Jackie,When your dad coached me for four years in High School Gymnastics, I knew you and your brother from way back when you both were really young. Your parents and friends are very proud of you, and all you accomplished in this too-short life that you lived. From the love pouring out from your Facebook account, you have touched many lives in very positive ways. From what I’ve been following along every week on this very website, over the past year or so, you’ve certainly gone through a lot. You put up a great fight, but now you’re in a better place where cancer cannot hurt you anymore. I grieve for your friends and family. You surely have tons of people who love you and care for you, may you rest in peace.Doug Tanski, WNHS 95
To the Hirsch family: We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Jacquie. Victoria and Kaitlyn and the honor and pleasure of having Jacquie as one of their counselors through your camp. She was known as being happy, nice and fun. Those are characteristics to remember. She is in a better place now and no longer in pain. May G-d be with her and you through this time of sorrow. Debbie, Mike, Victoria and Kaitlyn Jocko
I never met Jacquie but I have several friends who knew her and are devastated. I have a history of cancer in my family and have been following her story hoping she would get well. She sounds like an amazing person, to rather be in the children’s section of the hospital to make their days better, while fighting such an awful disease in what should have been the freest days of her life. Although she was a total stranger to me and although I have seen the devastation of cancer before, hearing of it striking someone so close to my age, so pretty and smart and so full of life, has been quite sobering. My prayers are with her family and friends.
As I opened my e-mail tonight and read of the sad passing of your daughter, sister, loved one- Jacquie- I feel a great sense of loss. Although I never had the privilage of meeting Jacquie, my heart aches for what you, her family and friends, are going through. I believe she will shine down on you all and smile as you continue on in your journey through life, knowing that she will always be with you. I hope that one day you may see her again. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. May God carry you throught this terrible time and may you always feel the incredible love of this very special young woman. Our deepest sympathy and warmest wishes, The Battaglia Family
We are so deeply sorry for your tremendous loss. There are no words that can express our sympathy. Whenever we think of our Geneseo years, we think of lovable, happy-go-lucky, smiley face tink. God promises to “give you comfort in times of sorrow”. We wish you comfort and peace. With Love from Raphael and Michele
Dearest Jacquie,You have touched my life and the lives of so many others with your spirit and love for life. Thank you for sharing your life with me. I am proud to have known you and will always be forever grateful. I will not say goodbye, only hello when we meet again. You will live on in my heart forever. I Hope You Dance Little “TINK”… I hope you dance…Torey, Sharon & TJ my heart breaks for you and I want you to know that I love you all with all with all my heart. You are in our prayers.
Jacquie, For the first time in my life, I have been at a total loss for words these last couple days. What can possibly be said about you, that could actually give justice to the kind of person you are? Your presence alone can light up a room, and your smile a whole city. It’s no secret that you are the bravest, and strongest person we’ve ever known. You will be greatly missed by many people. Although it’s very hard to accept the fact that what happened was for the best, I know you are in a better place. I am so blessed to have been able to know you and call you my friend and sister. Love you, always <3 G(y)na (I know you are laughing at that)
Although we have never met, I guess you could say I am your “sister,” your greek sister that is. My friend from home is in your chapter and your story is heartbreaking but I am glad that you are in a better place. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and I believe that some day we will find a cure! God Bless! – Sara SDT-Beta Phi
Dear Hirsch Family- Though we are new to your center and never had the pleasure to meet your daughter, we are deeply touched by her story. It is evident through your words and slideshow, that you have an incredible family. It is easy to see the love you share for one another and the closeness that will forever keep you together. As a mother of two, a girl and boy, my heart breaks for you and I cannot imagine the pain you must be suffering. Know that Jacquie, continues to touch us all and your family is in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless…. The Verrastro Family
To the Hirsh Family, We are very sorry for your loss. We didn’t know Jacquie but through the gym we kept updated on Jacquie’s fight. We prayed very hard for a miracle but the good lord has special plans for Jacquie. We truly believe she is in a beautiful place without any pain or sickness. We will keep your family in our prayers as you deal with the tough road ahead. God Bless. Matt McFarland and Family
I never met Jacquie, but I compete for the frontier varsity gymnastics team, and we competed against you guys last year. I just wanted to let you all know you are in my prayers, and im sure the girls feel the same way. Our coach Jill, held a moment of silence for Jacquie today, and we all were very emotional. I just wanted to make sure you know, as her family and friends, you are in our prayers.
Please excuse my intrusion at this incredibly difficult time for you and your family. Although you do not know me, my thoughts and deepest prayers are sent to you all. I am a supervisor of student teacdhers at SUNY Geneseo. I have been aware of Jacquie’s sudden illness and battle with cancer since last fall. Some of my own student teachers know Jacquie. Today I received the e-mail from the college bringing the difficult news of your loss. I’ve watched Jacquie’s video and have read your journal. Thank your for sharing such an emotional and persoanl journey. It is a true gift you have given so unselfishly ~ one which has taught others in Jacquie’s honor. I admire the strength of your family. My heart is very heavy for you and I am so very sorry. As a mom of three healthy children, I feel such pain imagining the difficult long hours of only hoping. No one could imagine. I will hold on to your gift of belief in order to be the kind of parent who continually guides and gives and raises children who are strong,and positive ~ in hopes they make the world a better place as your daughter did. As a teacher, working with new teachers to inspire, I feel your daughter truly is the one who “taught” in a way no veteran teacher ever could. Her life lessons are of true importance and will last well beyond a student teaching experience or even a teacher of many years. Jacquie truly accomplished much in her short life. You must be so proud of her. As her brother mentioned, maybe she was here to teach more about the difference one special person can make than the importance of victory. She was the “grandest teacher” of all with a lesson most were not expecting, yet most needed learning. Your incredible journey of pain has been used to reach out to many, to inspire many to appreciate the mundane and small blessings of each day, and to teach the most difficult, yet valuable life lessons to carry us all through our own journeys in a better way. Thank you for giving at a time you must feel that so much as been taken away from you. May your belief stay strong. I can only believe your daughter will help carry you all through now as you were there for her. Please know that there are many here in the town of Geneseo whose thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you join together to share in Jacquie’s life celebration and to remember always. May God bless you all, Sherry Keihl
My heart is very sad upon hearing this news. Jacquie was a wonderful person who inspired me (twice her age). After I was going bald and covering it up, Jacquie said in a cute way “take the hat off”. So I did -for a bit, as I sit here I’m bald thanks to her encouragement she touched many of us.Jacquie will always remain in my heart. What a beautiful, determined, awesome young woman that will live on! Sharon Im sending my prayers.
