Like many others we never knew Jacquie but we are part of your gymnastics community. My daughters and myself have all prayed and hoped for a recovery. It takes an extremely strong family to go through this battle and even on the eve of her passing, know what her purpose in life is for. Forever pass on the beautiful message that your sister/daughter brought to this world. It truely was a brighter place with her in it. Know that she will be looking over all of you and that one day you will be reunited again. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
TJ and Hirsch family, They say when someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. I wish you hope in the midst of sorrow and comfort in the midst of pain. Jacquie was an amazing person, and she had an amazing support network in all of you. Jacquie will live on in each of you as you move forward and continue with your endless love. With heartfelt sympathy and kindest thoughts. Alane
What a beautiful girl, she will never be gone, she just moved on to a better world. She left her family with a beautiful memory of a lovely girl who did it all in her short 23 years. I’m sure she lived more than most. She gave her family much love. She lives on forever.
Dear Hirsch Family, On Sunday my daughter, Renee Bowers, will be doing the Triathalon in Jacquie’s honor as was planned only now with more meaning than ever. I can’t tell you how proud I am of her and all who have shown such courage and love for your family during all of this. I am proud to have been a small part of it and will keep you all in my prayers forever.She will be missed by people who never even knew her,how many of us would ever be able to say that!
I am so sorry for your loss, even though i did not know her personally, she was a beautiful young lady. i was so sad to hear that she had passed away. I will keep you all in my prayers through this sad time.
My heart goes out to the Hirsch family and loved ones. It seems each sparatic time I saw Jacquie over the past few years she always lit up the room. Jacquie is such a genuine and amazing person. I am truley blessed to know Jacquie. I’m sure she is truley an angel in heaven.
Sharon, I received the news from Fudd and Jess. I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know Jacquie but I thought and prayed for her as I do Fudd everynight. Sharon my thoughts are with you and your family today. Again I am so sorry. Sincerely, Hanna Nate
It has taken me time to write in, as I feel so very deeply for the loss of my God Daughter that I could not yet write. She and TJ and Sharon and Torey mean the world to me and the rest of my family. All four of us are part of you! Anjalie and Ryan became a part of Jacquie’s life and they feel so connected to her and you all. While selfishly I so desperately wish Jacquie did not leave us. But I do realize that she infact has not really left us. She will always live on in our heart, soul and in the lessons and inspiration she has given to hundreds of people, young and old from virtually around the world! Jacquie, I know you are looking down on us, smiling, and free from pain. You are now in the presence of God and angels and we will feel your presence in so many ways! TJ, Sharon and Torey, we can not express in words what we are feeling for you. Loss,grief is so painful but can be eased with the warmth and love of family and friends that surround you. We will be there with you . With so much love, Indie and Pat
Dear Hirsch family, I was saddened when I heard of Jacquie’s passing. I didn’t know her that well, but I always kept her in my heart. When I met her while on Blue Wave and heard her story, I was deeply touched. I will continue to pray for you all and I know that Jacquie will continue to inspire others with her courage and strength for years to come. I send you all my best wishes and condolences.Sincerely, Jessica Frank
Dear Hirsch Family, To quote Cheryl Geary (above), I did not know the “super gal” either, except through her story. I followed her path of courage and extraordinary BELIEF with every ounce of support and love for one I have never met. Her story means all the more to me because I had a stem cell transplant for Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma 7 1/2 years ago. We are all spirits on this planet for such a short time. Jacqui’s time was poignantly so.
How blessed we all are to of had Jacquie in our lives. Torey, Sharon & TJ- You have been in our thoughts and prayers throughout this whole nightmare. Although Jacquie is at peace and her enduring of pain is gone, we know that yours continues. We will keep you in our prayers and ask that you find comfort in the memories of a beautiful daughter.
