46 pm -
Torey, Sharon and TJ, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today and always.
nameless friend says:
September 10, 2008 at 2:28 pm -
Although I dont know your family I wanted to show my deepest sadness for your loss. I am forever confused by this disease and how it does not discriminate on who it consumes and the lives it effects.
The Dietz Family says:
September 10, 2008 at 1:30 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family I don’t think I truly understood the word “believe” until I met all of you. You are an inspiration to all families. You have strength, courage and an amazing gift for love. I know the girls will always believe and love Jacquie with all their hearts. She has changed so many lives for the good, and will continue to do so always. Thank you for what you and Jacquie have done for us all. Much love to you and Jacquie.
Sara (albuquerque) says:
September 10, 2008 at 12:18 pm -
Hi Jacquie, Is how I always start and I am thinking of you, always will be and I miss you. Alicia- I know you like songs, so I had to write and ask if you have heard “Grace” By Katie Havnevik? You can hear it on You Tube. It brings tears to my eyes everytime and has 2 lines that stick in my mind… ” this is so unreal” and one that I wish for all of us “Turn my grief to grace”. Love and hugs to the entire family. Sara
Heather says:
September 10, 2008 at 12:08 pm -
I also never new Jaquie, however I am a frequent blood donor and a staunch supporter of all cancer research! I pray for the family’s of those who lost a loved one to any cancer, especially Jaquie’s family now.
A friend from Roswell Park says:
September 10, 2008 at 11:52 am -
To Jacquie and her amazing family and friends – People often ask me how I can work at Roswell Park and deal with what I deal with on a daily basis. My answer is always that in the midst of all of the sadness and loss, I am constantly reminded and inspired by the strength and power of family and friendship when I see people come together to support their loved ones as they face the most difficult struggle of there lives. Jacquie’s story will always stand out as the most profound example of love that I have ever seen. Unfortunately, I only got to meet Jacquie when she was very sick, but through all of the tubes and medications and machines I could always see a sparkle in her eye and everyone who set foot in her room was touched by her. The constant outpouring of love and support from Jacquie’s family, friends, and even strangers is a testament to what an amazing person she is and I feel blessed to have met her, even if ever so briefly. I remember the first day I walked on the unit and saw the Tinkerbell picture hanging outside her door. I did not yet know anything about who was in that room or anything about Jacquie’s story…. but I found myself smiling!! Through this website I feel like I have gotten to know Jacquie a little better and I still find myself smiling whenever I think of her. TJ summed it up perfectly in his last message – she was truly here for a purpose and taught everyone she touched life’s most important lesson of all. As all of you who love Jacquie deal with this unimaginable heartache, I hope you can find some comfort in knowing how much your beautiful girl meant to all of us and that we will always remember and be inspired by you all.
Geneseo Mom says:
September 10, 2008 at 11:46 am -
One day, many months back my daughter asked me to read Jacquie’s story. You shared your lives, victories and set backs with everyone on Jacquie’s website showing what a truly amazing family you are. I learned so much about your family and Jacquie just by looking at the pictures. She was blessed to have had such a strong and loving family by her side as you were blessed to have someone as wonderful as her. I am truly sorry for your loss.
Sadie says:
September 10, 2008 at 10:49 am -
Hey Lovely, I called your voicemail last night just to hear your voice. Then I left you a message even though I know now I can talk to you anytime and you’ll hear me. I hope you saw how many people came out to show their love for you yesterday. It was amazing – the line stretched on forever. I hope you can see the room too – it’s beautiful – Tink is everywhere and so is your beautiful face. Alicia and Grandma Bree and I decided we’re going to get Tink tattoos for you – Amanda, Ali and Justine will too I bet. We love you so much and hate that you’re gone but that amazing rainbow you sent us yesterday shows us that you aren’t really. Thank you for that. Love you so much and missing you always, <3 Sadie
Shiloh Belz says:
September 10, 2008 at 10:13 am -
I never knew Jacquie or the family outside of Roswell, but was very lucky and blessed to have met each of you. In the ICU where I work there is so much hurt and anger felt by patients and their families, it’s not very often that we come in contact with so much hope, love, spirituality, and support. You are all trule AMAZING individuals who have so much to offer. I wish I could have met you under different circumstances but am truly grateful that you entered my life at all. In the short time that I knew her, “Tink” inspired me in so many different ways. That was her gift to me, and I will forever remember her and each of you for that. Thank you.
