Sharon, Torey, TJ and the rest of the family,It has been a while since i saw you all last. I flew to Buffalo to come to one of the marrow drives for Jacquie. I didn’t know what to say to any of you. It is no easier now. Mom, Dad, Ryan and myself were close to you all for along time years ago. We have never forgotten the wonderful times we shared together. The boys got to drive together in college but Jacquie and I just went our ways. She was a good friend of mine when we were younger and I will always love her and your family. My family can only wish you all the best we can. We give you all and Jacquie our thoughts and love.Wish I could be there please know that.Never forgetAlways Lovedlove The Schaefer Family
to the Hirsch’s My heart aches for your loss of a beautiful girl! I have always been a fan of Tinker Bell, I will never think of her the same now when I hear Tink or see Tink Jacquie will always come to my mind. I didn’t know you well but I am blessed for the time I was able to care for Jacquie here at Roswell- Sometimes are prayers aren’t answered as we would like them to be but God’s plan is always the right one, and now that Jacquie received her wings she can truly fly! Please hold on to yur Faith and lean on God to hold you up during this difficult time, Jacquie has touched so many people around the world that she has fulfilled her purpose here on earth and we are so greatful for that!! Don’t stop Believing!! If anything this is what she taught us Hold on and Fight strong! And Believe!!! Thank you for allowing us to care for your precious child. God Bless! Michele nurse from Roswell.
Sharon, Torey and T.J. & extended Hirsch family, Words can not express how sorry I am for your loss. Jacquie is an amazing person, I am so proud to be her friend. I admire Jacquie’s and your entire family’s strength, courage and love for one another. Please know your family is constantly in my thoughts and prayers. To Jax, I love you very much. You are so strong and brave Jax! I wish so badly you never had to go through this fight. You have taught us so much through this battle and now you can rest. Thank you for always being there for me and sharing such great memories with me. I miss you more than you know. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS JACQUIE! WE BELIEVE Love, Amanda
There are no words to make this any easier, but I just wanted to let you know that back when you posted Jacquie’s poem, I posted it in my classroom next to a sign that says believe, and had all my students read it because it is so true and inspriational, so even though Jax is not able to be in her own classroom…she will forever be in mine…and students will learn from her, along with hundreds of others who love and are inspired by her…because she will live in our hearts, actions and souls forever…
Jacquie, It has been incredible being your friend over the years. You have proven to us what strength, courage, humility, and family and friends are all about. You are an inspiration to me, and everyone else who had the pleasure to know you during your time with us. I know you are at peace, in a better place, and I know for sure you are still smiling, as this defines what Jacquie Hirsch is all about. Thank you for being a part of my life, and providing me the laughs, memories, and values I will carry for a lifetime. Most of all, thank you for being Jacquie Hirsch. WE’LL NEVER STOP BELIEVING IN JACQUIE HIRSCH!!!! I will love you always, Michael Long
My deepest condolences go out to the friends and family of Jacquie during this difficult time. Her uplifting influence will be echoed forever in the thoughts and actions of her many admirers.
I am a Geneseo alum and while I never met Jacquie, I have heard her story through many others. I am so sorry for your loss, but I hope you can take comfort in knowing that she is in a better place now, and her spirit will keep on living through all of us from Geneseo, as well as the many others who loved her greatly. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Dear Hirsch family, and friends..I have never met Jacquie. I live in Canada & have been following her story through this website. I have been praying for her. Reading of her loss has brought me great sadness, as I hoped so much for her recovery. It is evident through pictures and the words spoken of her, that she was a incredible young woman. I hope you may all draw comfort from knowing how much she was loved and that now, she is truly at peace. I pray for you, her family and friends, that you may find peace now.Jacquie, you will always be remembered, carried in the hearts of those who love you.
It’s me again- I got a message from Chris Marro who was the Relay for Life chair at Geneseo and I wanted to share what he wrote with you because it is so true, “…Jacquie will never truly die, because she lives on in our hearts Sadie. The strength and courage she’s shown this last year, will continue to inspire us for a lifetime, and that’s something that nobody can ever take away – not even cancer. Her courage and love will always be there when we need it. This is why, no matter the physical outcome of her battle, Jacquie was destined to win. I’m sure you know all of this already, but I know that when things are tough it helps to have someone remind us…”Sending you all all my love. <3 Sadie
I first time I heard Jacquie’s story was at the Relay for Life last spring. I never knew her, but I wish I had. My condolences go out to her family, and I will keep her story with me as a reminder to live everyday to its fullest. God Bless.
Dear Hirsch Famliy,Our deepest sympathies go out to you. Jacquie was a wonderful young woman and she touched so many lives before and after she got sick and she did so much to raise awareness about A.L.L.Whenever our little girls play with their Tinkerbell dolls we will be thinking about Jacquie.Much love,The Orluk’s
There must be Borrowed Angels, here in this life, They come along, into this world, and make this world bright. But they can’t stay forever, ’Cause they’re heaven sent, And sometimes, heaven needs them back again.