Jacquie was a brave young lady and will be truly missed.My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Losing a child is so unimaginable.She is an angel free of pain and suffering.
Jacquie, I’m sorry I haven’t written sooner, neither of us have ever been good with that procrastination issue. Memories just keep playing over and over in my head, little things, like that time I was so sick and you gave me all of your mini-tropicanas, or one time when it was pouring rain and you picked me up outside the library and it took us so long to figure out what fast food we wanted to eat after having to endure that rain. Or the time Sabrina ate all of your moms cookies in one sitting, before you even got one. Some of these memories make me teary-eyed right now, but I can definitely say that I would not trade one second of them for anything. I know everybody has been saying it, but I really do feel incredibly lucky and blessed to be able to call myself your friend. Throughout this entire battle, you never let it show how much pain you were in, or how hard this fight really was. That memory I have of us gossipping the day away, eating combos at Sloan; you made it look so easy, so effortless. You had a way of doing that always. Dancing through life, always with a smile, gathering up followers as you went along, always making it look effortless. You made it easy to believe. When you left me, I thought about taking off my we believe bracelets. But something stopped me. And I realized that I still did believe. You taught me HOW to believe. Your strength, optimism, and freespirit taught me that life is about believing. When we believe, we are happy, and that gives us time to make memories that will last forever. We can cherish small moments like driving to an arbys in the middle of nowhere only to find out it’s closed, and be able to laugh about it forever. So I hope this empty feeling in me will eventually be filled with little memories I may not have made before. I believe, ms. jacquie hirsch, and the footprint you have left in my heart will always be reserved for “the little things in life” that are solely meant to make you smile. I love you jax. Smile big up there, so we can all feel your love every day. I miss you.
Dear Hirsch Family, I don’t believe that there are words to express my sympathy for your loss. I can only thank you, for having such a wonderful daughter and sister who has inspired so very many people. She was truly someone special and will certainly not be forgotten. She was the type of person who sent me a text message to thank ME for sending her a silly t-shirt on one of her tough days. I have to thank you for keeping up such a wonderful website. It pained me that I could not be closer to Jacquie during her time in the hospital. The website was my connection to her when I couldn’t speak to her. Your words were beautiful every time. You managed to find hope in every one of Jacquie’s toughest days. I appreciate your dedication to Jacquie and to this disease. Your strength, wisdom, and hope are truly admirable. Jacquie has made me a better person, and so has each of you: Torey, Sharon, and T.J. I BELIEVE that Jacquie is in a better place and that she did the best she could to fight this evil disease. I will keep her in my heart and prayers forever. I am lucky to have known her and to have been taught her wonderful lessons. With love always, Pauline
Dear Hirsch Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with at this difficult time. Although we did not know Jacquie for very long, she was an amazing girl. Her memory will live forever as she remains such an inspiration to all of us. Love, Claire, Kate, Jen and Dave Januchowski
To the Hirsch family: Jacquie was an incredible young woman who inspired me (I’m twice her age) I will always have the fondest thoughts of her and Sharon(a wonderful person). We tried to comfort each other, but Jacquie would smile at me and as I was going bald and she would say in a cute way “take that hat off” As I sit here, I’m bald and bold thanks to Jacquie. My heart is sad, but as you say…she is teaching us a lesson of courage and strength.
I am so sorry for your loss. After reading Jacquie’s story, my heart was filled with great sadness. Your daughter/sister was a remarkable young woman and an inspiration. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
Sweet Pea:You are by far the most courageous person I will ever have the priviledge of knowing. You have fought such a long, hard battle, my Little Soldier, & even though the outcome wasn’t what we prayed for, you and God knew it was the right outcome for you. I believe that you are an angel sent from Heaven to teach us all something–and from the looks of this webpage–teach you did!! I know that where you are now, you are whole again, with beautiful blonde hair, probably playing with a few Angel Babies in Heaven! There is no more pain, no more tubes or needles–only love. Now it is our turn to be in pain–over missing you so much.I am so proud to be called your Aunt, and so grateful that I got to spend so much time with you during this difficult year. It was an honor everytime I was asked to do something for you or your family—especially if it was for an “Angel Watch” sleep over at the hospital! There is just one favor I need from you…please watch over your father, mother, and brother. They are hurting so badly and miss you dearly. Maybe once in a while you can do a “Jacquie thing” to make them smile or laugh-then they will know that you are with them. I do not have words to describe how empty my heart feels, so if you want to do a “Jacquie thing” sometimes for me too, that would be fine! We will always be looking up to the sky for your beautiful smile. But for now, rest in the arms of the Angels, you’ve had a long journey and until we are together again…sweet dreams my Angel. Forever in my heart, Aunt SherylI asked God for a flower He gave me a garden,I asked for a tree He gave me a forest,I asked for a river He gave me an ocean,I asked for an Angel He gave me Jacquie.