Dear Sharon,Torey,and TJ,I have read your amazing journal and was so incredibly moved. I shared parts with Ken and our hearts ache for your loss. When we moved to Buffalo in 1993 the first thing we did was enroll our girls at GBGC. I remember thinking what an infectious happy kid Jacquie seemed and looking at your photo library is proof that it was true. My family sometimes laughs when I say I believe souls are matched in families. I like to believe that Cody chose me, Ken and his sisters. And so I believe that Jacquie chose the 3 of YOU! We Reddings will never watch Peter Pan without thinking about Jacquie, your love for eachother and her courageous fight against cancer. I truly wish we could have clapped harder and longer and kept Jacquie with us. J.M. Barrie did not just write “I BELIEVE” He also wrote the following: “It is said Love is blind. But love is not blind, it is an extra eye that sees what is most worthy of regard.” Our deepest condolences,The Redding FamilyJudy, Ken, Meghan, Erin and Ken
I know how we all feel now and each of us has our own way to grieve…I’ve had to learn this by experiencing losses like this far to often…first sad then mad then at some point you laugh at the little things again…in time we all find a way through this…it is life and we carry on,,, i have learned throught this last year that the things that really matter aren’t on tv, or played on sunday, or in a check at the end of the week or riding around on four wheels. it isn’t about my clothes(which are pretty nice) or where i shop or what school i go to or who i met last week at the governors ball… it isnt about who owes me money or who cut me off in line or who puts 23 items in the 7 item lane at tops(that does really get me though)… it is about the people in our lives and how we care about them unconditionally…i grew up with dogs my whole life…mans best friend loves you no matter what kind of day you had at the office, just wants a belly rub or a walk…simple thats all… i guess that its why jacquie touched so many…she was simple and showed us what really matters in the end…it is family…and that includes all that she touched… so alicia keep writing posts…anything you need to do to get by…go outside and scream…smash a tennis ball…go fishing…ride a bike…sleep…cry…laugh…shop…eat…drive…build a model airplane…write a book…whatever it takes do it…know it is ok to do those things…jacquie wouldnt say no would she? ps…sometimes a laugh is worth its weight in gold at times like this…i’ll try… i would tease jacquie that the hospital meatloaf she was sneaking in from different hospitals was making her sick, and she should share it,blah blah, and this went on and on with me and alicia…game shows about meatloaf… came home from work last night and sat down for dinner and you would never guess what was on my plate… you guessed it… salmon… no it was meatloaf and i loved it… one more piece for you jacquie
Jacquie…Punkin, I can not even put into words how much I miss you. You have been such a great sister and friend. I am so lucky to have known you and you will always be on my mind. I do not know anyone who listened better than you and you always made me feel good about myself. Thank you for always looking out for me, especially at the IB when you would trick me into thinking I was drinking three olives cherry, when in fact it was just a shirley temple….but we all know it was better off that way:) We have had some great times together and I will cherish them always. Come get your clock punkin! I love and miss you so so much. Love Always, Nicole (Flav)
My deepest thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. I never had the honor of meeting Jacquie. Lisa from Camp Good Days just sent me the info. I saw her picture and all I can say is heaven just became more beautiful. Wishing all of you strength Rob Lederman 97 Rock
To the Hirsch Family,Jacquie will always mean so much to so many. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful person with the world. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Dear Torey, Sharon and TJ We can’t properly express our sympathy over your loss of Jacquie, even though we know she’s at peace. All the thoughts and expressions of love and admiration for her that we’ve read are a beautiful tribute to her, and her family. Our thoughts are with you. Bobby, Jo and everyone at World Class Gymnastics
I am saddened to have seen the notice in the paper – I had hope for a different outcome as everyone else did. I know she was lucky to have been surrounded by such loving family and friends. I pray she watches over you as you try to move on without her in the flesh – she will always be in your hearts and minds. take care, jenny
Dear Torey, Sharon & TJ, we are all so sorry to hear about your loss. Jacquie was a beautiful and inspiring women, and she is looking down on everyone now. She truly is in a better place. You are all in our prayers. Richard Martina Adela and Jessica
the wife of a multiple myloma patient from ro says:
may god who watches over us and hears us when we pray,be very near to give you strength and comfort. may he bless and keep you within his loving care,and may it help you to know that he is always there. you have my deepest sympathy.
Dear Hirsch Family, I have never met your daughter but I have heard about her. My friends son is currently at Roswell and she would speak of Jacquie. I am so sorry for your loss and you are in my heart and prayers!
Jacquie always just called me Keenan so I thought that the best way to start. I started a job working for the diocese of the catholic church on long island a year ago and have been blessed to have the opportunity to go to daily Mass. It was not me, but I know that God brought Jacquie into my mind every day to pray for her and her suffering. I have been changed by her life and strengthened by her courage. Even though we couldn’t help Jacquie here I know that she will be praying for all of us for the rest of our lives! I can’t help but thank God for bringing her into my life ; )
Torey, Sharon, and TJ, I just want to thank you for your daughter. She is an amazing person who was able to teach all of us a number of great lessons. Thank you for all of the updates you have contunied to provide us with throughout the past months, even when things got difficult, you knew that Jacquies “extended family” would be there waiting to hear about the courageous battle. She is cancer free now, and watching over us from this day on. My deepest sympathies and love go out to you in this time of great sadness. God bless you all. and to Jax, I don’t know why you were brought into my life, but let me tell you, I am SO glad that you were. Little did I know a year ago that you were going to be such an inspiration to me. I will never forget you Jax, you will be in every lesson that I teach, and most importantly, forever in my heart. I will always Believe in you. I miss you dearly, but am comforted by the memory of the last time I saw you and the laughter we shared over the bananas and driving to school and your beautiful laugh. Much love Jax, and fly high. God bless you, Casey
I’ve never had the privilege of meeting Jacquie, but nevertheless I’ve been following her story faithfully, checking in whenever I get the chance. I was in awe of the love that surrounded her. It’s heartbreaking that she had to leave this earth, but there’s no doubt she left knowing how much she was LOVED. You should all be proud of that. As I browsed her photo album on this site, I couldn’t help but feel so helpless. This girl could be anyone’s daughter… anyone’s sister… anyone’s friend. Which makes one realize that this wasn’t just Jacquie’s fight, this was EVERYONE’s fight. Any one of us could be diagnosed with ALL. THANK YOU FOR FIGHTING THIS FIGHT FOR US. Every time a patient is admitted to the hospital with ALL, it gives the medical personnel an opportunity to learn more about this complicated disease. Every ounce of awareness you spread about Jacquie’s fight, inspires people to give money for more research. Your sacrifice has helped in astounding ways. THANK YOU. In a way, Jacquie was a valiant soldier in a war against this disease. The other gift Jacquie has given us is INSPIRATION. There is not one person who could read this guestbook and not be inspired to LOVE those around us and not take anyone for granted— not for a second! I wish I could express in words how deeply I feel for all of you right now. May your wonderful memories of your beautiful Jacquie give you peace during this time.