Torey, Sharon, and TJ, I am taking a verse from Garth Brook’s “The Dance” – And now I’m glad I didn’t knowThe way it all would end the way it all would goOur lives are better left to chance I could have missed the painBut I’d of had to miss the dance Thank God for the time you had with Jacquie and although it was not long enough by any of our standards, she has touched the lives of many many people. Thank you for sharing your journey, as hard as it was, her fight and your strength have made us all better people. We have learned to embrace each day and be thankful. God bless Karen O’Brien Gaudy
Dear Hirsch Family, I really never knew Jacquie at all. I do remeber her beautiful smile when she worked at the IB on wing night, and walking out of my house, seeing her sun-bathing and reading on her front lawn across the street. However, I am deeply touched by her and her story. I lost my father suddenly this past January, so I know first hand what it is like to lose such a precious piece of your life and heart. Sadie sent a message through the facebook group and I also read TJ’s message on the website. I want all of you to know that they are right; Jacquie will stay alive in every one of you. She made such an impact on your lives, she will live through you. I know this is true because it is what has gotten my mom, brother, sister and I through my daddy’s passing. Like I said, I really didn’t know Jacquie at all, however I know she was an amazingly strong, wonderful young women who taught us all a lesson. And because of her I know myself and many others will remember to cherish every moment, and every loved one in our lives. Thank you for that. Hang in there!!! God bless : )
To all the amazing Hirsch’s, I am so sad and so sorry that this is happening. My heart is breaking. It doesn’t seem real and it certainly isn’t fair. Not one little bit of this is fair. Being with you guys these past few days at Roswell just shows again what we knew – Jacquie is so loved and so cherished and will be held in so many people’s hearts forever. So many people are going to live their lives differently from now on – they won’t take anything for granted and by doing this they will always be remembering Jacquie. Cancer took Jacquie away from this earth way too soon but it in no way beat her. She was always stronger than it and though she felt it was time to go she conquered it still. I love all of you and am sending you strength and peace. I will be here for whatever you need always. To our Jax – I know that you are happy now – I know that you are free and you don’t have to fight anymore yet still it hurts that you aren’t here with us. I promise to hold you in my heart forever and to tell everyone I encounter about you. You have not stopped changing lives and you will continue to teach for generations to come. We will do our best to hold your family and give them strength. We will keep them a part of our lives always and make sure they know how you continue to share your beautiful spirit with this world. I also promise to keep fighting cancer. It had better watch out because it has seriously p*ssed off a lot of people and we will continue to fight it for you. I will love you and miss you always. Sending you all my love and holding you in my heart, <3 Sadie
Dear Torey, Sharon, and TJ, Jacquie was a very beautiful person, and taught many people lessons of life including myself Sarah. I always remember her coming into the gym with such a big smile on, and passing her happiness on to other people. All of your strengths and endurances over these many months are an example to all. Our hearts go out to you, and we wish we could do more to help. Love, Sarah, Cyndi, Charlie, Bryan, and Justin Steffan.
Dear Sharon, Torey & T.J., We want you to know how very sorry we are for all of you. My last time I saw Jacquie was when I was still cleaning at your previous house a couple of years ago and Jacquie was home on break. We talked about several things, but what I remember the most about that day is seeing her and remembering how beautiful she is and how she lights up when she smiles that intoxicating smile. We were so very lucky to have known her for as long as we did. I really don’t know if any words of comfort from anyone anywhere can somehow help you in any way during this time but we hope you all truly know how much of an inspiration all four of you are to anyone who are lucky enough to know you. We will continue to pray for your family and we truly BELIEVE that Jacquie is at peace, and as for me; I will hold on to that beautiful memory of that smile for the rest of my life. Deepest sympathies from Annette, Keith, Collin & the whole the Trosterud family.
Dear Hirsch Family-This is Katie (aka Lubie) Moo’s sidekick growing up. I’ve been following Jacquie’s story from the beginning. I was so angry when I received the news of her passing. But TJ’s words provided comfort so thank you to him for that. I spoke with Moo today and told her how blessed I feel for having known Jacquie. I had her picture in a note on my facebook page and this is what a total stranger to Jacquie said about her-“She was a beautiful women with such a pretty smile.”Find comfort in the legacy she leaves behind. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dear TJ, Sharon, & Torey, May you always have an angel by your side; watching out for you in all the things you do; reminding you to keep believing in brighter days; finding ways for your wishes and dreams to come true; giving you hope that is as certian as the sun; giving you the strength of serenity as your guide; may you always have love and comfort and courage. May you always have an angel by your side; someone there to catch you if you fall; holding your hand and helping you through it all. Jacquie is that angel and she will always be with you. Show her what she taught all of us…to live each day for all it’s worth. She had the most unbelievable strength and courage a young person could have and I greatly admire that. I know the pain of her being gone is undescribable, but she will live on in each of you and she will always be an angel by your side. You’re in my thoughts and prayers <3 Love always, Lauren
To the Hirsch Family-I met Jacquie in July 2006 on our study abroad to Paris, France. She was such a happy, free-spirited, positive person and I am so terribly sorry to hear of her passing. She was a wonderful person and it was a pleasure spending that fantastic month with her. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Dear TJ and Family, We are so sad to hear about Jacquie. She will no longer be in any pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Even though we only met a short time ago you all touched our lives. Love, Amanda, Cindy and Mike Nagurney I know for certain we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in our every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.
Torey,Sharon and TJ Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for you. Jacquie will always be remembered and in our hearts. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love Always.
2001 LIFE A sunrise is like a new beginning. A new beginning to a new day. It’s the only time when you can put your problems behind you. You choose whether you know if it’s going to be a good day, or a bad day. You choose whether you are going to let your problems make or break you. If you choose you are not going to let something bother you, it won’t. If you choose you are going to let something bother you, it will. It’s really that simple. You choose your own destiny. What becomes of your life is depended on you and you alone. You must have confidence. Thats how you attack life, even when you have no control over it. {Please do read it twice as requested in the August 21st Update}. With tears, sorrow, and a heavy heart, my heart felt condolences to the Hirsch Family. I never met jacquie, but I had gotten to know her through this site {Now a wonderful tribute to a person that taught not only children but so many}. God bless you Jacquie and the Hirsch family, we all will miss her!!!!!! Kevin L
From Adrienne ,Sherry Klein Mom, My daughter reads how Jacquie is doing every day, wishing for her miracle to happen, but God must need her with him more.My prayer goes out to her and her family.
Dear Sharon, Torey and TJ, There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. Jacquie will live in you all forever. You’re all in my thoughts and prayers. love, Lisa
I never had the opportunity to meet Jax but all of my SDT friends always spoke so highly of her. I spent the past year believing and praying with all of you. I will be sure to keep you all in my thoughts over the next few months. I hope you can continue to tell stories of Jacquie’s love and determination to get you through this. Know that you are not alone and you have hundreds of Geneseo students thinking of you and Jax every day!!And I believe, that angels breatheAnd that love will live on and never leave.