Sharon, Torey, & TJ. Jax got her wings and God has welcomed his newest angel to his flok. Our hearts ache along with yours . Our memories will always keep Jax alive in our hearts. Our wish is for the lord to ease the pain this has caused for you . We will always think of Jax as she was, diving, laughing, caring, just Jax being Jax With all our love The Feldmans
TJ, Mr. & Mrs. Hirsch: Words cannot express what the heart alone can feel. Jacquie was an amazing person, who single handly united a community. She inspired everyone to come together and believe!!! Her memory and spirit will surely live on and remind us all how delicate life can be. Please take comfort in knowing that no one will ever forget Jacquie. Her beautiful sole and inspiration will live on forever in all of us. Love, Erin Hagner
To Jacquie’s family-I cannot begin to express how sorry I am. You are the most courageous family I have ever met. You have raised an amazing person and Jacquie will always live on through all of you.My prayers and thoughts are with you.Jacquie-You are so strong and amazing. I will miss you, but will never forget you. <3 I know now that you are in a better place.
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Although we never had the joy of meeting Jacquie, her story is one of strength and inspiration. We will keep her in our thoughts and prayers. David & Rosanne Nagy (Rosanne D’Alessandro – Sisters Nursing School)
Jacquie- I find myself feeling lost without having my daily post on your guestbook to look forward to. My heart is breaking again and again. I love you so much, and miss you in a way that can never be described.When I step outside and feel the wind whip my hair around, and feel the sun on my face, I am calmed because I know that it is you. I know that you are now all around us, and you are completely free. You are no longer bound by the confines of the disease, no longer confined to the inside of a hospital, no longer hooked up to an endless amount of machines, no longer restrained to terrible hospital food… or that which comes from an IV.You are now FREE. I know that us being the ones left here, are the ones that are now in pain, and while we deal with our pain, I am soothed a little by knowing you are completely free of yours.You fought so hard. I know everyone says this, but I cannot believe what a fighter you are. No one could have asked for anymore, you went well above & beyond what anyone expected. You will forever be my hero.I love you more than you will ever know. xoxoxo<3 delisha <3Hirsch family: While my heart breaks for my own personal pain, it breaks 10000x more thinking what you all are going through. Please use us as a resource for anything that you need, whether it is a hot meal, a shoulder to lean on, or a hand to squeeze. We are all here for you. (And its not just now that we are here for you, we are here in the coming weeks, months, years). I love you all so much.
Wow, what a stunning young woman. That was my first thought when reading the news paper today. My thoughts and prayers go our to your family in this time of need. Rest your body, we will do our part now.
I never knew Jacquie personally-I just knew of her struggles during this most dreadful disease by way of the the gym. I know her wonderful dad and can only imagine the pain that this family is enduring. My prayers are especially directed to the day when the thoughts of Jacquie do not bring tears but bring smiles as they all remember how wonderful the time was they had with her. God bless you all. Pat Kaufman Katie Neffke
Even thou I do not know Jacquie personally, I feel from all the stories I ever heard from her friend Liz and from this site, I feel as if I have lost as well. I am so sorry and my heart goes out to your entire family. Now it is time to believe that she is everyone’s angel. God Bless you ALL!
To T.J. and Family, I wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss. I had the pleasure of being on the same team with both you and Jacquie, and I’m glad that both of you were able to share some of the same experiences as me. She was an amazing person and will truly be missed. Always know that you have the support from all of us past and present Blue Wavers. -Kyle
My thoughts and prayers will forever be with your family and Jacquie. She was and still is an amazingly strong person who will forever be an inspiration to all of us. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Dear Hirsch family, I am not sure if we have ever met, but our son, Evan, was friends with Jacquie throughout their Williamsville school years. Evan has said that every time he saw Jacquie she was so warm and friendly. If people can gain strength from the sympathy of others, your family will be very strong indeed. Our family has been moved to tears many times over your tragedy. Jacquie sounds like she was an exceptional young woman whom the world will surely miss. Our hearts go out to you and we wish you strength from the many warm and happy memories that will always be held close to your hearts.
Sharon, Torey and T.J. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time. Your family will always be in our hearts and prayers. If my family can help in anyway, we will be there for you. God Bless Your Family Al Monaco
TJ- What a wonderful writing about your sister. You put so wonderfully onto paper what few can say in words. We cherish your words and remember your sister as the wonderful person she will always be. Though heaven has welcomed a very special person our heart can still feel the pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
To the Hirsch family:I struggle to find the words to explain what Jacquie has meant to so many people. She has inspired us all and as TJ said, she has taught everyone she’s touched the lesson to live each day to the fullest. We will all take that with us and in turn take her along in our hearts. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Jax…it did not seem possible that this could happen. And while I know that you are in a better place, where your pain is gone and your fight is over, we all still miss you dearly. But I know you will be carried on in the hearts of all who knew you. Last night at the candle pass it was so evident how many people’s lives you’ve inspired. For you were truly a rich girl, who was so loved. Miss you and love you.Love,Melissa
The last update was absolutely beautiful. Jacquie did teach us all one of life’s great lessons, never to take anything for granted. For me as a nurse, there was just something extra special about her as a patient, and your words summed it up perfectly. Sharon: You said to me one night, I don’t know how we could ever thank the staff for the care for Jacquie, well…how can we ever thank you and Torey for such a beautiful daughter that you brought into our lives? Your whole family has been very special to us at Roswell, you have truly shown us the meaning of love and togetherness. Jacquie will be missed, but her legacy will live on in all of us, even those of us who only knew her for a short time and what a gift that is!