Dear Torey, Sharon & TJ, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I hope that you can all find more peace in the days ahead of you, knowing that Jacquie is no longer suffering. Although it has been many years since I have seen or even talked to any of you, you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this especially difficult time. Love, Tara Miller (Jason’s little sister)
Dear Hirsch family, As part of your gymnastics center community, we send you our deepest sympathy and our thanks for sharing Jacquie with us, even though we did not have a chance to get to know her personally. Her spirit is a guiding light that shines brightly on all who touch your lives. Your family has given our young daughter Mbali so much confidence and strength through the gymnastics center, which is making a big difference in her life and ours. I’m sure Jacquie’s inspiring warmth, energy and courage has had a big part in that even though she has not been there in person. May you draw on that strength and warmth in the coming days and know that she and you all have given much to the lives of those of us who only know you through your work and through this inspiring web site.
We are so very sorry for your loss. We appreciate your generosity in sharing Jacquie’s challenges with us all and we’ll be thinking of the best way to honor her memory and life. Like others have said, we’ll always remember her beautiful smile. Your friends from Hope Lodge, Owen and Cathy
I did not know the super-gal but I read her story. I teach special education to 6 rather sickly children and I hope this pretty lady will look down on us and teach my students that they are loved. I bet she can teach from above, as well PEACE!!
To The Hirsch Family: It is with a heavy heart that I write these words having just learned of Jacquie’s passing. She was an amazing woman. Having come to know her and Sharon at Hope Lodge, I will always remain impressed and moved by the strength, humor and perseverance that both Jacquie and Sharon demonstrated through this most difficult and painful journey. Though words are not quick in coming and seem unable to convey the emotions, I hope that you, the Hirsch family will know that in her short time, Jacquie touched and moved many people. I send my deepest condolescences.
Tory & Sharon, When my sister Susan sent me the news of your daughter Jacque, my heart filled with sadness when I learned about your great loss. The interesting thing is that when I opened the website and started to read about Jacquie tremendous love for others, her love for life, and her courageous fight — I realized how unique and special a person she was. If you measure life by the friends you make and how one enriches the lives of others — then Jacquie has lived a rich and long life. May God watch over Jacquie and both of you. Sharon although its been over 30 years since I saw you when we were all competing in gymnastics; this past May when I was visiting my family in Buffalo, Tory had dinner with us which is when I first learned of Jacquie and her courageous battle. Tory and Sharon although I will not be in Buffalo this week — my prayers are with you. Glenn Simon (Sacramento, CA.)
One more thing, and this is WAY happier…did anyone happen to notice how well the Bills did yesterday?? 34-10? Holy TOOT, Jacquie is truly their ANGEL IN THE ENDZONE!!!! I love you beautiful girl.<3 delisha <3
Hirsch family: these past few days I have been re-reading Sara (albuquerque’s) post about the dream she had friday night. at first reading this post deeply saddened me. but i have begun to realize, i think it is one of jac’s ways of telling us she is OKAY. i especially love reading that post because i love picturing jacquie smiling, laughing, feeling healthy, and most of all, being completely happy. that is how i will always remember her. i love you all hirsch family, you are all such wonderful amazing strong brave courageous people. please hang tight to one another, and please reach out to us if you ever need anything. jacquie, i miss you so much, and i selfishly want you back. my heart hurts in a way i never thought i could feel again. but i know that you are all around us. smiling with us, laughing at us, you are the ones that are now holding our hands, giving us strength, to push on through these terribly hard days, weeks, months, years that we have to endure without you. i love you.<3 alicia <3 i am sorry i am posting so much, i just find it comforts me, if only for a short while. i miss you.