I wish I had the opportunity to know you all out side these terrible circumstances. Sharon I just wanted to share some thing with you that some one once told me. (If I’d hadn’t shared it with you already, with one of our talks on the Tink floor) You may never know all the answers here on earth but it will all make perfect since when we get to where we are going. I hope that brings you a little peace. I BELIVE it will. I also want to let you know in case you didn’t know already (or it has just slipped your mind) September is Leukemia awareness month. We sure are aware aren’t we?!?! Now just to help Jacquie with her teaching and educate more people!! I’m no good at this so I hope I did ok. God bless Jess & Fudd Rutan (for all of you that don’t know ORANGE is the color for leukemia where it proud for her)
I was so saddened to hear of your loss. Your beautiful child was an inspiration of joy, courage and hope. Our prayers are with you and your family as you both mourn her passing and celebrate Jacquie’s life.
The honest truth…. I am struggling to find words to describe the magnitude of heartache I feel for all of you; TJ, Sharon and Torey with the news of Jacquie’s passing. I believe all of us are better people for having known her, but her physical presence here will be SO GREATLY MISSED. TJ, when I read your last post I actually was not surprised that you were once again in Hirsch fashion trying to ease our pain and keep us focused on the true message Jax would want us to be moving forward with. I give you my heartfelt promise that I will live everyday with gratitude and humble generousity that would honor Jacquie Hirsch. HuGs.
Dear Sharon, Torey & TJ ~ My family and I can’t thank you enough … thank you for being the ultimate example in strength, love and hope… thank you for teaching us the true depth of the power of family… but, most importantly, thank you for sharing the gift of Jacquie… we will never let a day go by where we don’t appreciate every moment… good and bad they are all gifts. In the rough road ahead, please find great comfort in the fact that Jacquie has positively changed more lives in her short 23 years than 99% of the rest of us could ever hope to. Tinkerbell will forever hold a special place in all our hearts… Our deepest love and sympathy — Elise, Martin, Quintin, Aidan, Gabriel & Fiona
Dear Friends, My heart is breaking for your loss. I cannot imagine how you are holding up, but please know that we continue to pray for your family, and will be here for whatever your needs may be. Your beautiful angel is free, and I know Jesus is holding her now. My tears are for you, remembering the day we were at Starbucks and you said” Won’t Jacquie be proud when she hears we came here” My deepest sympathy and love. Linda Sheriff
To the Hirsch Family: Like many others, I was not fortunate enough to have met Jacquie. I have a connection with her through SDT and heard about her situation in this way. Reading her story and the countless messages from family, friends, and strangers, I feel like I know her and can feel the her strength. It is clear that she has made her mark in this world; one that has touched the lives of many and will not be forgotten. I can not imagine the grief you are now feeling, but I hope you take comfort eventually in knowing that she is with God in paradise, at peace. It may not seem as though our prayers have been answered, but I have come to know, God does answer, just not always the way we would like. I am sure many have wished her to be in no more pain, with no more suffering…. that is now the case. While you mourn for the loss of someone so special, don’t forget to celebrate her life… from what I can tell it was truly miraculous and remarkable. You will all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. With love, Kristin
There’s no one in town I knowYou gave us some place to go.I never said thank you for that.I thought I might get one more chance.What would you think of me now,so lucky, so strong, so proud?I never said thank you for that,now I’ll never have a chance.May angels lead you in.Hear you me my friends.On sleepless roads the sleepless go.May angels lead you in.So what would you think of me now,so lucky, so strong, so proud?I never said thank you for that,now I’ll never have a chance.May angels lead you in. Hear you me my friends.On sleepless roads the sleepless go.May angels lead you in.May angels lead you in.May angels lead you in.And if you were with me tonight,I’d sing to you just one more time.A song for a heart so big,god wouldn’t let it live.May angels lead you in.Hear you me my friends.On sleepless roads the sleepless go.May angels lead you in.May angels lead you in.Hear you me my friends.On sleepless roads the sleepless go.May angels lead you in.May angels lead you in.