Our deepest sympathy to the entire Hirsch family. I knew Jacquie from the time she was a little girl, the thing that I will remember the most about her is her smile. Her smile was always present and could turn your day around. She has taught so many of those who mourn her loss today to never take anything for granted and to take the time to love. She is an inspiration to us all. Jacquie’s strength, courage and fight has inspired me to be a better person. My wife and children will feel Jacquie’s spirit as I embrace her teachings and incorporate this lesson into my family. I will love more and never take anything for granted! God bless you and know that Jacquie is in a better place. She is no longer in pain, she is at peace and is smiling down on you today. Love, Joe, Kelly, Ryan, Alison, Hannah Morgano
i have never met jackie or knew her untill i read her story. i was moved to tears with her strength and passion for life. these are the people that god sends to inspire the rest of us who take life for granted. a great writer (thornton wilder) said one someone dies we should not grieve but give gratitude for this life that was lived and made the rest of us better. the human race is better because of jackie. may tis thought offer some peace and consolation. god bless
The true test of everyone’s time they are given on this earth is to measure the difference they have made in a positive manner on family, friends, colleagues and strangers. Some people live to be 100 and really have never had a positive influence on anything. Some amazing people like Jacquie Hirsch have the gift to influence every single person they have ever met in a positive way. In 23 years Jacquie taught us all how to be a great daughter, sister, and friend. When she was healthy she was a comet, doing all the right things, helping everyone she could, being the best person she could be. When Jacquie got sick with this horrible disease, she continued to influence 1000’s of people with her courage, determination, and belief. I will never forget what she taught me and I’m sure 1000’s of other people feel the same way. God bless you Jacquie. I am so fortunate to have known you. Torey,Sharon, TJ, you have your extended family to help through this very, very tough time. You all are also an inspiration to everyone. I am so sorry you had to go through this terrible ordeal. JIM
i wrote to you so many times about the sun coming up in the morning and knowing you were ok…i watched the sun rise each day out here and knew you you rising along with it back home… yesterday stayed dark for hours, the first time in weeks maybe months… today it is raining… the sky is crying… we are crying… we will miss you… and you are still telling us it will be ok… peace jacquie… peace to all of you…
God bless Jacquie’s family. Our thoughts, love, prayers and deepest sympathy to all of Jacquie’s family. Jacquie was truely an inspiration to those who surrounded her and all the lives she touched. She is truely an Angel from God. Our love and prayers to her and her famiy.
Sharon, Torey, and TJ, Words obviously can not express the sadness I feel for your terrible loss. Jacquie is in a better place, a place where she will feel no pain. She is an inspiration to us all. I have learned Jacquie’s lesson – and will use it in my own life on a daily basis. I cherish every second spent with my 1 year old daughter. I now am lucky enough to have a beautiful angel looking over her. Please know that I am only an hour away – I want to be here for your family for whatever you need. I love you all. With love and prayers, Stacy
To the Hirsch Family: Words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of such a beautiful, courageous, positive person. Jacquie has touched so many people, and she is an unbelievable inspiration for each and every one of us – to live life to the fullest and KEEP BELIEVING. My heart goes out to you… Melanie Friedson
Torey,Sharon and TJ Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your extended family. May all the love that is expresed for Jackie comfort you. Jackie was truly loved by so many people. God Bless Jackie and the Hirsch Family.
My Jacquie… I love you so. Now you can rest. You’ve done so much for me and for all of us. You are always in our hearts and minds and we are all better people for knowing you and having you in our lives. Thank you. Sharon, Torey & T – I love you very much. Take care of each other. Remember Jacquie’s lesson – love each other and don’t take any day for granted. Aunt Deee
To the Hirsch Family,we are so sorry for your loss Jacquie was a beautiful person.If their is any thing you need do not be afraid to ask love you guys xoxoxo
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Doug Tanski says:
September 8, 2008 at 9:47 pm -
Jackie,When your dad coached me for four years in High School Gymnastics, I knew you and your brother from way back when you both were really young. Your parents and friends are very proud of you, and all you accomplished in this too-short life that you lived. From the love pouring out from your Facebook account, you have touched many lives in very positive ways. From what I’ve been following along every week on this very website, over the past year or so, you’ve certainly gone through a lot. You put up a great fight, but now you’re in a better place where cancer cannot hurt you anymore. I grieve for your friends and family. You surely have tons of people who love you and care for you, may you rest in peace.Doug Tanski, WNHS 95
Jocko Family says:
September 8, 2008 at 9:35 pm -
To the Hirsch family: We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Jacquie. Victoria and Kaitlyn and the honor and pleasure of having Jacquie as one of their counselors through your camp. She was known as being happy, nice and fun. Those are characteristics to remember. She is in a better place now and no longer in pain. May G-d be with her and you through this time of sorrow. Debbie, Mike, Victoria and Kaitlyn Jocko
Anonymous says:
September 8, 2008 at 9:26 pm -
I never met Jacquie but I have several friends who knew her and are devastated. I have a history of cancer in my family and have been following her story hoping she would get well. She sounds like an amazing person, to rather be in the children’s section of the hospital to make their days better, while fighting such an awful disease in what should have been the freest days of her life. Although she was a total stranger to me and although I have seen the devastation of cancer before, hearing of it striking someone so close to my age, so pretty and smart and so full of life, has been quite sobering. My prayers are with her family and friends.