I believe that Jax is in heaven spreading pixi dust all around us. Every time you hear a child laugh it is Jacquie (she truly had the best laugh). Every time you see the sun set it is Jacquie. Every time you see a butterfly it is Jacquie. She is one of the most beautiful women I have ever met. Her beautiful and kind spirit will live on forever. She is an inspiration to us all and she will be missed dearly. ~Lauren A. Trankle~
Jacquie, I miss you! I have this image of you at the age of 5 with that light up the room smile, wearing a jean jacket and funky glasses and you, your mom, TJ, my mom and I, were at your gramma Bree’s for a day of fun. I have an imprint of your amazing smile, that remained through the years and through the toughest of fighting days, in my heart. Elise has grown to love Tink, through knowing you and your love of Tink. I am glad for that, as that too makes me smile and think of you. Missing you always Sharon, I am forever with you, ahead of you, beside you and always holding your hand if you just squeeze real tight, no matter how many miles away I might be. Torey and TJ, You are in so many of my thoughts, you are remarkable men in many ways. I send my love, stength and a hug to you all.Thinking of your entire family! Love, Sara, Tom, Connor and Elise
To My Extended Family Torey, Sharon, & TJ It is with a heavy heart that I express my deepest condolences for your loss. My heart is broken because I can only imagine how difficult this struggle was on Jacquie and yourselves. I do believe that there is a reason for her leaving us now and it is much bigger than any of us could imagine. Your journey and Jacquie’s incredible fight are an inspiration to us all and has surely changed the way many of us approach life today. Although her physical presence has come and gone, her spirit will live on through each and everyone that has been touched by her beautiful soul. I am extremely fortunate to have had the opportunity to grow up with Jacquie over the past 16 years, sharing friendship, love, laughter and many experiences that I will cherish forever. I will always remember her beautiful smile that lit up the room with warmth and love, her great sense of humor and contagious laughter, her kind heart and caring nature, and of course her incredible drive and determination that has led her through the winding road of life. I know all of those who were blessed with the opportunity to know Jacquie have experienced this in some form. I have never met someone like Jacquie who could be so strong in the face of adversity and at the same time selflessly put others before her. Jacquie’s gift to us all is a guiding light, leading by example and cutting a path for us to follow in her foot steps. Torey, Sharon and TJ I can’t express enough love and thanks for opening your hearts and home and treating me like one of your own. I only hope that I am able to repay at least a portion of the love and kindness that you have extended to me. Thank you so much for sharing such a wonderful person with us. She has made a difference in the lives of so many and her memories have left an everlasting imprint on my heart. I will hold them close and cherish them forever. I am forever grateful to your family for giving so much. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers always. I do believe our Tink has finally gotten her wings and a place among the stars that she has always reached for. I will miss you very much Jax and I will never stop believing Love you always and forever, Josh
Dear Tori, Sharon and T.J.,You have been in our daily thoughts and prayers since Jacquie was diagnosed. Words cannot express our sorrow for your loss. Your courage has been contageous. May the memory of this wonderful young lady you have created and nurtured live on in the hearts of all who have accessed this website.Bless you today and every day,Margie, Tom, Danielle, Christina and Gina Benevento
I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to meet Jacquie during her courageous fight. I want to thank you Sharon, Torey and TJ for sharing Jacquie with me and countless others. Jacquie has taught me life lessons that I will cherish forever. I will continue to donate in honor of Jacquie’s life and what she has accomplished. I believe we will see Jacquie’s beautiful smile again not only in heaven but here on earth. All we need to do is truly believe and we will see her everywhere.”When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure.” Jacquie will be forever in my heart.Always believing, Jill Moore
Sharon, Torey and TJ, Our hearts go out to you at this most difficult time. Jacquie has left a beautiful legacy of love,courage and devotion to each life that she touched. It has been expressed in so many ways from all those who have written . As you continue on your lifes journey may you always feel her presence near and her love surround each of you her most precious family. You are all special to each of us as we pray that God will give you peace until you meet again. Love Marcia, Gene and family
Dear Hirsch Family, We just received word of the extremely sad news and wanted to express our deepest sympathy to your amazing, strong and wonderful family. It is impossible to imagine what you have been through and what you are going through now; but please know that you have all been in our thoughts and prayers every day and we are here for anything you may need. Brian, Stefanie, Sydney & Bryce
Like many others posting, I did not know Jacquie well- just through the small world that is Geneseo. However, I have been praying for Jacquie and your family throughout the last several months and reading the always-beautiful and positive updates. You seem to be such a close and resilient family- it is almost as if fate had to test such a bond for some reason we can’t understand. However, even through physical death, I know that bond will persevere.I will never forget Jacquie’s story, her strength, and the amazing legacy she left. Her memory will undoubtedly impact the way I live my life for many years to come.-Sarah Osterling
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Leiser Family says:
September 9, 2008 at 9:44 pm -
Like many others we never knew Jacquie but we are part of your gymnastics community. My daughters and myself have all prayed and hoped for a recovery. It takes an extremely strong family to go through this battle and even on the eve of her passing, know what her purpose in life is for. Forever pass on the beautiful message that your sister/daughter brought to this world. It truely was a brighter place with her in it. Know that she will be looking over all of you and that one day you will be reunited again. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Alane Seeger says:
September 9, 2008 at 9:43 pm -
TJ and Hirsch family, They say when someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. I wish you hope in the midst of sorrow and comfort in the midst of pain. Jacquie was an amazing person, and she had an amazing support network in all of you. Jacquie will live on in each of you as you move forward and continue with your endless love. With heartfelt sympathy and kindest thoughts. Alane
Lois KARL, Lakelland, Fl. says:
September 9, 2008 at 9:13 pm -
What a beautiful girl, she will never be gone, she just moved on to a better world. She left her family with a beautiful memory of a lovely girl who did it all in her short 23 years. I’m sure she lived more than most. She gave her family much love. She lives on forever.
Terri says:
September 9, 2008 at 9:06 pm -
I can’t imagine how very devastated you are, but if good thoughts and prayers will help, you have mine…
BECKY ROSELLI says:
September 9, 2008 at 8:49 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, On Sunday my daughter, Renee Bowers, will be doing the Triathalon in Jacquie’s honor as was planned only now with more meaning than ever. I can’t tell you how proud I am of her and all who have shown such courage and love for your family during all of this. I am proud to have been a small part of it and will keep you all in my prayers forever.She will be missed by people who never even knew her,how many of us would ever be able to say that!
erin doepp says:
September 9, 2008 at 8:35 pm -
I am so sorry for your loss, even though i did not know her personally, she was a beautiful young lady. i was so sad to hear that she had passed away. I will keep you all in my prayers through this sad time.