Dear Hirsch Family, The verse I wanted to share with you didn’t come out in my first post, so I am trying to write it again. And again, my most heartfelt sympathy is with you at this difficult time and I hope you and all of Jacquie’s believers will find peace and strength in the lesson that she left behind. No Person is Truly Alone Richard Fife No person is truly alone, Those who live no more, whom we loved, echo still within our thoughts, our words, our hearts. And what they did and who they were become a part of all we are, forever. Peace be with you as it is with Jacquie, Olha Magill
To the entire Hirsch family– I have been hesitant to write prior to this, because I know we don’t really know each other, and I truly felt that what you were all going through was so intensely personal and painful, that I didn’t want to “intrude”. But I feel so deeply for all of you and I know there are no words to adequately describe the devastating loss you’re feeling. But there’s a poem I read that may bring you some sense of peace: “Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there I do not sleep I am a thousand winds that blow I am the diamond glints on snow I am the sun on ripened grain I am the gentle autumn’s rain When you awaken in the morning’s hugh I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight I am the soft starts that shine at night Do not stand at my grave and cry I am not there I did not die… Think of Jacquie and all the love she has brought to this life… Take care of each other… The Levins
To the Hirsch Family,I am devastated for your loss. So many people share in your grief. The North gymnastics team supported each other so beautifully today and I was honored to hear so many amazing stories about Jacquie, which they all shared with smiles and laughter. May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared comfort you now and in the days ahead.Our love,The Weinriebs
Hirsch Family,Thank you so much for maintaining this website and letting all of your supporters, both strangers and friends, make this difficult journey with you. I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through, but I hope you realize what a tremendous impact Jacquie’s story has had on so many people, many of whom, like myself, have never met Jacquie. As a member of Colleges against Cancer, I have read your updates daily and have prayed for Jacquie along the way.I volunteer at a Children’s hospital every Saturday, and yesterday I went to see a patient that I have spent time with for the past few weeks. When I arrived I noticed something that had not been there before: the girl had torn a large picture of Tinkerbell out of a magazine and hung it on her wall. I immediately thought of Jacquie and your family, and believed that everything would work out for the best. I hope that you are comforted knowing that Jacquie does not have to struggle any longer. I wish you all happiness and a great future.Tina Jensen
I BELIEVED, and still BELIEVE, that God is looking after Jacquie and the whole Hirsch family. God protect and look after your family in this most difficult time in your lives. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. What an honor to know all of you and what an inspiration you have been to me. I thank Jacquie and all of you for sharing this journey with us. Love Donna
So Sorry to hear the sad news today. We never met Jacquie but our daughter Hollie had the priveledge of doing so and she tells us she was a remarkable woman. Thinking of you all and keeping you in our prayers God Bless
Dear Hirsch Family, After hearing the heartbreaking news, I could do nothing but hope and pray that Jax’s loved ones can cope with the loss. I dont think it is irony that it is raining today. I believe the angels are crying, one of them being Jacquie herself, supporting those who care for her. From what I hear she will be the Angel with the best smile in all of Heaven. I feel confident saying that all of those who Believed in Jacquie, contnue to Believe in the Hirsch family as they get through this difficult time. You dont have to look far to find someone who will help you with anything you need, myself included. Jacquie will never truely be gone. Her spirit will live forever in an army’s worth of hearts. Take Care and may God Bless the Hirsh family and friends. ~With Love ~Joe Browning
My Dearest Sharon,Torey.T.J and family. It is with a heavy heart I write to you.There are no words to express how deeply sorry we are for all of your loss.You were all so blessed to have had such a wonderful person in your life.God sent you an angel and now he has called her home. Her job on earth is done for now, she has shown so much of us how to really fight,love and endure. I’m sure that there will never be another person like her in our life time. I know that she is in a better place,it is all of us that will feel the pain of not seeing her or not able to talk to her. She will be listening, so try to talk to her everyday and remember how much love she has given to so many. A Traveler coming HomeA traveler ventured fourth one dayUpon a long and winding roadWith faith and trust to lead the way,With strength and will to bear his load.And at a slow but steady pace,In a cold of storm, in warmth of sun,He journeyed on from place to placeAnd gained some value from each one.Until at last one quiet night,He climbed a hill’s soft-rounding crest.And saw afar a sing light.That seemed to promise peace and rest. Then following its glow, he cameUpon the house in which it shone. A voice inside called out his name.And told him he was truly home. Now all of us must travel, too–Like his, our paths wind slowly on,And surely when the course is through,A welcome comfort waits beyond.May we believe that sweet contentIs earned by all those miles passed,And never doubt each traveler’s meantTo reach a loving home at last.With Sincere Sympathy,Love,Debbie and Family
Sharon, Torey and T.J., My prayer is that God is holding you with all His love and comfort. I feel so blessed to have been with Jacquie yesterday and that I could feel the incredible love and stength that your family has for Jacquie and eachother. TJ, what wisdom you have at such a difficult time. You are right, everyone who knew Jacquie and even those who didn’t, were blessed by the most precious gift of her love that will live on forever in all of our hearts! We love you, Missy,Mark, Emma, Kate and Amelia
Torey, Sharon, TJ and family, Mere words cannot express our sadness for your loss. We have followed yours and Jacquie’s journey with this terrible disease for months and found ourselves so inspired by your strength….strength that we dont know we could find if faced with the same battle. Please know that you and Jacquie helped us many days, when faced with smaller struggles, to put things in perspective and look on the bright side. We will forever remember the Jacquie we knew in the gym, the Jacquie that Molly had the pleasure of visiting with Sharon and Megan for a day roadtrip, and Jacquie-your beautiful daughter. Our hearts are filled with love for all of you….. Love, Dan, Cindy, Molly & Megan
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Joy Schaefer says:
September 8, 2008 at 3:59 am -
Sharon, Torey, TJ and the rest of the family,It has been a while since i saw you all last. I flew to Buffalo to come to one of the marrow drives for Jacquie. I didn’t know what to say to any of you. It is no easier now. Mom, Dad, Ryan and myself were close to you all for along time years ago. We have never forgotten the wonderful times we shared together. The boys got to drive together in college but Jacquie and I just went our ways. She was a good friend of mine when we were younger and I will always love her and your family. My family can only wish you all the best we can. We give you all and Jacquie our thoughts and love.Wish I could be there please know that.Never forgetAlways Lovedlove The Schaefer Family
Michele says:
September 8, 2008 at 1:22 am -
to the Hirsch’s My heart aches for your loss of a beautiful girl! I have always been a fan of Tinker Bell, I will never think of her the same now when I hear Tink or see Tink Jacquie will always come to my mind. I didn’t know you well but I am blessed for the time I was able to care for Jacquie here at Roswell- Sometimes are prayers aren’t answered as we would like them to be but God’s plan is always the right one, and now that Jacquie received her wings she can truly fly! Please hold on to yur Faith and lean on God to hold you up during this difficult time, Jacquie has touched so many people around the world that she has fulfilled her purpose here on earth and we are so greatful for that!! Don’t stop Believing!! If anything this is what she taught us Hold on and Fight strong! And Believe!!! Thank you for allowing us to care for your precious child. God Bless! Michele nurse from Roswell.