The Battaglia Family says:
September 8, 2008 at 9:24 pm -
As I opened my e-mail tonight and read of the sad passing of your daughter, sister, loved one- Jacquie- I feel a great sense of loss. Although I never had the privilage of meeting Jacquie, my heart aches for what you, her family and friends, are going through. I believe she will shine down on you all and smile as you continue on in your journey through life, knowing that she will always be with you. I hope that one day you may see her again. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. May God carry you throught this terrible time and may you always feel the incredible love of this very special young woman. Our deepest sympathy and warmest wishes, The Battaglia Family
The Caruccis says:
September 8, 2008 at 8:57 pm -
Jacquie You have been and always will be in our thoughts and prayers. Your smile will always make us smile. Rest in Peace
Anonymous says:
September 8, 2008 at 8:41 pm -
We are so deeply sorry for your tremendous loss. There are no words that can express our sympathy. Whenever we think of our Geneseo years, we think of lovable, happy-go-lucky, smiley face tink. God promises to “give you comfort in times of sorrow”. We wish you comfort and peace. With Love from Raphael and Michele
Jill & Taylor Wierzba says:
September 8, 2008 at 8:26 pm -
Dearest Jacquie,You have touched my life and the lives of so many others with your spirit and love for life. Thank you for sharing your life with me. I am proud to have known you and will always be forever grateful. I will not say goodbye, only hello when we meet again. You will live on in my heart forever. I Hope You Dance Little “TINK”… I hope you dance…Torey, Sharon & TJ my heart breaks for you and I want you to know that I love you all with all with all my heart. You are in our prayers.
Gina says:
September 8, 2008 at 8:22 pm -
Jacquie, For the first time in my life, I have been at a total loss for words these last couple days. What can possibly be said about you, that could actually give justice to the kind of person you are? Your presence alone can light up a room, and your smile a whole city. It’s no secret that you are the bravest, and strongest person we’ve ever known. You will be greatly missed by many people. Although it’s very hard to accept the fact that what happened was for the best, I know you are in a better place. I am so blessed to have been able to know you and call you my friend and sister. Love you, always <3 G(y)na (I know you are laughing at that)
Sara Celikoyar says:
September 8, 2008 at 8:20 pm -
Although we have never met, I guess you could say I am your “sister,” your greek sister that is. My friend from home is in your chapter and your story is heartbreaking but I am glad that you are in a better place. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and I believe that some day we will find a cure! God Bless! – Sara SDT-Beta Phi
Andrea Verrastro says:
September 8, 2008 at 8:18 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family- Though we are new to your center and never had the pleasure to meet your daughter, we are deeply touched by her story. It is evident through your words and slideshow, that you have an incredible family. It is easy to see the love you share for one another and the closeness that will forever keep you together. As a mother of two, a girl and boy, my heart breaks for you and I cannot imagine the pain you must be suffering. Know that Jacquie, continues to touch us all and your family is in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless…. The Verrastro Family
Lynne McFarland says:
September 8, 2008 at 8:18 pm -
To the Hirsh Family, We are very sorry for your loss. We didn’t know Jacquie but through the gym we kept updated on Jacquie’s fight. We prayed very hard for a miracle but the good lord has special plans for Jacquie. We truly believe she is in a beautiful place without any pain or sickness. We will keep your family in our prayers as you deal with the tough road ahead. God Bless. Matt McFarland and Family
Meagan Blankenship says:
September 8, 2008 at 8:12 pm -
I never met Jacquie, but I compete for the frontier varsity gymnastics team, and we competed against you guys last year. I just wanted to let you all know you are in my prayers, and im sure the girls feel the same way. Our coach Jill, held a moment of silence for Jacquie today, and we all were very emotional. I just wanted to make sure you know, as her family and friends, you are in our prayers.
Sherry Keihl says:
September 8, 2008 at 8:06 pm -
Please excuse my intrusion at this incredibly difficult time for you and your family. Although you do not know me, my thoughts and deepest prayers are sent to you all. I am a supervisor of student teacdhers at SUNY Geneseo. I have been aware of Jacquie’s sudden illness and battle with cancer since last fall. Some of my own student teachers know Jacquie. Today I received the e-mail from the college bringing the difficult news of your loss. I’ve watched Jacquie’s video and have read your journal. Thank your for sharing such an emotional and persoanl journey. It is a true gift you have given so unselfishly ~ one which has taught others in Jacquie’s honor. I admire the strength of your family. My heart is very heavy for you and I am so very sorry. As a mom of three healthy children, I feel such pain imagining the difficult long hours of only hoping. No one could imagine. I will hold on to your gift of belief in order to be the kind of parent who continually guides and gives and raises children who are strong,and positive ~ in hopes they make the world a better place as your daughter did. As a teacher, working with new teachers to inspire, I feel your daughter truly is the one who “taught” in a way no veteran teacher ever could. Her life lessons are of true importance and will last well beyond a student teaching experience or even a teacher of many years. Jacquie truly accomplished much in her short life. You must be so proud of her. As her brother mentioned, maybe she was here to teach more about the difference one special person can make than the importance of victory. She was the “grandest teacher” of all with a lesson most were not expecting, yet most needed learning. Your incredible journey of pain has been used to reach out to many, to inspire many to appreciate the mundane and small blessings of each day, and to teach the most difficult, yet valuable life lessons to carry us all through our own journeys in a better way. Thank you for giving at a time you must feel that so much as been taken away from you. May your belief stay strong. I can only believe your daughter will help carry you all through now as you were there for her. Please know that there are many here in the town of Geneseo whose thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you join together to share in Jacquie’s life celebration and to remember always. May God bless you all, Sherry Keihl
Diane Ardary says:
September 8, 2008 at 7:08 pm -
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.With our deepest and most sincere sympathy, Tom, Diane and Kari Ardary; Angela, Robert and Korbyn Smith
Kari Ardary says:
September 8, 2008 at 7:07 pm -
Sherry at Hope Lodge says:
September 8, 2008 at 6:55 pm -
My heart is very sad upon hearing this news. Jacquie was a wonderful person who inspired me (twice her age). After I was going bald and covering it up, Jacquie said in a cute way “take the hat off”. So I did -for a bit, as I sit here I’m bald thanks to her encouragement she touched many of us.Jacquie will always remain in my heart. What a beautiful, determined, awesome young woman that will live on! Sharon Im sending my prayers.