Bill N says:
September 9, 2008 at 8:24 pm -
My heart goes out to the Hirsch family and loved ones. It seems each sparatic time I saw Jacquie over the past few years she always lit up the room. Jacquie is such a genuine and amazing person. I am truley blessed to know Jacquie. I’m sure she is truley an angel in heaven.
Hanna Nate says:
September 9, 2008 at 8:20 pm -
Sharon, I received the news from Fudd and Jess. I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know Jacquie but I thought and prayed for her as I do Fudd everynight. Sharon my thoughts are with you and your family today. Again I am so sorry. Sincerely, Hanna Nate
Pat and Indie says:
September 9, 2008 at 8:14 pm -
It has taken me time to write in, as I feel so very deeply for the loss of my God Daughter that I could not yet write. She and TJ and Sharon and Torey mean the world to me and the rest of my family. All four of us are part of you! Anjalie and Ryan became a part of Jacquie’s life and they feel so connected to her and you all. While selfishly I so desperately wish Jacquie did not leave us. But I do realize that she infact has not really left us. She will always live on in our heart, soul and in the lessons and inspiration she has given to hundreds of people, young and old from virtually around the world! Jacquie, I know you are looking down on us, smiling, and free from pain. You are now in the presence of God and angels and we will feel your presence in so many ways! TJ, Sharon and Torey, we can not express in words what we are feeling for you. Loss,grief is so painful but can be eased with the warmth and love of family and friends that surround you. We will be there with you . With so much love, Indie and Pat
kim says:
September 9, 2008 at 7:10 pm -
i’m very sad that jacquie loss….. But very happy that Jacquie is not suffering any more. But she’ll be with us. love someone whos feels terrible
Jessica Frank says:
September 9, 2008 at 7:08 pm -
Dear Hirsch family, I was saddened when I heard of Jacquie’s passing. I didn’t know her that well, but I always kept her in my heart. When I met her while on Blue Wave and heard her story, I was deeply touched. I will continue to pray for you all and I know that Jacquie will continue to inspire others with her courage and strength for years to come. I send you all my best wishes and condolences.Sincerely, Jessica Frank
jenna finton says:
September 9, 2008 at 7:03 pm -
hi i’m jacquie ’s gymnastic student i’m really sorry for what happen! i can’t stop thinking about her. thank you Love,
Thom Weyand, Jennifer Warnes’ uncle says:
September 9, 2008 at 7:00 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, To quote Cheryl Geary (above), I did not know the “super gal” either, except through her story. I followed her path of courage and extraordinary BELIEF with every ounce of support and love for one I have never met. Her story means all the more to me because I had a stem cell transplant for Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma 7 1/2 years ago. We are all spirits on this planet for such a short time. Jacqui’s time was poignantly so.
Burgher family says:
September 9, 2008 at 6:42 pm -
How blessed we all are to of had Jacquie in our lives. Torey, Sharon & TJ- You have been in our thoughts and prayers throughout this whole nightmare. Although Jacquie is at peace and her enduring of pain is gone, we know that yours continues. We will keep you in our prayers and ask that you find comfort in the memories of a beautiful daughter.
Judy Redding says:
September 9, 2008 at 6:39 pm -
Dear Sharon,Torey,and TJ,I have read your amazing journal and was so incredibly moved. I shared parts with Ken and our hearts ache for your loss. When we moved to Buffalo in 1993 the first thing we did was enroll our girls at GBGC. I remember thinking what an infectious happy kid Jacquie seemed and looking at your photo library is proof that it was true. My family sometimes laughs when I say I believe souls are matched in families. I like to believe that Cody chose me, Ken and his sisters. And so I believe that Jacquie chose the 3 of YOU! We Reddings will never watch Peter Pan without thinking about Jacquie, your love for eachother and her courageous fight against cancer. I truly wish we could have clapped harder and longer and kept Jacquie with us. J.M. Barrie did not just write “I BELIEVE” He also wrote the following: “It is said Love is blind. But love is not blind, it is an extra eye that sees what is most worthy of regard.” Our deepest condolences,The Redding FamilyJudy, Ken, Meghan, Erin and Ken
Sean Coughlin says:
September 9, 2008 at 6:39 pm -
my condolences and prayers go out to the hirsch family.i will miss you jacquie
Michael Stoughton says:
September 9, 2008 at 6:33 pm -
I know how we all feel now and each of us has our own way to grieve…I’ve had to learn this by experiencing losses like this far to often…first sad then mad then at some point you laugh at the little things again…in time we all find a way through this…it is life and we carry on,,, i have learned throught this last year that the things that really matter aren’t on tv, or played on sunday, or in a check at the end of the week or riding around on four wheels. it isn’t about my clothes(which are pretty nice) or where i shop or what school i go to or who i met last week at the governors ball… it isnt about who owes me money or who cut me off in line or who puts 23 items in the 7 item lane at tops(that does really get me though)… it is about the people in our lives and how we care about them unconditionally…i grew up with dogs my whole life…mans best friend loves you no matter what kind of day you had at the office, just wants a belly rub or a walk…simple thats all… i guess that its why jacquie touched so many…she was simple and showed us what really matters in the end…it is family…and that includes all that she touched… so alicia keep writing posts…anything you need to do to get by…go outside and scream…smash a tennis ball…go fishing…ride a bike…sleep…cry…laugh…shop…eat…drive…build a model airplane…write a book…whatever it takes do it…know it is ok to do those things…jacquie wouldnt say no would she? ps…sometimes a laugh is worth its weight in gold at times like this…i’ll try… i would tease jacquie that the hospital meatloaf she was sneaking in from different hospitals was making her sick, and she should share it,blah blah, and this went on and on with me and alicia…game shows about meatloaf… came home from work last night and sat down for dinner and you would never guess what was on my plate… you guessed it… salmon… no it was meatloaf and i loved it… one more piece for you jacquie