Amanda Cavarella says:
September 8, 2008 at 12:41 am -
Sharon, Torey and T.J. & extended Hirsch family, Words can not express how sorry I am for your loss. Jacquie is an amazing person, I am so proud to be her friend. I admire Jacquie’s and your entire family’s strength, courage and love for one another. Please know your family is constantly in my thoughts and prayers. To Jax, I love you very much. You are so strong and brave Jax! I wish so badly you never had to go through this fight. You have taught us so much through this battle and now you can rest. Thank you for always being there for me and sharing such great memories with me. I miss you more than you know. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS JACQUIE! WE BELIEVE Love, Amanda
Colleen Adam says:
September 8, 2008 at 12:24 am -
There are no words to make this any easier, but I just wanted to let you know that back when you posted Jacquie’s poem, I posted it in my classroom next to a sign that says believe, and had all my students read it because it is so true and inspriational, so even though Jax is not able to be in her own classroom…she will forever be in mine…and students will learn from her, along with hundreds of others who love and are inspired by her…because she will live in our hearts, actions and souls forever…
Michael Long says:
September 8, 2008 at 12:00 am -
Jacquie, It has been incredible being your friend over the years. You have proven to us what strength, courage, humility, and family and friends are all about. You are an inspiration to me, and everyone else who had the pleasure to know you during your time with us. I know you are at peace, in a better place, and I know for sure you are still smiling, as this defines what Jacquie Hirsch is all about. Thank you for being a part of my life, and providing me the laughs, memories, and values I will carry for a lifetime. Most of all, thank you for being Jacquie Hirsch. WE’LL NEVER STOP BELIEVING IN JACQUIE HIRSCH!!!! I will love you always, Michael Long
Mike Sulkowski says:
September 7, 2008 at 11:49 pm -
My deepest condolences go out to the friends and family of Jacquie during this difficult time. Her uplifting influence will be echoed forever in the thoughts and actions of her many admirers.
Anonymous says:
September 7, 2008 at 11:37 pm -
I am a Geneseo alum and while I never met Jacquie, I have heard her story through many others. I am so sorry for your loss, but I hope you can take comfort in knowing that she is in a better place now, and her spirit will keep on living through all of us from Geneseo, as well as the many others who loved her greatly. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
from Canada says:
September 7, 2008 at 11:30 pm -
Dear Hirsch family, and friends..I have never met Jacquie. I live in Canada & have been following her story through this website. I have been praying for her. Reading of her loss has brought me great sadness, as I hoped so much for her recovery. It is evident through pictures and the words spoken of her, that she was a incredible young woman. I hope you may all draw comfort from knowing how much she was loved and that now, she is truly at peace. I pray for you, her family and friends, that you may find peace now.Jacquie, you will always be remembered, carried in the hearts of those who love you.
Sadie says:
September 7, 2008 at 11:29 pm -
It’s me again- I got a message from Chris Marro who was the Relay for Life chair at Geneseo and I wanted to share what he wrote with you because it is so true, “…Jacquie will never truly die, because she lives on in our hearts Sadie. The strength and courage she’s shown this last year, will continue to inspire us for a lifetime, and that’s something that nobody can ever take away – not even cancer. Her courage and love will always be there when we need it. This is why, no matter the physical outcome of her battle, Jacquie was destined to win. I’m sure you know all of this already, but I know that when things are tough it helps to have someone remind us…”Sending you all all my love. <3 Sadie
Fellow Geneseoan says:
September 7, 2008 at 11:17 pm -
I first time I heard Jacquie’s story was at the Relay for Life last spring. I never knew her, but I wish I had. My condolences go out to her family, and I will keep her story with me as a reminder to live everyday to its fullest. God Bless.
Christa and Mary Jo Greenberg says:
September 7, 2008 at 11:16 pm -
Dear Torey, Sharon and TJ, We are deeply sorry for your loss and hope that some comfort come from your memories and the love Jacquie shared with you.
The Orluk Family says:
September 7, 2008 at 11:03 pm -
Dear Hirsch Famliy,Our deepest sympathies go out to you. Jacquie was a wonderful young woman and she touched so many lives before and after she got sick and she did so much to raise awareness about A.L.L.Whenever our little girls play with their Tinkerbell dolls we will be thinking about Jacquie.Much love,The Orluk’s
* says:
September 7, 2008 at 10:56 pm -
i am so incredibly sorry. i am praying that you all may find peace and comfort in such a devastating time.
If God brings you to it, he’ll bring you THR says:
September 7, 2008 at 10:35 pm -
There must be Borrowed Angels, here in this life, They come along, into this world, and make this world bright. But they can’t stay forever, ’Cause they’re heaven sent, And sometimes, heaven needs them back again.
Karen Gaudy (Allison’s mom) says:
September 7, 2008 at 10:33 pm -
Torey, Sharon, and TJ, I am taking a verse from Garth Brook’s “The Dance” – And now I’m glad I didn’t knowThe way it all would end the way it all would goOur lives are better left to chance I could have missed the painBut I’d of had to miss the dance Thank God for the time you had with Jacquie and although it was not long enough by any of our standards, she has touched the lives of many many people. Thank you for sharing your journey, as hard as it was, her fight and your strength have made us all better people. We have learned to embrace each day and be thankful. God bless Karen O’Brien Gaudy
Sarah says:
September 7, 2008 at 10:33 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, I really never knew Jacquie at all. I do remeber her beautiful smile when she worked at the IB on wing night, and walking out of my house, seeing her sun-bathing and reading on her front lawn across the street. However, I am deeply touched by her and her story. I lost my father suddenly this past January, so I know first hand what it is like to lose such a precious piece of your life and heart. Sadie sent a message through the facebook group and I also read TJ’s message on the website. I want all of you to know that they are right; Jacquie will stay alive in every one of you. She made such an impact on your lives, she will live through you. I know this is true because it is what has gotten my mom, brother, sister and I through my daddy’s passing. Like I said, I really didn’t know Jacquie at all, however I know she was an amazingly strong, wonderful young women who taught us all a lesson. And because of her I know myself and many others will remember to cherish every moment, and every loved one in our lives. Thank you for that. Hang in there!!! God bless : )
Sadie says:
September 7, 2008 at 10:28 pm -
To all the amazing Hirsch’s, I am so sad and so sorry that this is happening. My heart is breaking. It doesn’t seem real and it certainly isn’t fair. Not one little bit of this is fair. Being with you guys these past few days at Roswell just shows again what we knew – Jacquie is so loved and so cherished and will be held in so many people’s hearts forever. So many people are going to live their lives differently from now on – they won’t take anything for granted and by doing this they will always be remembering Jacquie. Cancer took Jacquie away from this earth way too soon but it in no way beat her. She was always stronger than it and though she felt it was time to go she conquered it still. I love all of you and am sending you strength and peace. I will be here for whatever you need always. To our Jax – I know that you are happy now – I know that you are free and you don’t have to fight anymore yet still it hurts that you aren’t here with us. I promise to hold you in my heart forever and to tell everyone I encounter about you. You have not stopped changing lives and you will continue to teach for generations to come. We will do our best to hold your family and give them strength. We will keep them a part of our lives always and make sure they know how you continue to share your beautiful spirit with this world. I also promise to keep fighting cancer. It had better watch out because it has seriously p*ssed off a lot of people and we will continue to fight it for you. I will love you and miss you always. Sending you all my love and holding you in my heart, <3 Sadie
The Steffan Family says:
September 7, 2008 at 9:47 pm -
Dear Torey, Sharon, and TJ, Jacquie was a very beautiful person, and taught many people lessons of life including myself Sarah. I always remember her coming into the gym with such a big smile on, and passing her happiness on to other people. All of your strengths and endurances over these many months are an example to all. Our hearts go out to you, and we wish we could do more to help. Love, Sarah, Cyndi, Charlie, Bryan, and Justin Steffan.