A mom from Clarence says:
September 8, 2008 at 6:49 pm -
Jacquie was a brave young lady and will be truly missed.My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Losing a child is so unimaginable.She is an angel free of pain and suffering.
Caroline says:
September 8, 2008 at 6:46 pm -
Jacquie, I’m sorry I haven’t written sooner, neither of us have ever been good with that procrastination issue. Memories just keep playing over and over in my head, little things, like that time I was so sick and you gave me all of your mini-tropicanas, or one time when it was pouring rain and you picked me up outside the library and it took us so long to figure out what fast food we wanted to eat after having to endure that rain. Or the time Sabrina ate all of your moms cookies in one sitting, before you even got one. Some of these memories make me teary-eyed right now, but I can definitely say that I would not trade one second of them for anything. I know everybody has been saying it, but I really do feel incredibly lucky and blessed to be able to call myself your friend. Throughout this entire battle, you never let it show how much pain you were in, or how hard this fight really was. That memory I have of us gossipping the day away, eating combos at Sloan; you made it look so easy, so effortless. You had a way of doing that always. Dancing through life, always with a smile, gathering up followers as you went along, always making it look effortless. You made it easy to believe. When you left me, I thought about taking off my we believe bracelets. But something stopped me. And I realized that I still did believe. You taught me HOW to believe. Your strength, optimism, and freespirit taught me that life is about believing. When we believe, we are happy, and that gives us time to make memories that will last forever. We can cherish small moments like driving to an arbys in the middle of nowhere only to find out it’s closed, and be able to laugh about it forever. So I hope this empty feeling in me will eventually be filled with little memories I may not have made before. I believe, ms. jacquie hirsch, and the footprint you have left in my heart will always be reserved for “the little things in life” that are solely meant to make you smile. I love you jax. Smile big up there, so we can all feel your love every day. I miss you.
Pauline Cantatore says:
September 8, 2008 at 6:38 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, I don’t believe that there are words to express my sympathy for your loss. I can only thank you, for having such a wonderful daughter and sister who has inspired so very many people. She was truly someone special and will certainly not be forgotten. She was the type of person who sent me a text message to thank ME for sending her a silly t-shirt on one of her tough days. I have to thank you for keeping up such a wonderful website. It pained me that I could not be closer to Jacquie during her time in the hospital. The website was my connection to her when I couldn’t speak to her. Your words were beautiful every time. You managed to find hope in every one of Jacquie’s toughest days. I appreciate your dedication to Jacquie and to this disease. Your strength, wisdom, and hope are truly admirable. Jacquie has made me a better person, and so has each of you: Torey, Sharon, and T.J. I BELIEVE that Jacquie is in a better place and that she did the best she could to fight this evil disease. I will keep her in my heart and prayers forever. I am lucky to have known her and to have been taught her wonderful lessons. With love always, Pauline
Januchowski Family says:
September 8, 2008 at 6:30 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with at this difficult time. Although we did not know Jacquie for very long, she was an amazing girl. Her memory will live forever as she remains such an inspiration to all of us. Love, Claire, Kate, Jen and Dave Januchowski
Sherry M. at Hope Lodge says:
September 8, 2008 at 6:28 pm -
To the Hirsch family: Jacquie was an incredible young woman who inspired me (I’m twice her age) I will always have the fondest thoughts of her and Sharon(a wonderful person). We tried to comfort each other, but Jacquie would smile at me and as I was going bald and she would say in a cute way “take that hat off” As I sit here, I’m bald and bold thanks to Jacquie. My heart is sad, but as you say…she is teaching us a lesson of courage and strength.
Donna Baia says:
September 8, 2008 at 6:11 pm -
I am so sorry for your loss. After reading Jacquie’s story, my heart was filled with great sadness. Your daughter/sister was a remarkable young woman and an inspiration. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
Aunt Sheryl says:
September 8, 2008 at 6:02 pm -
Sweet Pea:You are by far the most courageous person I will ever have the priviledge of knowing. You have fought such a long, hard battle, my Little Soldier, & even though the outcome wasn’t what we prayed for, you and God knew it was the right outcome for you. I believe that you are an angel sent from Heaven to teach us all something–and from the looks of this webpage–teach you did!! I know that where you are now, you are whole again, with beautiful blonde hair, probably playing with a few Angel Babies in Heaven! There is no more pain, no more tubes or needles–only love. Now it is our turn to be in pain–over missing you so much.I am so proud to be called your Aunt, and so grateful that I got to spend so much time with you during this difficult year. It was an honor everytime I was asked to do something for you or your family—especially if it was for an “Angel Watch” sleep over at the hospital! There is just one favor I need from you…please watch over your father, mother, and brother. They are hurting so badly and miss you dearly. Maybe once in a while you can do a “Jacquie thing” to make them smile or laugh-then they will know that you are with them. I do not have words to describe how empty my heart feels, so if you want to do a “Jacquie thing” sometimes for me too, that would be fine! We will always be looking up to the sky for your beautiful smile. But for now, rest in the arms of the Angels, you’ve had a long journey and until we are together again…sweet dreams my Angel. Forever in my heart, Aunt SherylI asked God for a flower He gave me a garden,I asked for a tree He gave me a forest,I asked for a river He gave me an ocean,I asked for an Angel He gave me Jacquie.