Nicole Brunet says:
September 9, 2008 at 6:32 pm -
Jacquie…Punkin, I can not even put into words how much I miss you. You have been such a great sister and friend. I am so lucky to have known you and you will always be on my mind. I do not know anyone who listened better than you and you always made me feel good about myself. Thank you for always looking out for me, especially at the IB when you would trick me into thinking I was drinking three olives cherry, when in fact it was just a shirley temple….but we all know it was better off that way:) We have had some great times together and I will cherish them always. Come get your clock punkin! I love and miss you so so much. Love Always, Nicole (Flav)
Rob Lederman says:
September 9, 2008 at 6:01 pm -
My deepest thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. I never had the honor of meeting Jacquie. Lisa from Camp Good Days just sent me the info. I saw her picture and all I can say is heaven just became more beautiful. Wishing all of you strength Rob Lederman 97 Rock
Jennifer Hadley says:
September 9, 2008 at 5:09 pm -
To the Hirsch Family,Jacquie will always mean so much to so many. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful person with the world. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Bobby, Jo and World Class Gymnastics says:
September 9, 2008 at 4:49 pm -
Dear Torey, Sharon and TJ We can’t properly express our sympathy over your loss of Jacquie, even though we know she’s at peace. All the thoughts and expressions of love and admiration for her that we’ve read are a beautiful tribute to her, and her family. Our thoughts are with you. Bobby, Jo and everyone at World Class Gymnastics
Jenny Crandall says:
September 9, 2008 at 4:40 pm -
I am saddened to have seen the notice in the paper – I had hope for a different outcome as everyone else did. I know she was lucky to have been surrounded by such loving family and friends. I pray she watches over you as you try to move on without her in the flesh – she will always be in your hearts and minds. take care, jenny
the smehlik family says:
September 9, 2008 at 4:30 pm -
Dear Torey, Sharon & TJ, we are all so sorry to hear about your loss. Jacquie was a beautiful and inspiring women, and she is looking down on everyone now. She truly is in a better place. You are all in our prayers. Richard Martina Adela and Jessica
the wife of a multiple myloma patient from ro says:
September 9, 2008 at 4:16 pm -
may god who watches over us and hears us when we pray,be very near to give you strength and comfort. may he bless and keep you within his loving care,and may it help you to know that he is always there. you have my deepest sympathy.
Anonymous says:
September 9, 2008 at 3:31 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, I have never met your daughter but I have heard about her. My friends son is currently at Roswell and she would speak of Jacquie. I am so sorry for your loss and you are in my heart and prayers!
Keenan says:
September 9, 2008 at 3:27 pm -
Jacquie always just called me Keenan so I thought that the best way to start. I started a job working for the diocese of the catholic church on long island a year ago and have been blessed to have the opportunity to go to daily Mass. It was not me, but I know that God brought Jacquie into my mind every day to pray for her and her suffering. I have been changed by her life and strengthened by her courage. Even though we couldn’t help Jacquie here I know that she will be praying for all of us for the rest of our lives! I can’t help but thank God for bringing her into my life ; )
Casey Stiokas says:
September 9, 2008 at 3:15 pm -
Torey, Sharon, and TJ, I just want to thank you for your daughter. She is an amazing person who was able to teach all of us a number of great lessons. Thank you for all of the updates you have contunied to provide us with throughout the past months, even when things got difficult, you knew that Jacquies “extended family” would be there waiting to hear about the courageous battle. She is cancer free now, and watching over us from this day on. My deepest sympathies and love go out to you in this time of great sadness. God bless you all. and to Jax, I don’t know why you were brought into my life, but let me tell you, I am SO glad that you were. Little did I know a year ago that you were going to be such an inspiration to me. I will never forget you Jax, you will be in every lesson that I teach, and most importantly, forever in my heart. I will always Believe in you. I miss you dearly, but am comforted by the memory of the last time I saw you and the laughter we shared over the bananas and driving to school and your beautiful laugh. Much love Jax, and fly high. God bless you, Casey
Michelle says:
September 9, 2008 at 3:03 pm -
I’ve never had the privilege of meeting Jacquie, but nevertheless I’ve been following her story faithfully, checking in whenever I get the chance. I was in awe of the love that surrounded her. It’s heartbreaking that she had to leave this earth, but there’s no doubt she left knowing how much she was LOVED. You should all be proud of that. As I browsed her photo album on this site, I couldn’t help but feel so helpless. This girl could be anyone’s daughter… anyone’s sister… anyone’s friend. Which makes one realize that this wasn’t just Jacquie’s fight, this was EVERYONE’s fight. Any one of us could be diagnosed with ALL. THANK YOU FOR FIGHTING THIS FIGHT FOR US. Every time a patient is admitted to the hospital with ALL, it gives the medical personnel an opportunity to learn more about this complicated disease. Every ounce of awareness you spread about Jacquie’s fight, inspires people to give money for more research. Your sacrifice has helped in astounding ways. THANK YOU. In a way, Jacquie was a valiant soldier in a war against this disease. The other gift Jacquie has given us is INSPIRATION. There is not one person who could read this guestbook and not be inspired to LOVE those around us and not take anyone for granted— not for a second! I wish I could express in words how deeply I feel for all of you right now. May your wonderful memories of your beautiful Jacquie give you peace during this time.