Anonymous says:
September 7, 2008 at 9:38 pm -
My sincerest condolences for your loss.
Annette Trosterud says:
September 7, 2008 at 9:07 pm -
Dear Sharon, Torey & T.J., We want you to know how very sorry we are for all of you. My last time I saw Jacquie was when I was still cleaning at your previous house a couple of years ago and Jacquie was home on break. We talked about several things, but what I remember the most about that day is seeing her and remembering how beautiful she is and how she lights up when she smiles that intoxicating smile. We were so very lucky to have known her for as long as we did. I really don’t know if any words of comfort from anyone anywhere can somehow help you in any way during this time but we hope you all truly know how much of an inspiration all four of you are to anyone who are lucky enough to know you. We will continue to pray for your family and we truly BELIEVE that Jacquie is at peace, and as for me; I will hold on to that beautiful memory of that smile for the rest of my life. Deepest sympathies from Annette, Keith, Collin & the whole the Trosterud family.
Katie Olmsted McIntyre says:
September 7, 2008 at 8:59 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family-This is Katie (aka Lubie) Moo’s sidekick growing up. I’ve been following Jacquie’s story from the beginning. I was so angry when I received the news of her passing. But TJ’s words provided comfort so thank you to him for that. I spoke with Moo today and told her how blessed I feel for having known Jacquie. I had her picture in a note on my facebook page and this is what a total stranger to Jacquie said about her-“She was a beautiful women with such a pretty smile.”Find comfort in the legacy she leaves behind. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lauren Schilling says:
September 7, 2008 at 8:58 pm -
Dear TJ, Sharon, & Torey, May you always have an angel by your side; watching out for you in all the things you do; reminding you to keep believing in brighter days; finding ways for your wishes and dreams to come true; giving you hope that is as certian as the sun; giving you the strength of serenity as your guide; may you always have love and comfort and courage. May you always have an angel by your side; someone there to catch you if you fall; holding your hand and helping you through it all. Jacquie is that angel and she will always be with you. Show her what she taught all of us…to live each day for all it’s worth. She had the most unbelievable strength and courage a young person could have and I greatly admire that. I know the pain of her being gone is undescribable, but she will live on in each of you and she will always be an angel by your side. You’re in my thoughts and prayers <3 Love always, Lauren
Kate DiFiore says:
September 7, 2008 at 8:48 pm -
To the Hirsch Family-I met Jacquie in July 2006 on our study abroad to Paris, France. She was such a happy, free-spirited, positive person and I am so terribly sorry to hear of her passing. She was a wonderful person and it was a pleasure spending that fantastic month with her. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
The Nagurney Family says:
September 7, 2008 at 8:40 pm -
Dear TJ and Family, We are so sad to hear about Jacquie. She will no longer be in any pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Even though we only met a short time ago you all touched our lives. Love, Amanda, Cindy and Mike Nagurney I know for certain we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in our every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.
Joe & Rose Mary Buscaglia says:
September 7, 2008 at 8:24 pm -
Torey,Sharon and TJ Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for you. Jacquie will always be remembered and in our hearts. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love Always.
A poem from Jacquie says:
September 7, 2008 at 8:16 pm -
2001 LIFE A sunrise is like a new beginning. A new beginning to a new day. It’s the only time when you can put your problems behind you. You choose whether you know if it’s going to be a good day, or a bad day. You choose whether you are going to let your problems make or break you. If you choose you are not going to let something bother you, it won’t. If you choose you are going to let something bother you, it will. It’s really that simple. You choose your own destiny. What becomes of your life is depended on you and you alone. You must have confidence. Thats how you attack life, even when you have no control over it. {Please do read it twice as requested in the August 21st Update}. With tears, sorrow, and a heavy heart, my heart felt condolences to the Hirsch Family. I never met jacquie, but I had gotten to know her through this site {Now a wonderful tribute to a person that taught not only children but so many}. God bless you Jacquie and the Hirsch family, we all will miss her!!!!!! Kevin L
still a believer says:
September 7, 2008 at 8:16 pm -
Nedescu Family says:
September 7, 2008 at 8:08 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jacquie’s story has touched so many, we will always keep her in our hearts.
Anonymous says:
September 7, 2008 at 7:33 pm -
From Adrienne ,Sherry Klein Mom, My daughter reads how Jacquie is doing every day, wishing for her miracle to happen, but God must need her with him more.My prayer goes out to her and her family.