Anonymous says:
September 8, 2008 at 6:01 pm -
Sharon, Torey, & TJ. Jax got her wings and God has welcomed his newest angel to his flok. Our hearts ache along with yours . Our memories will always keep Jax alive in our hearts. Our wish is for the lord to ease the pain this has caused for you . We will always think of Jax as she was, diving, laughing, caring, just Jax being Jax With all our love The Feldmans
Erin Hagner says:
September 8, 2008 at 5:18 pm -
TJ, Mr. & Mrs. Hirsch: Words cannot express what the heart alone can feel. Jacquie was an amazing person, who single handly united a community. She inspired everyone to come together and believe!!! Her memory and spirit will surely live on and remind us all how delicate life can be. Please take comfort in knowing that no one will ever forget Jacquie. Her beautiful sole and inspiration will live on forever in all of us. Love, Erin Hagner
Amanda Parisi says:
September 8, 2008 at 4:49 pm -
To Jacquie’s family-I cannot begin to express how sorry I am. You are the most courageous family I have ever met. You have raised an amazing person and Jacquie will always live on through all of you.My prayers and thoughts are with you.Jacquie-You are so strong and amazing. I will miss you, but will never forget you. <3 I know now that you are in a better place.
David & Rosanne Nagy says:
September 8, 2008 at 4:35 pm -
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Although we never had the joy of meeting Jacquie, her story is one of strength and inspiration. We will keep her in our thoughts and prayers. David & Rosanne Nagy (Rosanne D’Alessandro – Sisters Nursing School)
alicia says:
September 8, 2008 at 3:53 pm -
Jacquie- I find myself feeling lost without having my daily post on your guestbook to look forward to. My heart is breaking again and again. I love you so much, and miss you in a way that can never be described.When I step outside and feel the wind whip my hair around, and feel the sun on my face, I am calmed because I know that it is you. I know that you are now all around us, and you are completely free. You are no longer bound by the confines of the disease, no longer confined to the inside of a hospital, no longer hooked up to an endless amount of machines, no longer restrained to terrible hospital food… or that which comes from an IV.You are now FREE. I know that us being the ones left here, are the ones that are now in pain, and while we deal with our pain, I am soothed a little by knowing you are completely free of yours.You fought so hard. I know everyone says this, but I cannot believe what a fighter you are. No one could have asked for anymore, you went well above & beyond what anyone expected. You will forever be my hero.I love you more than you will ever know. xoxoxo<3 delisha <3Hirsch family: While my heart breaks for my own personal pain, it breaks 10000x more thinking what you all are going through. Please use us as a resource for anything that you need, whether it is a hot meal, a shoulder to lean on, or a hand to squeeze. We are all here for you. (And its not just now that we are here for you, we are here in the coming weeks, months, years). I love you all so much.
Anonymous says:
September 8, 2008 at 2:44 pm -
Wow, what a stunning young woman. That was my first thought when reading the news paper today. My thoughts and prayers go our to your family in this time of need. Rest your body, we will do our part now.
Pat Kaufman says:
September 8, 2008 at 2:42 pm -
I never knew Jacquie personally-I just knew of her struggles during this most dreadful disease by way of the the gym. I know her wonderful dad and can only imagine the pain that this family is enduring. My prayers are especially directed to the day when the thoughts of Jacquie do not bring tears but bring smiles as they all remember how wonderful the time was they had with her. God bless you all. Pat Kaufman Katie Neffke
A friend From BBB says:
September 8, 2008 at 1:57 pm -
Even thou I do not know Jacquie personally, I feel from all the stories I ever heard from her friend Liz and from this site, I feel as if I have lost as well. I am so sorry and my heart goes out to your entire family. Now it is time to believe that she is everyone’s angel. God Bless you ALL!
Kyle Dembrow says:
September 8, 2008 at 1:42 pm -
To T.J. and Family, I wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss. I had the pleasure of being on the same team with both you and Jacquie, and I’m glad that both of you were able to share some of the same experiences as me. She was an amazing person and will truly be missed. Always know that you have the support from all of us past and present Blue Wavers. -Kyle
Christina Pearl says:
September 8, 2008 at 1:11 pm -
My thoughts and prayers will forever be with your family and Jacquie. She was and still is an amazingly strong person who will forever be an inspiration to all of us. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Berger family says:
September 8, 2008 at 12:30 pm -
Dear Hirsch family, I am not sure if we have ever met, but our son, Evan, was friends with Jacquie throughout their Williamsville school years. Evan has said that every time he saw Jacquie she was so warm and friendly. If people can gain strength from the sympathy of others, your family will be very strong indeed. Our family has been moved to tears many times over your tragedy. Jacquie sounds like she was an exceptional young woman whom the world will surely miss. Our hearts go out to you and we wish you strength from the many warm and happy memories that will always be held close to your hearts.