Rosina says:
September 9, 2008 at 1:59 pm -
Tara Miller says:
September 9, 2008 at 12:58 pm -
Dear Torey, Sharon & TJ, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I hope that you can all find more peace in the days ahead of you, knowing that Jacquie is no longer suffering. Although it has been many years since I have seen or even talked to any of you, you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this especially difficult time. Love, Tara Miller (Jason’s little sister)
McCluskey family says:
September 9, 2008 at 11:50 am -
Dear Hirsch family, As part of your gymnastics center community, we send you our deepest sympathy and our thanks for sharing Jacquie with us, even though we did not have a chance to get to know her personally. Her spirit is a guiding light that shines brightly on all who touch your lives. Your family has given our young daughter Mbali so much confidence and strength through the gymnastics center, which is making a big difference in her life and ours. I’m sure Jacquie’s inspiring warmth, energy and courage has had a big part in that even though she has not been there in person. May you draw on that strength and warmth in the coming days and know that she and you all have given much to the lives of those of us who only know you through your work and through this inspiring web site.
Owen and Cathy says:
September 9, 2008 at 11:30 am -
We are so very sorry for your loss. We appreciate your generosity in sharing Jacquie’s challenges with us all and we’ll be thinking of the best way to honor her memory and life. Like others have said, we’ll always remember her beautiful smile. Your friends from Hope Lodge, Owen and Cathy
cheryl geary says:
September 9, 2008 at 11:28 am -
I did not know the super-gal but I read her story. I teach special education to 6 rather sickly children and I hope this pretty lady will look down on us and teach my students that they are loved. I bet she can teach from above, as well PEACE!!
Eva Margot Kant, LMSW says:
September 9, 2008 at 10:37 am -
To The Hirsch Family: It is with a heavy heart that I write these words having just learned of Jacquie’s passing. She was an amazing woman. Having come to know her and Sharon at Hope Lodge, I will always remain impressed and moved by the strength, humor and perseverance that both Jacquie and Sharon demonstrated through this most difficult and painful journey. Though words are not quick in coming and seem unable to convey the emotions, I hope that you, the Hirsch family will know that in her short time, Jacquie touched and moved many people. I send my deepest condolescences.
Meg Glenn says:
September 9, 2008 at 9:39 am -
TJ and family, my deepest condolences on your loss. Rest easy knowing while she is no longer in any pain, her spirit will live on among many.
Michelle says:
September 9, 2008 at 9:13 am -
TO KNOW HER WAS TO LOVE HER! EVEN WHEN SHE WALKED AROUND, NOT WANTING TO BE NOTICED, SHE WAS A GRACEFUL PRESENCE!
Jill Andrews says:
September 9, 2008 at 7:26 am -
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
jammarlibre says:
September 9, 2008 at 2:05 am -
Glenn Simon says:
September 9, 2008 at 1:22 am -
Tory & Sharon, When my sister Susan sent me the news of your daughter Jacque, my heart filled with sadness when I learned about your great loss. The interesting thing is that when I opened the website and started to read about Jacquie tremendous love for others, her love for life, and her courageous fight — I realized how unique and special a person she was. If you measure life by the friends you make and how one enriches the lives of others — then Jacquie has lived a rich and long life. May God watch over Jacquie and both of you. Sharon although its been over 30 years since I saw you when we were all competing in gymnastics; this past May when I was visiting my family in Buffalo, Tory had dinner with us which is when I first learned of Jacquie and her courageous battle. Tory and Sharon although I will not be in Buffalo this week — my prayers are with you. Glenn Simon (Sacramento, CA.)
alicia says:
September 9, 2008 at 12:55 am -
One more thing, and this is WAY happier…did anyone happen to notice how well the Bills did yesterday?? 34-10? Holy TOOT, Jacquie is truly their ANGEL IN THE ENDZONE!!!! I love you beautiful girl.<3 delisha <3
alicia says:
September 9, 2008 at 12:51 am -
Hirsch family: these past few days I have been re-reading Sara (albuquerque’s) post about the dream she had friday night. at first reading this post deeply saddened me. but i have begun to realize, i think it is one of jac’s ways of telling us she is OKAY. i especially love reading that post because i love picturing jacquie smiling, laughing, feeling healthy, and most of all, being completely happy. that is how i will always remember her. i love you all hirsch family, you are all such wonderful amazing strong brave courageous people. please hang tight to one another, and please reach out to us if you ever need anything. jacquie, i miss you so much, and i selfishly want you back. my heart hurts in a way i never thought i could feel again. but i know that you are all around us. smiling with us, laughing at us, you are the ones that are now holding our hands, giving us strength, to push on through these terribly hard days, weeks, months, years that we have to endure without you. i love you.<3 alicia <3 i am sorry i am posting so much, i just find it comforts me, if only for a short while. i miss you.