Lisa Weber says:
September 7, 2008 at 7:09 pm -
Dear Sharon, Torey and TJ, There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. Jacquie will live in you all forever. You’re all in my thoughts and prayers. love, Lisa
Anonymous says:
September 7, 2008 at 6:23 pm -
I never had the opportunity to meet Jax but all of my SDT friends always spoke so highly of her. I spent the past year believing and praying with all of you. I will be sure to keep you all in my thoughts over the next few months. I hope you can continue to tell stories of Jacquie’s love and determination to get you through this. Know that you are not alone and you have hundreds of Geneseo students thinking of you and Jax every day!!And I believe, that angels breatheAnd that love will live on and never leave.
Jess & Fudd Rutan says:
September 7, 2008 at 6:20 pm -
I wish I had the opportunity to know you all out side these terrible circumstances. Sharon I just wanted to share some thing with you that some one once told me. (If I’d hadn’t shared it with you already, with one of our talks on the Tink floor) You may never know all the answers here on earth but it will all make perfect since when we get to where we are going. I hope that brings you a little peace. I BELIVE it will. I also want to let you know in case you didn’t know already (or it has just slipped your mind) September is Leukemia awareness month. We sure are aware aren’t we?!?! Now just to help Jacquie with her teaching and educate more people!! I’m no good at this so I hope I did ok. God bless Jess & Fudd Rutan (for all of you that don’t know ORANGE is the color for leukemia where it proud for her)
Kathy Sokol says:
September 7, 2008 at 6:14 pm -
I was so saddened to hear of your loss. Your beautiful child was an inspiration of joy, courage and hope. Our prayers are with you and your family as you both mourn her passing and celebrate Jacquie’s life.
Pam L says:
September 7, 2008 at 5:54 pm -
The honest truth…. I am struggling to find words to describe the magnitude of heartache I feel for all of you; TJ, Sharon and Torey with the news of Jacquie’s passing. I believe all of us are better people for having known her, but her physical presence here will be SO GREATLY MISSED. TJ, when I read your last post I actually was not surprised that you were once again in Hirsch fashion trying to ease our pain and keep us focused on the true message Jax would want us to be moving forward with. I give you my heartfelt promise that I will live everyday with gratitude and humble generousity that would honor Jacquie Hirsch. HuGs.
Elise Cusack & Family says:
September 7, 2008 at 5:50 pm -
Dear Sharon, Torey & TJ ~ My family and I can’t thank you enough … thank you for being the ultimate example in strength, love and hope… thank you for teaching us the true depth of the power of family… but, most importantly, thank you for sharing the gift of Jacquie… we will never let a day go by where we don’t appreciate every moment… good and bad they are all gifts. In the rough road ahead, please find great comfort in the fact that Jacquie has positively changed more lives in her short 23 years than 99% of the rest of us could ever hope to. Tinkerbell will forever hold a special place in all our hearts… Our deepest love and sympathy — Elise, Martin, Quintin, Aidan, Gabriel & Fiona
Linda Sheriff says:
September 7, 2008 at 5:48 pm -
Dear Friends, My heart is breaking for your loss. I cannot imagine how you are holding up, but please know that we continue to pray for your family, and will be here for whatever your needs may be. Your beautiful angel is free, and I know Jesus is holding her now. My tears are for you, remembering the day we were at Starbucks and you said” Won’t Jacquie be proud when she hears we came here” My deepest sympathy and love. Linda Sheriff
Kristin D’Amico says:
September 7, 2008 at 5:35 pm -
To the Hirsch Family: Like many others, I was not fortunate enough to have met Jacquie. I have a connection with her through SDT and heard about her situation in this way. Reading her story and the countless messages from family, friends, and strangers, I feel like I know her and can feel the her strength. It is clear that she has made her mark in this world; one that has touched the lives of many and will not be forgotten. I can not imagine the grief you are now feeling, but I hope you take comfort eventually in knowing that she is with God in paradise, at peace. It may not seem as though our prayers have been answered, but I have come to know, God does answer, just not always the way we would like. I am sure many have wished her to be in no more pain, with no more suffering…. that is now the case. While you mourn for the loss of someone so special, don’t forget to celebrate her life… from what I can tell it was truly miraculous and remarkable. You will all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. With love, Kristin
Heavens Newest Angel!! says:
September 7, 2008 at 5:34 pm -
There’s no one in town I knowYou gave us some place to go.I never said thank you for that.I thought I might get one more chance.What would you think of me now,so lucky, so strong, so proud?I never said thank you for that,now I’ll never have a chance.May angels lead you in.Hear you me my friends.On sleepless roads the sleepless go.May angels lead you in.So what would you think of me now,so lucky, so strong, so proud?I never said thank you for that,now I’ll never have a chance.May angels lead you in. Hear you me my friends.On sleepless roads the sleepless go.May angels lead you in.May angels lead you in.May angels lead you in.And if you were with me tonight,I’d sing to you just one more time.A song for a heart so big,god wouldn’t let it live.May angels lead you in.Hear you me my friends.On sleepless roads the sleepless go.May angels lead you in.May angels lead you in.Hear you me my friends.On sleepless roads the sleepless go.May angels lead you in.May angels lead you in.