Paul Dotterweich says:
September 10, 2008 at 9:41 am -
Torey, Sharon and TJI am truly sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.Paul
Julie Wallenhorst says:
September 10, 2008 at 9:18 am -
Jax, thank you for the rainbow that you gave us yesterday as i walked out of your calling hours..it truly showed us that u are shinnin down and watchin over each and everyone that you loved…Continue to watch over us, especially your dad, mom and brother.. Rest in Peace Tink.
Marriott/McDermott Family says:
September 10, 2008 at 8:46 am -
I couldn’t imagine what your family is going through at this time of loss. Stay strong for eachother. Jacquie is an inspiration, to remind myself and others to live everyday as if it were your last. My family and I will keep Jacquie and your family in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Marriott/McDermott family
Anonymous says:
September 10, 2008 at 8:40 am -
AS WE DROVE TO THE WAKE LAST NIGHT WE SAW A BEAUTIFUL RAINBOW AND REALIZED JACQUIE WILL ALWAYS BE SENDING US HER STRENGTH AND HELPING US PUT A SMILE ON OUR FACE EVEN DURING THE SADDEST MOMENTS. WE WILL NEVER FORGET THAT SMILE.
a friend says:
September 10, 2008 at 7:46 am -
Hello I did not know Jacquie or her family but after reading this girls and families battle I am now certain that I would like to see if I could be a donor of blood/platlates for someone in need. I have been inspired by her story. God Bless
A Stranger says:
September 10, 2008 at 7:26 am -
I have long followed Jacquie’s fight although I don’t know her or the family. I was deeply saddened to learn of her crossing over on September 6th. She has taught all of us SO much about faith, hope, belief, strength and LOVE. Jacquie’s life is NOT over, it has just changed. Let us always be vigilant for signs of her, for messages, because her spirit is ever-present. Blessings to Jacquie, her family + many dear friends.
The Reid Family says:
September 10, 2008 at 12:05 am -
We are very sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter and sister, Jacquie and our prayers go out to you, the Hirsch family. We have relocated to SC, but we received the email and wanted to express our condolences. Our son, Sean Reid, is a former student at your Gymnastic Center. May God Bless You-Yvette, Patrick, Alex and Sean Reid
alicia says:
September 9, 2008 at 11:44 pm -
you know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember your dreams? That’s where I’ll always love you. That’s where I’ll be waiting. i love you tink. thank you so much for blessing us with that beautiful rainbow today, it calmed my soul & helped ease (at least a little) the intense pain in my heart. it is proof that you are still here, looking down on us, smiling down on us, showing us that you are okay.i love you beautiful girl, and i miss you. and don’t worry, the girls & i are going to take good care of your family… especially Sharon, I made her promise that she has to cook for me lots and lots. so don’t worry about that. we just miss you.<3 delish <3IN MY HEART & ON MY MIND 24/7p.s. some of the girls & i are going to get a tattoo to remind us of you... we aren’t positive of what yet, but we can’t wait. and i think bree is going to get it with us too! i thought you would like that.. keeping your traditions alive!
Jessica Wigmore says:
September 9, 2008 at 11:42 pm -
To Jacquie and family, I don’t even know where to begin… you are all so amazing. I saw a girl the other day wearing a Tink shirt and I couldn’t help but smile. That’s just one of the many things that reminds me and many others of Jacquie and that is what we’ll all have. You’re always in my thoughts and prayers, Jessica
Mark Zimmerman, East Brunswick NJ says:
September 9, 2008 at 10:24 pm -
Torey, Sharon and TJ, I was very sad to hear of the loss of your beautiful daughter and sister. Although I never met Jacquie, she was clearly an outstanding and wonderful young woman who will be sorely missed. You have my deepest sympathy in these very difficult times. Mark
anon. says:
September 9, 2008 at 9:59 pm -
I have never met this bright and beautiful young woman, yet after reading her story, I felt like I knew Jacquie. It is not fair to lose someone so young, I know, I have lost both a brother and a sister. Let it comfort you to know that Jacquie is truly ’home’ in God’s arms. God Bless your family.
Jodie Cappelli says:
September 9, 2008 at 9:59 pm -
to the Hirsch family: my daughters dance at Mary Alices Dance Studio and know of Jacquie’s fight from Ali Dietz. Although we didn’t know Jacquie, her courageous battle with this insance disease is an inspiration to our family and should be to everyone. You should be very proud of Jacquie and the inspiration she is to everyone!!! We are truly sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your famly. The Cappelli Family