Lauren A. Trankle says:
September 9, 2008 at 12:22 am -
I believe that Jax is in heaven spreading pixi dust all around us. Every time you hear a child laugh it is Jacquie (she truly had the best laugh). Every time you see the sun set it is Jacquie. Every time you see a butterfly it is Jacquie. She is one of the most beautiful women I have ever met. Her beautiful and kind spirit will live on forever. She is an inspiration to us all and she will be missed dearly. ~Lauren A. Trankle~
Sara (albuquerque) says:
September 8, 2008 at 11:35 pm -
Jacquie, I miss you! I have this image of you at the age of 5 with that light up the room smile, wearing a jean jacket and funky glasses and you, your mom, TJ, my mom and I, were at your gramma Bree’s for a day of fun. I have an imprint of your amazing smile, that remained through the years and through the toughest of fighting days, in my heart. Elise has grown to love Tink, through knowing you and your love of Tink. I am glad for that, as that too makes me smile and think of you. Missing you always Sharon, I am forever with you, ahead of you, beside you and always holding your hand if you just squeeze real tight, no matter how many miles away I might be. Torey and TJ, You are in so many of my thoughts, you are remarkable men in many ways. I send my love, stength and a hug to you all.Thinking of your entire family! Love, Sara, Tom, Connor and Elise
Sadie says:
September 8, 2008 at 11:03 pm -
I love you guys. Thinking of you every second.
Josh Olson says:
September 8, 2008 at 11:02 pm -
To My Extended Family Torey, Sharon, & TJ It is with a heavy heart that I express my deepest condolences for your loss. My heart is broken because I can only imagine how difficult this struggle was on Jacquie and yourselves. I do believe that there is a reason for her leaving us now and it is much bigger than any of us could imagine. Your journey and Jacquie’s incredible fight are an inspiration to us all and has surely changed the way many of us approach life today. Although her physical presence has come and gone, her spirit will live on through each and everyone that has been touched by her beautiful soul. I am extremely fortunate to have had the opportunity to grow up with Jacquie over the past 16 years, sharing friendship, love, laughter and many experiences that I will cherish forever. I will always remember her beautiful smile that lit up the room with warmth and love, her great sense of humor and contagious laughter, her kind heart and caring nature, and of course her incredible drive and determination that has led her through the winding road of life. I know all of those who were blessed with the opportunity to know Jacquie have experienced this in some form. I have never met someone like Jacquie who could be so strong in the face of adversity and at the same time selflessly put others before her. Jacquie’s gift to us all is a guiding light, leading by example and cutting a path for us to follow in her foot steps. Torey, Sharon and TJ I can’t express enough love and thanks for opening your hearts and home and treating me like one of your own. I only hope that I am able to repay at least a portion of the love and kindness that you have extended to me. Thank you so much for sharing such a wonderful person with us. She has made a difference in the lives of so many and her memories have left an everlasting imprint on my heart. I will hold them close and cherish them forever. I am forever grateful to your family for giving so much. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers always. I do believe our Tink has finally gotten her wings and a place among the stars that she has always reached for. I will miss you very much Jax and I will never stop believing Love you always and forever, Josh
The Benevento Family says:
September 8, 2008 at 10:57 pm -
Dear Tori, Sharon and T.J.,You have been in our daily thoughts and prayers since Jacquie was diagnosed. Words cannot express our sorrow for your loss. Your courage has been contageous. May the memory of this wonderful young lady you have created and nurtured live on in the hearts of all who have accessed this website.Bless you today and every day,Margie, Tom, Danielle, Christina and Gina Benevento
Jill Moore says:
September 8, 2008 at 10:55 pm -
I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to meet Jacquie during her courageous fight. I want to thank you Sharon, Torey and TJ for sharing Jacquie with me and countless others. Jacquie has taught me life lessons that I will cherish forever. I will continue to donate in honor of Jacquie’s life and what she has accomplished. I believe we will see Jacquie’s beautiful smile again not only in heaven but here on earth. All we need to do is truly believe and we will see her everywhere.”When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure.” Jacquie will be forever in my heart.Always believing, Jill Moore
Marcia and Gene says:
September 8, 2008 at 10:51 pm -
Sharon, Torey and TJ, Our hearts go out to you at this most difficult time. Jacquie has left a beautiful legacy of love,courage and devotion to each life that she touched. It has been expressed in so many ways from all those who have written . As you continue on your lifes journey may you always feel her presence near and her love surround each of you her most precious family. You are all special to each of us as we pray that God will give you peace until you meet again. Love Marcia, Gene and family
The Tubin Family says:
September 8, 2008 at 10:47 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, We just received word of the extremely sad news and wanted to express our deepest sympathy to your amazing, strong and wonderful family. It is impossible to imagine what you have been through and what you are going through now; but please know that you have all been in our thoughts and prayers every day and we are here for anything you may need. Brian, Stefanie, Sydney & Bryce
Sarah says:
September 8, 2008 at 10:16 pm -
Like many others posting, I did not know Jacquie well- just through the small world that is Geneseo. However, I have been praying for Jacquie and your family throughout the last several months and reading the always-beautiful and positive updates. You seem to be such a close and resilient family- it is almost as if fate had to test such a bond for some reason we can’t understand. However, even through physical death, I know that bond will persevere.I will never forget Jacquie’s story, her strength, and the amazing legacy she left. Her memory will undoubtedly impact the way I live my life for many years to come.-Sarah Osterling