Anonymous says:
September 7, 2008 at 4:53 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, The verse I wanted to share with you didn’t come out in my first post, so I am trying to write it again. And again, my most heartfelt sympathy is with you at this difficult time and I hope you and all of Jacquie’s believers will find peace and strength in the lesson that she left behind. No Person is Truly Alone Richard Fife No person is truly alone, Those who live no more, whom we loved, echo still within our thoughts, our words, our hearts. And what they did and who they were become a part of all we are, forever. Peace be with you as it is with Jacquie, Olha Magill
Shelley, Arnie, Andy & Corey Levin says:
September 7, 2008 at 4:53 pm -
To the entire Hirsch family– I have been hesitant to write prior to this, because I know we don’t really know each other, and I truly felt that what you were all going through was so intensely personal and painful, that I didn’t want to “intrude”. But I feel so deeply for all of you and I know there are no words to adequately describe the devastating loss you’re feeling. But there’s a poem I read that may bring you some sense of peace: “Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there I do not sleep I am a thousand winds that blow I am the diamond glints on snow I am the sun on ripened grain I am the gentle autumn’s rain When you awaken in the morning’s hugh I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight I am the soft starts that shine at night Do not stand at my grave and cry I am not there I did not die… Think of Jacquie and all the love she has brought to this life… Take care of each other… The Levins
Renee Weinrieb says:
September 7, 2008 at 4:12 pm -
To the Hirsch Family,I am devastated for your loss. So many people share in your grief. The North gymnastics team supported each other so beautifully today and I was honored to hear so many amazing stories about Jacquie, which they all shared with smiles and laughter. May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared comfort you now and in the days ahead.Our love,The Weinriebs
Tina says:
September 7, 2008 at 3:50 pm -
Hirsch Family,Thank you so much for maintaining this website and letting all of your supporters, both strangers and friends, make this difficult journey with you. I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through, but I hope you realize what a tremendous impact Jacquie’s story has had on so many people, many of whom, like myself, have never met Jacquie. As a member of Colleges against Cancer, I have read your updates daily and have prayed for Jacquie along the way.I volunteer at a Children’s hospital every Saturday, and yesterday I went to see a patient that I have spent time with for the past few weeks. When I arrived I noticed something that had not been there before: the girl had torn a large picture of Tinkerbell out of a magazine and hung it on her wall. I immediately thought of Jacquie and your family, and believed that everything would work out for the best. I hope that you are comforted knowing that Jacquie does not have to struggle any longer. I wish you all happiness and a great future.Tina Jensen
AZ sky is crying...MPS says:
September 7, 2008 at 3:41 pm -
Jessica Gucwa says:
September 7, 2008 at 3:35 pm -
Donna Moore says:
September 7, 2008 at 3:35 pm -
I BELIEVED, and still BELIEVE, that God is looking after Jacquie and the whole Hirsch family. God protect and look after your family in this most difficult time in your lives. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. What an honor to know all of you and what an inspiration you have been to me. I thank Jacquie and all of you for sharing this journey with us. Love Donna
The Davidson Family Blackpool England says:
September 7, 2008 at 3:01 pm -
So Sorry to hear the sad news today. We never met Jacquie but our daughter Hollie had the priveledge of doing so and she tells us she was a remarkable woman. Thinking of you all and keeping you in our prayers God Bless
Joe Browning says:
September 7, 2008 at 2:54 pm -
Dear Hirsch Family, After hearing the heartbreaking news, I could do nothing but hope and pray that Jax’s loved ones can cope with the loss. I dont think it is irony that it is raining today. I believe the angels are crying, one of them being Jacquie herself, supporting those who care for her. From what I hear she will be the Angel with the best smile in all of Heaven. I feel confident saying that all of those who Believed in Jacquie, contnue to Believe in the Hirsch family as they get through this difficult time. You dont have to look far to find someone who will help you with anything you need, myself included. Jacquie will never truely be gone. Her spirit will live forever in an army’s worth of hearts. Take Care and may God Bless the Hirsh family and friends. ~With Love ~Joe Browning
Debbie and family says:
September 7, 2008 at 2:53 pm -
My Dearest Sharon,Torey.T.J and family. It is with a heavy heart I write to you.There are no words to express how deeply sorry we are for all of your loss.You were all so blessed to have had such a wonderful person in your life.God sent you an angel and now he has called her home. Her job on earth is done for now, she has shown so much of us how to really fight,love and endure. I’m sure that there will never be another person like her in our life time. I know that she is in a better place,it is all of us that will feel the pain of not seeing her or not able to talk to her. She will be listening, so try to talk to her everyday and remember how much love she has given to so many. A Traveler coming HomeA traveler ventured fourth one dayUpon a long and winding roadWith faith and trust to lead the way,With strength and will to bear his load.And at a slow but steady pace,In a cold of storm, in warmth of sun,He journeyed on from place to placeAnd gained some value from each one.Until at last one quiet night,He climbed a hill’s soft-rounding crest.And saw afar a sing light.That seemed to promise peace and rest. Then following its glow, he cameUpon the house in which it shone. A voice inside called out his name.And told him he was truly home. Now all of us must travel, too–Like his, our paths wind slowly on,And surely when the course is through,A welcome comfort waits beyond.May we believe that sweet contentIs earned by all those miles passed,And never doubt each traveler’s meantTo reach a loving home at last.With Sincere Sympathy,Love,Debbie and Family
The Somers says:
September 7, 2008 at 2:40 pm -
Sharon, Torey and T.J., My prayer is that God is holding you with all His love and comfort. I feel so blessed to have been with Jacquie yesterday and that I could feel the incredible love and stength that your family has for Jacquie and eachother. TJ, what wisdom you have at such a difficult time. You are right, everyone who knew Jacquie and even those who didn’t, were blessed by the most precious gift of her love that will live on forever in all of our hearts! We love you, Missy,Mark, Emma, Kate and Amelia
The Coakley family says:
September 7, 2008 at 2:27 pm -
Torey, Sharon, TJ and family, Mere words cannot express our sadness for your loss. We have followed yours and Jacquie’s journey with this terrible disease for months and found ourselves so inspired by your strength….strength that we dont know we could find if faced with the same battle. Please know that you and Jacquie helped us many days, when faced with smaller struggles, to put things in perspective and look on the bright side. We will forever remember the Jacquie we knew in the gym, the Jacquie that Molly had the pleasure of visiting with Sharon and Megan for a day roadtrip, and Jacquie-your beautiful daughter. Our hearts are filled with love for all of you….. Love, Dan, Cindy, Molly & Megan