The Monaco Family says:
September 8, 2008 at 12:15 pm -
Sharon, Torey and T.J. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time. Your family will always be in our hearts and prayers. If my family can help in anyway, we will be there for you. God Bless Your Family Al Monaco
John, Nancy & Abigail MacDonald says:
September 8, 2008 at 12:05 pm -
TJ- What a wonderful writing about your sister. You put so wonderfully onto paper what few can say in words. We cherish your words and remember your sister as the wonderful person she will always be. Though heaven has welcomed a very special person our heart can still feel the pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Melissa says:
September 8, 2008 at 12:04 pm -
To the Hirsch family:I struggle to find the words to explain what Jacquie has meant to so many people. She has inspired us all and as TJ said, she has taught everyone she’s touched the lesson to live each day to the fullest. We will all take that with us and in turn take her along in our hearts. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Jax…it did not seem possible that this could happen. And while I know that you are in a better place, where your pain is gone and your fight is over, we all still miss you dearly. But I know you will be carried on in the hearts of all who knew you. Last night at the candle pass it was so evident how many people’s lives you’ve inspired. For you were truly a rich girl, who was so loved. Miss you and love you.Love,Melissa
Jen B. (nurse from 5 East) says:
September 8, 2008 at 11:58 am -
The last update was absolutely beautiful. Jacquie did teach us all one of life’s great lessons, never to take anything for granted. For me as a nurse, there was just something extra special about her as a patient, and your words summed it up perfectly. Sharon: You said to me one night, I don’t know how we could ever thank the staff for the care for Jacquie, well…how can we ever thank you and Torey for such a beautiful daughter that you brought into our lives? Your whole family has been very special to us at Roswell, you have truly shown us the meaning of love and togetherness. Jacquie will be missed, but her legacy will live on in all of us, even those of us who only knew her for a short time and what a gift that is!
Anonymous says:
September 8, 2008 at 11:22 am -
Our deepest sympathy to the entire Hirsch family. I knew Jacquie from the time she was a little girl, the thing that I will remember the most about her is her smile. Her smile was always present and could turn your day around. She has taught so many of those who mourn her loss today to never take anything for granted and to take the time to love. She is an inspiration to us all. Jacquie’s strength, courage and fight has inspired me to be a better person. My wife and children will feel Jacquie’s spirit as I embrace her teachings and incorporate this lesson into my family. I will love more and never take anything for granted! God bless you and know that Jacquie is in a better place. She is no longer in pain, she is at peace and is smiling down on you today. Love, Joe, Kelly, Ryan, Alison, Hannah Morgano
Erica says:
September 8, 2008 at 11:19 am -
Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of the ones we have lost shine through
jim banko says:
September 8, 2008 at 11:17 am -
i have never met jackie or knew her untill i read her story. i was moved to tears with her strength and passion for life. these are the people that god sends to inspire the rest of us who take life for granted. a great writer (thornton wilder) said one someone dies we should not grieve but give gratitude for this life that was lived and made the rest of us better. the human race is better because of jackie. may tis thought offer some peace and consolation. god bless
Whitey Nichols says:
September 8, 2008 at 11:10 am -
Sharon:Please accept my sympathy for your loss…your great fighter was an example for all of us.
jim rusin says:
September 8, 2008 at 10:45 am -
The true test of everyone’s time they are given on this earth is to measure the difference they have made in a positive manner on family, friends, colleagues and strangers. Some people live to be 100 and really have never had a positive influence on anything. Some amazing people like Jacquie Hirsch have the gift to influence every single person they have ever met in a positive way. In 23 years Jacquie taught us all how to be a great daughter, sister, and friend. When she was healthy she was a comet, doing all the right things, helping everyone she could, being the best person she could be. When Jacquie got sick with this horrible disease, she continued to influence 1000’s of people with her courage, determination, and belief. I will never forget what she taught me and I’m sure 1000’s of other people feel the same way. God bless you Jacquie. I am so fortunate to have known you. Torey,Sharon, TJ, you have your extended family to help through this very, very tough time. You all are also an inspiration to everyone. I am so sorry you had to go through this terrible ordeal. JIM
Michael Stoughton says:
September 8, 2008 at 10:18 am -
i wrote to you so many times about the sun coming up in the morning and knowing you were ok…i watched the sun rise each day out here and knew you you rising along with it back home… yesterday stayed dark for hours, the first time in weeks maybe months… today it is raining… the sky is crying… we are crying… we will miss you… and you are still telling us it will be ok… peace jacquie… peace to all of you…
Jacki and Angel Botticelli says:
September 8, 2008 at 10:12 am -
God bless Jacquie’s family. Our thoughts, love, prayers and deepest sympathy to all of Jacquie’s family. Jacquie was truely an inspiration to those who surrounded her and all the lives she touched. She is truely an Angel from God. Our love and prayers to her and her famiy.
Stacy Chiaramonte says:
September 8, 2008 at 9:50 am -
Sharon, Torey, and TJ, Words obviously can not express the sadness I feel for your terrible loss. Jacquie is in a better place, a place where she will feel no pain. She is an inspiration to us all. I have learned Jacquie’s lesson – and will use it in my own life on a daily basis. I cherish every second spent with my 1 year old daughter. I now am lucky enough to have a beautiful angel looking over her. Please know that I am only an hour away – I want to be here for your family for whatever you need. I love you all. With love and prayers, Stacy
Melanie Friedson says:
September 8, 2008 at 9:29 am -
To the Hirsch Family: Words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of such a beautiful, courageous, positive person. Jacquie has touched so many people, and she is an unbelievable inspiration for each and every one of us – to live life to the fullest and KEEP BELIEVING. My heart goes out to you… Melanie Friedson
Brad,Pam,Katie and Adam Curcio says:
September 8, 2008 at 9:08 am -
Torey,Sharon and TJ Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your extended family. May all the love that is expresed for Jackie comfort you. Jackie was truly loved by so many people. God Bless Jackie and the Hirsch Family.
Aunt Deee says:
September 8, 2008 at 9:01 am -
My Jacquie… I love you so. Now you can rest. You’ve done so much for me and for all of us. You are always in our hearts and minds and we are all better people for knowing you and having you in our lives. Thank you. Sharon, Torey & T – I love you very much. Take care of each other. Remember Jacquie’s lesson – love each other and don’t take any day for granted. Aunt Deee
Pat-Tom says:
September 8, 2008 at 7:59 am -
To the Hirsch Family,we are so sorry for your loss Jacquie was a beautiful person.If their is any thing you need do not be afraid to ask love you guys xoxoxo